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[cruelintentions92]

POT Dating Tips

1. Always confirm the same day that you guys are meeting. These men have crazy schedules and they can cancel on you same day, best to know before you do your hair & makeup. 

2. Never drive or uber a long distance to meet them. They should offer to come to you and if they don’t they should offer to uber you. I always get ubered to my dates, I never give them my real address obviously but somewhere close that I could walk or a place I could drive to and leave my car. Driving or ubering a far distance because he said he would reimburse you isn’t worth the risk. These men ain’t shit! they will lie to you. Don’t risk being out of gas or money, never worth it. 

3. Always vet them before you meet them, nothing worse than going on POT date to find out he wants to pay you 200 per meeting. ASk questions nothing to invasive but just enough to see if can meet your needs. If you want monthly allowances make sure he’s open to that. IF he wants to do per meet to start, discuss how much. You can obviously negotiate a better price in person, but make sure you guys are in the same range $$$.  Don't’ waste your hair/makeup and a cute outfit on a fuck boy who thinks he’s a sugar daddy. NEVER go on the POT with someone who gives you weird vibes, I mean if he’s weird over the phone he probably won’t be better in person, nothing is worth your safety. 

4. Be cute but comfortable, Opt for the heels that are more comfortable over the ones that may look better with the outfit.  Nothing worst than being out and having your feet hurt the entire time. 

5. Be sexy and alluring without showing too much. I have big boobs so no matter what I wear their gonna show, but I always wear dresses that aren’t  too tight or show that much cleavage. He may want to take you to social events with his colleagues or friends, you don’t want to show up on your first encounter with your boobs out or a dress that barely covers your ass. You want to give off a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets vibe. You don’t have to spend much to look great, Forever 21 or Zara has great dress options that are affordable. Macy’s always has in store sales on shoes ( Got a couple of heels from there), DSW also. A little black dress with some cute heels and some simple accessories can go a long way, ladies. For new sugars, you can spend under 100 bucks buy a cute outfit that you can re-wear to multiple POT dates. Ball on a budget until you can get him to take you, to Saks ;)

6. Knowledge is key! reading book  Ho Tactics and the art of seduction has really stepped my sugar skills up. Body language and confidence is everything! This may sound silly but I practice my faces in the mirror so I can get an idea of what I’m looking like when I say certain things, also what angles i look best in so I know how to tilt my head or smile. You have to mindfuck these to give you everything you want but never had. I always give eye contact it shows that you are really engaged it also turns guys on. I always order martinis or wine because of the way the glass fit in your hand. Eating a  olive off a  toothpick while eye fucking a guy will drive him crazy. Always ask follow up questions, whens he’s going on and on about his job or life, in general, show that your interested make comments be engaging. Also, brush up on current events, I use the SKIMM to help keep me up to date on current events. Be pretty but also cultured.

7. Always choose a high-end restaurant in your area. I usually yelp and look for restaurants with $$$ that has the best reviews, I legit have been to areas in D.C that I wouldn’t have been able to afford or even heard of. Set your standards high and don’t lower them. Don’t ever go out with a guy who thinks going to some cheap chain restaurant is acceptable. Like your makeup shouldn’t cost more than the menu. Gain knowledge on the nicest spots in your area, if he wants to take you somewhere lower end that’s the easiest way to spot a Splenda. If it doesn’t go anywhere at least you got to go to a nice ass restaurant, ate some good ass food, and drank some wine that cost as much your textbooks. Still a win. 

8. If you’re meeting for a quick date such as Starbucks ( which I don’t even recommend, they give me Splenda vibes)  make sure you choose a time when it’s not too pack. You don’t want to walk into a packed Starbucks with the line to door and no seats for your first date it sets an awkward tone. You want to be in a quiet setting where you can discuss the arrangement privately, without random people walking by every minute.  Choose a time after lunch, or later in the evening. 

9.Safety First! Never give out private information, give out fake email address, phone numbers, etc. The only thing I’m truthful about is that I’m a student and my age. Never get into a POT car, or go back to his place. I also send my friends my location so they know where I’m at all times. Also download a safety app, very useful. If a guy gives you weird vibe excuse yourself to the bathroom and call a uber, try to find a different exit and leave his ass. Never meet up in a sketchy area or place. Make sure the place is public and that it is quiet but moderately packed. Never meet up too late in the night, and don't’ over a drink. Overdrinking puts you in a bad head space which can lead to a bad situation that could be unsafe. I have no more than 3 cocktails on date depending on the time we are together. These sites are filled with psychos, be careful !. 

10. Last but not least Never give up the pussy until you get yours. Things happen maybe you drank too much, or he was really cute so the chemistry was there but it is never a good idea to sleep with POT before the arrangement has been hashed out.  This is not normal dating and he is not your bf. Unless he’s paying your bills, tuition, rent or aiding your makeup addiction why does he deserve pussy???? Always get your first, these men will fuck and dip out never to be seen again. GIving him quick access will not get your bills paid sis, don’t do it. Before you think about giving him some think about your rent that’s about to be due, the tuition you still have to pay, that car payment, or Rihanna new makeup line that’s about to drop.  Pussy is power use it wisely!

Feel free to add on ladies. Pusssy is power, let’s encourage each other and help each other to mindfuck these men! #TeamVagina

[fucklovepayme]

How to Not Have The Generic Sugar Baby Profile

I’m sorry, but I’m tired of seeing you hoes have the same generic sugar baby profiles and wonder why you’re not getting the responses that you want! We always talk about what “sugar daddies” like to mention on their profiles, but we don’t discuss what sugar babies mention on their profiles that no one gives a fuck about or is a lie. 

Sugar daddies don’t give a damn if you’re “hard-working” or you like to volunteer at animal shelters. You need to make your overall profile stand out from the rest and get the money you deserve from these men! You have to sell yourself as a sexy fun bombshell that every rich man wants to have and will pay for. Men are more focused on how good you look and how you can add to their social lives, save mentioning your volunteer work or your love to read for when you already reeled in a POT and you’re already on your date. You cannot sound boring on your profile, sex sells honey! I got time tonight and I turned on my Pandora, so I’m going to give you tips and tricks on how to have a bomb ass profile bitch!

Avoid using these words/phrases on your “about me” sugar profile:

I’m hard-working

I’m a student in college

I like to work out/I’m fit

I like to (insert generic interest or hobby like read or cook)

I like to go out

I don’t go out a lot

I like to travel

I hope to have a career in ______

I’m _____ years old/I’m young

I’m a princess

I love to be spoiled/pampered

I like to go shopping

What to include in your photo section:

There’s a whole new way of writing your profile to make yourself stand out and attract legitimate SDs, and it involves photos. Anybody can talk shit about how great or attractive they are, but you have to show it to get the results you want on sugaring profiles. Walk the walk, not just talk the talk. For example, instead of mentioning how “fit” you are, show how fit you are in your profile photos! Post at least 2 body pictures, one from the torso up, and another a full body shot. Make sure you look sexy and showing some skin, wearing flattering clothes that accentuates your features or a nice swimsuit. You’re a bad bitch with full lips and smooth skin or “exotic” facial features? Show that face off in your profile pictures. Have one or two selfies with a nice glam makeup look and one photo with a natural makeup look. I’ll make another post on how to take and edit photos for sugar profiles in the future. Don’t just mention how attractive you are in your profile, prove it with clear, nice photos as well. Bonus: Keep two or three “private” risque or swimsuit photos of yourself for serious POTs only. Don’t give away private access to your photos to men who can’t even properly introduce themselves. Private photos adds mystery to your profile and can attract more men.

What to include in your “about me” section:

I cannot stress this enough, YOU HAVE TO REALLY SELL YOURSELF! You are the product and you have to convince these men that you are the one they want. It’s best to build up your persuasive writing skills in order to have the best profile you can. 

Instead of mentioning a bland and generic “I like to go out”, give examples of how you like to go out. Saying, “I spend my leisurely weekends on the roof tops of the best bars in the city and sailing on a yacht in my favorite red bikini, maybe you can join me?”, sounds a lot more exciting than “I like to go out and have fun”. It’ll give the POT an idea of what you really like to do and he’ll be willing you invite you out on a yacht so he can see that red bikini in real life. Your college major is nursing? So say, “Helping and taking care of others are a few of my life passions, so nursing became my college major. Let me nurse you when you’re feeling sick or is stressed from your busy career and personal life, by being your fun sugar baby.” 

You’re smart and educated? Say, “I am current on world events and I can engage in intellectual conversations on several topics that can enlighten us both.” You have to include that POT into your interests/hobbies and your social life. He has to imagine himself doing your favorite interests/hobbies with you. If you don’t like going out, it sounds a lot better just to say, “Who needs to go out when we can make our own fun indoors with a nice cooked meal and cuddle while watching a great movie!” You like to travel? Say, “Let’s spend our summers in the Caribbean with cocktails and enjoying the view of the beautiful blue beach and sun.” Get it now?

What to include in your “what I’m seeking” section:

Now this is the part you can mention how you struggling to pay tuition or need help with rent, but please don’t come off as demanding, picky, and most importantly, desperate! Don’t say, “I need help paying for student loans/college tuition”, say, “I’m seeking a generous man that sees the value and importance of a college education, and would love to invest in me to reach my goals and start a successful career.” Please for the love of God, Allah, and Buddha, don’t say, “I want to be spoiled like a princess and go shopping everyday”, that is cringe-worthy as fuck! You sound like an entitled brat. Instead, just say, “Don’t like shopping? I can make the experience a lot more fun and sexy for you as I try on dresses, heels, and lingerie for you while shopping downtown. I can become your personal shopper and spark your closet with clothes that will make you look great!” You want to have your own business? Say something like, “I am seeking to have a business-minded SD that would love to invest in my future business endeavors in _____.” The point is to convince the POT/SD to spend his dough on you and that he will be getting something in return other than sex, like appreciation and gratification. Mention how you will show your appreciation and add value for the right man that takes care of you, by showing physical affection and by other means. That’s the point of a mutually beneficial arrangement. Make sure to put a disclaimer that intimacy will occur organically and when an arrangement is in place, SA salts are notorious for expecting sex on the first date, especially without paying you cash. A real SD is not going to rush into sex and has to prove his worthiness by spending cash in order to get it.

Two last things, keep the basic information like your age, location, and lifestyle budget out of the about me section. That information is already stated when you initially filled in your profile. Last but not least, if you’re using Seeking Arrangements, don’t ever ever ever put “negotiable” as your lifestyle budget, that will attract the low and gutter men of the websites. Always have it at least on moderate.

Now go get that money and the man you deserve!

[kittenspeach]

Sugar Tip #3

When speaking to a POT earlier today, he asked what my allowance expectations were. I told him, he agreed, but added:

“I’m reluctant to hand that sort of money over in one go, so I’d like to do a PPM arrangement while we build trust.” More often than not PPM is not going to be worth your time and is a tactic used by splenda and salt daddies alike.  Never the less I smiled sweetly and replied: “Of course - I’m happy to have platonic PPM dates while we get to know and trust each other.” This is a great counter move; if he’s saying he doesn’t trust you enough to give you your allowance in full at the start of the month (which is understandable!), it’s unreasonable for him to expect you to trust him enough to be intimate with him. 

He’ll either accept your terms or run to the hills, either way you haven’t lost anything.

[helloitsme310-blog]

So crazy but I have not seen this guy in 3 months and he keeps sending me money! It’s only $1200 but he just texts me every now and then. I’m like impressed with myself.

I believe the true art is getting money without doing anything with the guys. Anyone can fuck for money.

I went to Vegas with a bunch of girls and had the best time. I hung out with my marijuana dispensary friends and he told me he lost $100k. I asked him if I could go to the spa on his comps. I spent $1600 at the spa. I was at the spa getting services for 4 hours. It was so luxurious.

I’m going to the plastic surgeon to get some quotes. My bf also agreed to pay for my Juvederm lips $435. I’m really excited. I never did it before.

I’m so happy my bf gave me the Platinum Amex. I spent all my clubbing, food, hotel, flight, Uber’s and shopping in Vegas.

My bf is really hooking me up. He’s given me the Platinum Amex, pays for my HGH $700 a month, Equinox (all destinations) $300 a month, pays for all Fluff and Fold (I don’t do laundry anymore), my spa, nails, hair, lashes, eyebrows, Sephora trips, shopping, food, Uber, partying, doctor visits, dog vet bills, puppy supplies, gas for my car, utility bills, Juvederm for my lips, all treatments for my post surgery, organic groceries from Whole Foods, green juice every morning, fresh coconuts to drink, fine dining, dinners with my family, all beauty care, and of course all the love he gives me too. He’s so cute… he always holds my hand or interlocks his leg with me with he sleeps. I just adore him.

Affirmations: I’m attracting love, money, and happiness ❤️

[minxundercover]

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowances...

Here’s something that’s been in my drafts folder for a while. Based on some of the posts I’ve read recently, I think it might come in handy…PLEASE DO NOT COPY AND PASTE. READ CRITICALLY. Take bits and pieces, make it your own, or summarize it in some way as a come back for those messages, texts, or dinner dates.

Him: Hi. Thanks for reaching out to my earlier message. Your pics are beautiful. While I completely understand the importance of chemistry…but should we get to a point where this matters, I’m a little uncomfortable with having our relationship defined by allowances. As I said in my profile, I am quite generous, and understand the importance of ‘spoiling my partner’ but still, the set allowance would probably not work for me. I hope you understand my thoughts….

Me: Thank you for your thoughts. I understand that you are in search of an escape and so am I. My escape would involve a real connection and a refined lifestyle. I am a little uncomfortable with having a relationship that is only defined by sex… especially when the guy is attached and somewhat unavailable. I’m a beautiful young woman with no lack of suitors. I have a busy social life and I’m currently working to build a business/ pursuing my degree. I chose this kind of relationship in part because I have so little time for love. That’s not to say that my (romantic) time is not very valuable to me. It is. What I don’t value are shoes, handbags, and/or expensive dinners. These are things that I can purchase myself. Furthermore, these do nothing for me in the long run as much as say you investing in my company/ education would. I hope you understand that I’d need tangible showings… actions that illustrate I am valued… that my companion wants to put a smile on my face/ make me feel special/wants the best for me. AN ALLOWANCE WOULD DO THAT FOR ME. By the same token, I want my companion to feel comfortable telling me specifically how I could put a smile on his face/make HIM feel special/ valued. In any case, I am a rare catch and therefore am in no rush to find the man who “gets it” and me. Good luck on your search!

Now doesn’t this sound better than saying “Bitch Please! I am hot and young and you want me to spend my time on your old ass while your wife gets the unlimited credit card and I get nada! FUCK YOU!”

[mygingersweets]

I’ve been looking for this post!!

[chanelsugababy]

hey girl! Okay so I'm kinda trying to put my self out to the sd world but ofc I'm doing my research first. How do condoms work? Are sd's okay with them? I'm on birth control but I'm afraid of stds how would I tell my sd to get tested with out him getting offended? Or tell him I would feel safer with a condom? Would he give me less money if I would say I want him to wear a condom? Thanks I've been doing a lot of research but not that many people seem to talk about condoms ty 💓

If a SD isn’t okay with wearing a condom, drop him. It’s honestly as simple as that. You’re safety should be your top priority, and that’s what you can tell him. You can say that you’d like him to get tested before having sex, and that you’ll get tested as well. However, if you’ll be using a condom anyway, many SDs won’t want to go though the hassle of getting tested. Many offer to get tested, but thats just a way to convince you to have sex without a condom. Even if he is clean when you start the arrangement, he may be having unprotected sex with other SBs and pick up an STD. No matter what, make sure he wears a condom. Let him know that if he won’t use one, it’s a deal breaker. Some may offer more money if you let them not use one, but don’t fall for that. 

[seasugarsea]

Early update from HK… he brought all this back for me plus a pair of running shoes. AND he gave me $400 shopping money yesterday and another $400 today. I got the bestie a fab present since her birthday is coming up and used the rest at Lululemon, Adidas and makeup. Who knew you could blow $800 that quickly? 🙈 And this is all on top of my 4K allowance, flights, and meals. He’s been saying he’d drop everything for me, divorce his wife, etc. I had only to ask. I was like damn Gina, stop and breathe for a minute this is only our second weekend together. Idk though. He did say I’d make an amazing trophy wife 😉

Mr. Positivity has been really busy but sends me messages daily. We’re planning a trip to Bali end of the month and another for Ultra in September. I’m so stoked. He also wants to FaceTime soon and wants my bank details so he can wire me money when he wants. I’m going to talk to him about doing Paypal or something instead, it’d definitely make me more comfortable. But to be fair, he does already know my name etc.

Happy weekend, everyone!

xx

Nutmeg

[helloitsme310-blog]

Hello my beautiful sugar babes!

I have the best boyfriend in the world. He surprised me with a eight week old golden doodle. I love this dog so much I don’t know what to do. He also ordered me a business platinum American Express credit card. And of course I still have his credit card on my Postmates, Uber, and UberEATS. He also ordered me HGH which is human growth hormone that is $700 a month. It’s supposed to make you skinny, your hair bomb, your nails amazing. Kim Kardashian and Madonna takes it. He’s in Las Vegas for a bachelor party for his brother and he’s calling me every few hours and face timing me. It’s so sweet. He’s so loving and kind. I’m so happy I have him.

I went to the Beverly Wilshire Hotel and I met this grandpa and he took a liking to me and he wants to help me in my professional career. He wants to publish articles about me so I can become famous in my career when people google me. I’m really happy I met him and I look forward to growing my professional career and maybe leaving the sugar bowl forever one day. I’m really happy with my boyfriend and I don’t really see a need to hustle guys if I can make a substantial amount of money in my professional career.

I went to Roku sushi restaurant in Los Angeles last night at midnight because I was hungry and these guys kept circling our table and when the bill came the waitress told us that one of the gentleman had paid for our bill. It was a $200 sushi tab so it was nice to get free dinner. This just goes to show that once again my proximity thing is true. You need to be around rich people to meet rich people. I highly suggest going to this restaurant there were so many rich guys there I went in my yoga clothes and Adidas slides. I literally ran out for a midnight snack now I know to dress a little bit better. He owns 40 brands of wines and lives all over the world. He invited us to attend the BET party and Yacht parties for 4th of July.

A guy asked me to go to a music festival with him in Chicago and he offered me $8000 for three days but I’m not sure if I want to go because it’s rock music and I prefer hip-hop and EDM. So I don’t know if I want to go and listen to music for three days that I don’t even like I don’t know if it’s worth it. I’m still thinking about it.

I work out at Equinox and this guy invited me to this Lamborghini and McLaren event. I guess these guys that own these $400,000 cars pay money to race their cars on the race track. There were so many rich as guys. I wish I could’ve invited you all.

Girls have been messaging me asking me where I met my guys and I met them at all different places here are some examples. These are the guys that take care of me monthly of course I have my guys that I see here and there but these are the guys I count on every month • 30 year old Amex, takes care of my car insurance, work expenses, cell phone bill, unlimited credit card - Match.com • boyfriend, Uber, UberEATS, Postmates, credit card, HGH, Equinox - Tinder • $5,000 a month and all my Christian Louboutins - MillionaireMatch.com • $5,000/ $20,000 a month Persian - Poker Game • billionaire - Charity Event Rich guys are everywhere so you got to keep looking.

I made some mistakes in the beginning in the sugar bowl so I wanted to share with you what I’ve learned and I hope I can save you some trouble • always get the money and or gifts first. One of my first arrangements on SA The guy promised me $1000 for a meet and he gave me $500 after. And I didn’t know what to do so I just took the $500 I left and he promised me that he would give me the money later but he never ever did. I never made that mistake again. When I see my daddies I always say “hi babe did you bring my gift.” Don’t trust them and if they say something like “this feels to transactional” I suggest you should leave he’s probably going to gyp you. All my real daddy’s give me the money without making me feel guilty. • only talk on the phone with them for 10 minutes at a time. Try not to call them let them call you. When I see that the 10 minutes it’s getting close I just hang up abruptly and say “hey I have to go” and I just hang up. If they want to talk to you they have to come see you. They know how to find you. Don’t worry. They didn’t die. They’re just busy. He’ll make time for you if you’re important but don’t force anything. My boyfriend told me I never called him once in 2 months. If I need to say something I save it for when I see him. Are used to make up excuses to text him. Like if I bought him his favorite Mountain Dew soda I will take a picture and send it to him. But I stop doing that and he has been chasing me ever since. • only give him 75% of your love. My nail lady is like my therapist and she told me she’s been married for eight years and her husband still asked her to this day if she loves him. She gives me the best advice. She also asked me do I know which noodle house is the best noodle house in Korea? She told me it was a noodle house that serve the least amount of noodles. So be the noodle house that serves the least amount of noodles. That will make him coming back for more. • always make sure your nails are perfect. I once was dating this really rich guy who owns all these medical marijuana dispensaries and he told me that he will not date a girl if one nail is broken. Now I know you may think that this is absurd but I’m talking about being a sugarbaby on a high level. In order to be a sugarbaby on a high level you need to look like it. • you need to shower daily. I can’t believe that I have to even say this but one time I hug my girlfriend and I could smell her hair and my eyes almost white cross eyed. You don’t know how many times guys have told me that they love the way I smell I shower and wash my hair every day and I understand some of you guys because if your ethnicity that you cannot wash her hair every day but you need to figure out something to make sure you smell good and clean. And even after sex I will take a shower and guys always told me that they love me that I’m so clean. • we are here to comfort our men if they’re having a bad day make sure you uplift them and make sure that you make them happy. One of the things I always tell my guys is I’m here to celebrate your success your happiness and your life make it about them. You can go home and complain to your girlfriends but your boyfriend is not the guy you are complaining to. We are here to celebrate their life and their success. • I have never ever referred to any of my guys as my “sugar daddy” or asked for an “allowance” to their face. Behind their back I referred to them as my sugar daddy and stuff but to their face they think that I am just their regular girlfriend. This will build more trust and they won’t feel as used and they will probably be looser with their wallet if they feel like you’re not using them. You know they’re going to be very cautious of everything if they suspect anything. You’re going to make the most money if their guards are down so you need to build trust. • this is also a tip from my nail lady but do not ever make them feel jealous. Even if you are dating multiple men do not let them now. Do not post fancy photos of food on your social media if they’re following you. They know that you were on a date. • Now as I mentioned above to only give 75% of your love to them and only spend 10 minutes on the phone with them when you were with them in person you are the number one girlfriend. When I am with my boyfriend or any of my dudes and even a Rolls-Royce I don’t even look. My phone is in my bag the whole time I do not check my phone for social media or my text messages or anything. My dude has my full undivided attention. They are the king in my eyes (at the moment) • I personally won’t introduce my girlfriends to my daddies or my boyfriend until things are really established between the two of us. You don’t even know how many girls will sideswipe you and try to fuck your boyfriend for a Chanel bag. So to save your relationship with your boyfriend and your girlfriends just make sure you and your boyfriend or totally establish before introducing them. You can’t really control what they are going to do but you can definitely control if they meet or not. • as you guys know a lot of my dudes give me credit card. A lot of girls have been messaging me about this. To get a credit card they are going to need your real name, your birthdate, and your Social Security number. So it has to be definitely someone that you completely trust. My 30-year-old daddy and my boyfriend I know they would never do anything to hurt me. They’re the most nicest people on the planet and their goal is to just help me. So don’t give some crazy motherfucker your Social Security number just so you can get a credit card it might not be worth the trouble. But this is really nice in case they go out of town or something you don’t have to depend on them to deposit money into your bank account it’s just a credit card so you can just spend and they pay the bill. The other great thing is if someone gets you a credit card I can only benefit you never hurt you so let’s just say that they default and don’t pay the credit card it goes on to their credit but let’s say that they pay your $10,000 a month credit card like every month your credit will improve. • always have your own separate income or business or school or like profession or something that you’re working towards. There is a very high chance that you are probably going to marry a really rich guy being in the sugar bowl you’re going to end up falling in love with one of them. But the thing is is you should still have your own thing. You could even be a part-time plastic surgeon. All my aunts married very wealthy men but they have never worked a day in their lives and their husbands cheat on them all the time and they’re just stuck in there miserable relationship. They are decked out in Ferragamo, Mercedes Benz, and have Chanel bags but they hate their lives. You want to be adored and loved. And you have to let them know that you know you could leave if you wanted to and I think they’ll treasure you more. The also respect you more. • if you are having a slow season in your sugar game do not worry it happens to all of us that’s why you need to be dating multiple guys to make sure that you’re going to be OK. That’s also why I highly encourage you to save your money. If you need to buy stuff have your daddies buy it for you save all the cash that you get. And honestly if you can’t get a guy to buy it for you you probably don’t even deserve it. If you really wanted you will figure out a way to get a guy to buy it for you. While we are having lunch I’ll make them take me to Sephora go buy $300 worth of make up or say “babe can we swing by target? I’m out of TP” and but $200 worth of stuff. Or get my nails done with them. • K girls you know my favorite save save save! Just because things are going really well with your daddy don’t get too excited. Guys have offered me all kinds of stuff and they fell short. • which also brings me to another topic is don’t count your chickens before they hatch. Meaning guys are gonna promise you all kinds of stuff don’t really count on it until you have the money in your hand or in your bank account. And honestly I made the mistake of telling my friends and looking really stupid when the guy never even called me back. So keep this information to yourself and maybe later if they actually give you the money or the gift then you can tell your friends but even with that you were going to end up with a bunch of hater friends. They’re probably going to call you a hooker or something like that because they are so jealous. They probably can’t even get their boyfriend to buy them a $200 dinner. So they are really going to hate you if your boyfriend is giving you a $10,000 allowance plus the Mercedes-Benz, you get what I mean? In the real world not that many people will be happy for you. So be careful who you share your information with. • and really girls if you want to be a sugar baby on a high level you need to look like it. Your hair, make up, skin, nails, clothes, style, everything needs to be on point. One time I saw my girlfriend who really wanted to be a sugarbaby on my level and she had open her purse and her purse was a freaking mess and her make up had busted and the make up was all over like her wallet and and her stuff. It just looks so freaking disgusting. I buy make up bags from the dollar store and if my make up bursts or breaks I just empty it out throw the make up bag away and I put it in the new make up bag. You need to be really clean for these guys. And this was also the girl that her hair smelled. I mean I’m just her friend observing and I already knew we both played in different sandboxes. She asked me if she could have my old daddies but none of my dudes would even fuck her for free.

I really want all of you guys to be really successful. I’m here to answer any questions and to help you with any of the stuff but you guys need to do your part and look your best and be healthy go work out and be the best you. Make sure you’re all there mentally, emotionally, and physically. I pray and I mediate a lot to get my spirituality and head space in the right place. I work out and eat organic food so I’m in a good mood.

Another thing is is my nail lady told me that you don’t have to be the prettiest girl in the world but you do need to have the best skin. Stay out of the sun it ages you it’s not good for you it will give you freckles and wrinkles. Use SPF every single day, reapply it all day, where a hat if you’re going to be in the sun.

If I actually become successful in my professional career I will probably quit the sugar bowl and just take my boyfriend exclusively. I am really happy with him and I’m happy with my new puppy. I love you all and I wish you all the best success in the world and I totally believe in you.

That’s another thing to make it in this field and anything else you need to believe in yourself. I open my arms and face my palms to the sky, face my heart to the sky and I say “I open my heart to receive love, money, and happiness”. I need you guys to start doing this so the universe knows that’s you’re ready for your whale :)

To all my daddies,

I want to thank you for all the luxuries in my life. I want to thank you for making sure my bills are paid, designer silk clothes, most expensive shoes and handbags, most exclusive gym membership, caring about my health, buying me healthy organic groceries, alkaline water, green juices delivered every morning, taking care of my eyelashes extensions, nail salon, eyebrows, skincare, spas, facials, hair salon, make up, plastic surgeries, laser hair removal, my new puppy, taking care of my puppy supplies and vet bills and thank you for taking care of me even when you’re away on a business trip. I will in return be the best girlfriend to you make sure you feel like a king. I’m so grateful I met you. I love you so much.

Happy Father’s Day Zaddy ❤️

Love, Your Asian Sugar Baby

[chocolatesugah]

How do you screen POTs? I feel like obviously googling and reverse image search but what if I don't have spokeo or any of the others?

In no particular order, this is how I screen. 

1. www.spydialer.com ( I usually use this to listen to POT’s voicemail to gather information such as their name or business or occupation…imagine a voicemail like this, “Hello you’ve reached James Bond of James Bond industries, sorry i am unavailable right now ….) Also, spydialer may help you find their location, social media profiles, and e.t.c. 

2. emailsherlock.com ( gives you a location, IP address, e.t.c.) 

3. Facebook, do not underestimate the power of typing in a cell number or email address in the search bar. please don’t. (beware of fake pages)

4. LinkedIn, I use pretty much the same way as Facebook, this can also be helpful to see if businesses actually exist, who run them, or you just might find out were a POT truly works. (beware of fake pages) 

(if other babies have tips or would like to add, feel free to.) 

as always, be safe sugaring. If shit don't add up, neither will them deposits. 

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

My Hustle

You girls know that I tried so many different hustles and nothing worked like this one. I want to share the tips. I mix escorting and sugaring approach but in my mind the lines are never crossed and very clear. Why this approach works is that men are usually reluctant to use escort services because it’s too square for them with agencies and with indie escorts they don’t like the unattached feeling. I present myself as the girl next door, sexy and whoaa?? willing to talk to them! It drives them insane and they are already looking for ways to fuck me. So I introduce my terms right at that moment and if they are in that mindset they go for it. In escorting business, conditions are presented at first stage before they can bond with the product and have some sense of comfort around you. So it puts some men off. 

My understanding of sugaring evolved. To me it’s escorting with subscription. Don’t tell me that you have poise, intelligence, conversational skills. So does escort girls. They’re given gifts, taken out on dinners and some guys book just for conversation.

Our target audience’s behavior changed. In the last couple of days I’ve seen girls complaining how sugar bowl isn’t what it used to be anymore. I understand the frustration but as business owners we either adjust or wither.

At the end of the day it boils down to arbitrary of whether to fuck same guy 50 times or fuck 50 guys once. However you’re comfortable.

I will try to explain how I handle a couple of points.

My Persona: Especially in where I live, rich people more and more move to other countries and they usually prefer to date celebrities. Plus, men here are mean to local girls but they put foreigners on pedestals. So for a local guy my persona is a foreigner with some family ties here, she’s visiting them, working as freelance PA and studying. For travelers I’m local and exotic. So I only communicate in English. Because my voice sounds sexy and soft only in English, lol.

Timing: Back to subscriptions. In my experience, sex has an expiration date or it gets better the longer it waits. For example, if you contact someone and arrange to meet in a week, it won’t happen. But if you arrange to meet someone and it somehow fails, don’t contact them next week. Wait at least 3 months. So I try to move as fast as possible with my appointments. Hi how are you? 20:00. Screening. Pay. Fuck. Thank you, Sir. I’ve seen so many posts about sugars keeping him wait for as long as possible. It may work for some type of men but in here if the guy would wanted to hear the answer no, he would have gone to his wife. These men are out there looking to get laid.

Pricing and Market Segmentation: My clients are either nouveau riche or rich people who aren’t really generous. They bring their hard earned money to me. Some can’t afford to be regulars. They just want to have fun every once in a while. They don’t take me out on fancy dates. They don’t do anything fancy. My selections are based on them being kind, no negotiation and willingness to share info for screening. I haven’t met anyone gross so far. They treated me really nice. And they love my body. I seriously haven’t met anyone who wants to have sugar relationship so far. Unless they are using it to scam young girls like my chocolate POT. They want no bs sex and that’s what you need to use to your advantage. You can still use hoe tactics and get yourself taken out if you want to tolerate to be begged for sex and some sexual tension from his end everyday but I just realized I didn’t have time for that and I would very much like to have my money.

Behavior: Two things are important here; 1. High threshold for bullshit. 2. Sweetness. You have to be VERY good at detecting bullshit and stopping it before it happens in a very kind and sweet manner. Because they’ll give you bullshit 24/7. That’s in the job description. You need to turn it around and refuse it without making them feel rejected and embarrassed. Whenever they ask me nudes I explain them that I’m a student at a top tier school and I’m only escorting to pay that so I can have a career some day and I don’t want these pics to haunt me. The other day, after I turned down that guy who asked my nudes while I was sick saying I will contact him later and that it’s my turn at doctor’s office and never hit him up. I have tried no bullshit approach but really, the real no bs approach that works is doing it without letting him know. Often times when you refuse something, you’re the bad cop. Always be the good cop and deflect the blame on something else. 

“I would love to entertain you but my career doesn’t allow me to spread my nudes.“ 

"Aww, sweetie.. That’s such a generous offer but I am on a mission to be able to cover my college debt so I’m afraid I will have to look for more generous offers.”

“I would love to spend the whole night with you but my room mates doesn’t know that I’m in this line of work so I wouldn’t want them questioning anything.” (if you can’t stay even for extra money)

Other two things you need to be is quick and direct. Men have short attention span. If you keep talking to them for hours with no plans they’ll get bored. Also in my experience whenever I sent one of my long proses about what I’m looking for etc, they felt like I was trying to scam them. Even most men on SA don’t understand sugaring and it feels like a scam for them. I keep things short and sweet and move quickly. I’ll demonstrate at the end of my writing.

Your time’s worth: I’ve seen ladies thinking that their time is the most precious thing on earth and money should rain down on them just for existing. I make myself approachable for these men if they want to get to know me. I know escorts hate when their clients hit them up 2557976321580 times a day but I try my best to keep the communication for as long as it’s not too invasive. This is where escorting and sugaring approach blends. They want you approachable and they want the kitty asap. You should work that ego because it’s 90% stroking the ego and 10% stroking the cock. This is where the whole scam is. Fill the void get the money. Another scam trick I use is that, I don’t charge by the hour. My flat rate is 1k and that’s the worth of a date with me. They get to choose what they want to do. Of course there’s a mental limit in my mind and always an excuse available if they are taking too long. But I never needed to use it. My first booking got tired after 2 hours. Second booking cuddled the whole time and was done by the end of an hour. Third, also lasted 1,5h with 30mins of horrendous sex and 1h chilling on couch. 4th, 15 minutes for whole appointment. They always want to push for an overnight but I love my solitude so much for that. I kindly tell them that my room mates would get worried and they don’t know that I escort. Always does the trick. I know this part is an unpopular opinion and it’s open for exploitation but you need to make sure you hold the reigns and keep things sweet and short.

Here’s a demonstration of how my tinder conversations go.

-Hi hello you’re so hot

-Aww thanks babe, so are you. [insert some small talk

-How can I meet you? Omg your curves!!!

-I’d love that!! We could have some fun/nice evening/great time. so, are you interested in spoiling me then?

-How would you like to be spoiled?/YES!! I AM!!

-I’m used to get 1k for my time for a nice evening with a gentleman. 

-That’s fine, are you available tonight?

Easy peasy, my queens

PS: The ones that says “fair enough”, “that’s alright” etc will go straight to set up a time for booking. They rarely flake. It is safe to ask them for gifts.If they keep asking you questions or haggle, beware. If questions come after agreeing to your rate then it means they are curious about you which isn’t bad. Stroke that ego. I try to spare 5 minutes every day until we meet and it becomes less and less frequent after the booking but it’s never completely over unless they cut the communication. 

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

@lustington these guys wouldn’t know that it’s something that should be reported but I’ve heard girls taking phone number and unmatching asap then do the talk via text.

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

My Hustle

You girls know that I tried so many different hustles and nothing worked like this one. I want to share the tips. I mix escorting and sugaring approach but in my mind the lines are never crossed and very clear. Why this approach works is that men are usually reluctant to use escort services because it’s too square for them with agencies and with indie escorts they don’t like the unattached feeling. I present myself as the girl next door, sexy and whoaa?? willing to talk to them! It drives them insane and they are already looking for ways to fuck me. So I introduce my terms right at that moment and if they are in that mindset they go for it. In escorting business, conditions are presented at first stage before they can bond with the product and have some sense of comfort around you. So it puts some men off. 

My understanding of sugaring evolved. To me it’s escorting with subscription. Don’t tell me that you have poise, intelligence, conversational skills. So does escort girls. They’re given gifts, taken out on dinners and some guys book just for conversation.

Our target audience’s behavior changed. In the last couple of days I’ve seen girls complaining how sugar bowl isn’t what it used to be anymore. I understand the frustration but as business owners we either adjust or wither.

At the end of the day it boils down to arbitrary of whether to fuck same guy 50 times or fuck 50 guys once. However you’re comfortable.

I will try to explain how I handle a couple of points.

My Persona: Especially in where I live, rich people more and more move to other countries and they usually prefer to date celebrities. Plus, men here are mean to local girls but they put foreigners on pedestals. So for a local guy my persona is a foreigner with some family ties here, she’s visiting them, working as freelance PA and studying. For travelers I’m local and exotic. So I only communicate in English. Because my voice sounds sexy and soft only in English, lol.

Timing: Back to subscriptions. In my experience, sex has an expiration date or it gets better the longer it waits. For example, if you contact someone and arrange to meet in a week, it won’t happen. But if you arrange to meet someone and it somehow fails, don’t contact them next week. Wait at least 3 months. So I try to move as fast as possible with my appointments. Hi how are you? 20:00. Screening. Pay. Fuck. Thank you, Sir. I’ve seen so many posts about sugars keeping him wait for as long as possible. It may work for some type of men but in here if the guy would wanted to hear the answer no, he would have gone to his wife. These men are out there looking to get laid.

Pricing and Market Segmentation: My clients are either nouveau riche or rich people who aren’t really generous. They bring their hard earned money to me. Some can’t afford to be regulars. They just want to have fun every once in a while. They don’t take me out on fancy dates. They don’t do anything fancy. My selections are based on them being kind, no negotiation and willingness to share info for screening. I haven’t met anyone gross so far. They treated me really nice. And they love my body. I seriously haven’t met anyone who wants to have sugar relationship so far. Unless they are using it to scam young girls like my chocolate POT. They want no bs sex and that’s what you need to use to your advantage. You can still use hoe tactics and get yourself taken out if you want to tolerate to be begged for sex and some sexual tension from his end everyday but I just realized I didn’t have time for that and I would very much like to have my money.

Behavior: Two things are important here; 1. High threshold for bullshit. 2. Sweetness. You have to be VERY good at detecting bullshit and stopping it before it happens in a very kind and sweet manner. Because they’ll give you bullshit 24/7. That’s in the job description. You need to turn it around and refuse it without making them feel rejected and embarrassed. Whenever they ask me nudes I explain them that I’m a student at a top tier school and I’m only escorting to pay that so I can have a career some day and I don’t want these pics to haunt me. The other day, after I turned down that guy who asked my nudes while I was sick saying I will contact him later and that it’s my turn at doctor’s office and never hit him up. I have tried no bullshit approach but really, the real no bs approach that works is doing it without letting him know. Often times when you refuse something, you’re the bad cop. Always be the good cop and deflect the blame on something else. 

“I would love to entertain you but my career doesn’t allow me to spread my nudes.“ 

"Aww, sweetie.. That’s such a generous offer but I am on a mission to be able to cover my college debt so I’m afraid I will have to look for more generous offers.”

“I would love to spend the whole night with you but my room mates doesn’t know that I’m in this line of work so I wouldn’t want them questioning anything.” (if you can’t stay even for extra money)

Other two things you need to be is quick and direct. Men have short attention span. If you keep talking to them for hours with no plans they’ll get bored. Also in my experience whenever I sent one of my long proses about what I’m looking for etc, they felt like I was trying to scam them. Even most men on SA don’t understand sugaring and it feels like a scam for them. I keep things short and sweet and move quickly. I’ll demonstrate at the end of my writing.

Your time’s worth: I’ve seen ladies thinking that their time is the most precious thing on earth and money should rain down on them just for existing. I make myself approachable for these men if they want to get to know me. I know escorts hate when their clients hit them up 2557976321580 times a day but I try my best to keep the communication for as long as it’s not too invasive. This is where escorting and sugaring approach blends. They want you approachable and they want the kitty asap. You should work that ego because it’s 90% stroking the ego and 10% stroking the cock. This is where the whole scam is. Fill the void get the money. Another scam trick I use is that, I don’t charge by the hour. My flat rate is 1k and that’s the worth of a date with me. They get to choose what they want to do. Of course there’s a mental limit in my mind and always an excuse available if they are taking too long. But I never needed to use it. My first booking got tired after 2 hours. Second booking cuddled the whole time and was done by the end of an hour. Third, also lasted 1,5h with 30mins of horrendous sex and 1h chilling on couch. 4th, 15 minutes for whole appointment. They always want to push for an overnight but I love my solitude so much for that. I kindly tell them that my room mates would get worried and they don’t know that I escort. Always does the trick. I know this part is an unpopular opinion and it’s open for exploitation but you need to make sure you hold the reigns and keep things sweet and short.

Here’s a demonstration of how my tinder conversations go.

-Hi hello you’re so hot

-Aww thanks babe, so are you. [insert some small talk

-How can I meet you? Omg your curves!!!

-I’d love that!! We could have some fun/nice evening/great time. so, are you interested in spoiling me then?

-How would you like to be spoiled?/YES!! I AM!!

-I’m used to get 1k for my time for a nice evening with a gentleman. 

-That’s fine, are you available tonight?

Easy peasy, my queens

PS: The ones that says “fair enough”, “that’s alright” etc will go straight to set up a time for booking. They rarely flake. It is safe to ask them for gifts.If they keep asking you questions or haggle, beware. If questions come after agreeing to your rate then it means they are curious about you which isn’t bad. Stroke that ego. I try to spare 5 minutes every day until we meet and it becomes less and less frequent after the booking but it’s never completely over unless they cut the communication. 

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

@minsugaring hi babe, no I don’t advise face photos on profile but I send them once I get the feeling that they’re trick or after dropping the bomb. The profile you should create should be like very subtle to civs. Just a sexy girl who doesn’t show her face. But tricks will know. In my experience civs usually have no idea at all. Like zero clue. They try to romance and charm me lol or act conditional like if you’re pretty etc. Tf? I’m pretty for sure! But tricks know. They go in for the kill and ask what is your donation. My description is something like blablabla….let’s get to know each other over a glass of champagne. Tricks know.

[redsugarlipsbaby-blog]

How to get any guy to come to you freestyling..

Or in any situation really.

If you notice a guy who has potential or you’re attracted to, the best thing you can do is eye contact. Not random but purposeful and distracting eye contact that sends a message.

Example: You are in a bar and see a man across the way, expensive suit, hot, ect ect. If he’s not glancing at you yet every now and then (he should be you’re hot as fuck) look in his general direction (not straight at him) until you see him look your way. Then clearly lock eyes, smile and look down still smiling. Don’t look to the side it shows disinterest like your passing over them for the next guy or not seeing them at all.

Now his interest should be piqued. Keep your peripherals open so you can tell when he’s looking at you again and do the same thing, with small changes in reaction. Sometimes a small wink or tilt of head or a slight smile with longer eye contact. Nothing over the top. It’s all about the obvious but small body language. 2 or 3 times of this I guarantee he will come over to buy you a drink.

Guys usually don’t approach you in a bar purely because they are worried about getting rejected. Showing them that your welcome to them approaching at that time will increase the chances of them meeting you. And it’s not obvious so if he’s a douche and you want to continue searching, you’re not announcing to the whole room your intentions by walking up to random dudes.

[sugarrangel-blog]

How to stand out as an SB

#1 Don’t talk about money at the get go. 

Look, I understand. It’s tiring to get your hair done, makeup done and strut in heels and be on your best behavior on dates without knowing if your POT’s budget for an allowance meets your expectations. 

But remember this - the best SB’s understand that the real value is in the intangible benefits that an SD can provide.

There are tons of millionaires who can shag you 4 times a month and give you money to pay off your rent, utilities and bills. No big deal there.

But finding someone you can connect with saves you all that faking of chemistry. If there’s a real mutual benefit there, you find someone who’s willing to invest time in you - to listen to your needs, as you will with his. 

If your POT realizes that you’re in it for the long haul, and are interested in understanding how he got so successful - guess what? 

You’d have snagged priceless lessons that’d help you be financial independent one day - even as a trophy wife.

#2 Have unshakeable standards

I just had a really nice first date with Champagne Pot yesterday. And he just sent me a text this morning to meet this wednesday for coffee and … head to the Hilton for an hour. He mentioned $500 and a talk about future arrangements.

This is what I replied:

“hi xxx - I’m really flattered that you’re interested in me :-) But I hope you understand that even if I’m a sexual person, I wouldn’t be comfortable being intimate with someone who isn’t my formal sponsor. I’m extremely exclusive, and hope that you know that I’d love to first discuss if we want a similar arrangement before becoming intimate - as much as I’m attracted to you ;-)”

Sure. I kinda would like the $500 before going for my $500 WYP date. That’s a grand for half a day’s work, and I don’t even have a model’s body.

But hey, I’m tall, smart and hopelessly ladylike. I command attention whenever I step into a room. Heck, I was doing my nails yesterday and every one did a double take when they passed by the salon. And nope, I’m not even skinny. 

It’s the way I carry myself, It’s the way I dress. Always classy, always confident - always smiling and charming.

I used to think about all that was wrong with me. That was then.

Guys can find an easy fuck if they want. Go ahead. I’m not that girl. Don’t get me wrong. I love a good fuck. If I’m attracted to a guy? Heck I’d do him without thinking if I’m getting paid. Sex is sex. I still enjoy it. But I won’t fake it for money.

What my SD will get though - is my grace and attention and all that jealousy from men who’d pass us by. 

Really. I’m sure a lot of you babies are even more beautiful than I am. Remember that you’re more than just a fuck. But more importantly - Act like it.

#3 Be patient

Men can smell desperation. And it smells like an easy screwover.

The odds for SDs are so much better than for us babies. So they know its their ball game - any day, any time. They know it. We know it. And they sure damn well know WE know it.

Champagne asked me about my financial expectations. I said 5k a month. I saw him typing, and deleting.. and typing and deleting..

So I said this:

“Hey.. I want you to know I’ve met with others - and even with their generous allowances, I’ve never gone with someone I don’t feel attracted to. And I’m attracted to you. I just usually don’t talk about money this early on in our relationship.  But please don’t rush in thinking about it. I want you to be comfortable with me as well. This is my expectations but I want you to be happy in knowing that you’ve selected the right babe for yourself.”

If I bag him and bossy banker - that’s 10k a month for 3/month meetups. Great? Yes.

But if I don’t bag them? I’d move on and find someone else.

This is a marketplace. But don’t be that desperate product on sale that’d settle.

If they’re not meeting your expectations - someone else will. Maybe not today, maybe not this week, maybe not this month.

Look babies. You’re in this for longer than a month, right? Be patient. 

Don’t give up your standards, ever, just because you’re greedy and impatient.

The real gold takes time to be found. And you definitely want to be an available sugar baby when that time comes.

So be patient, my babies and all the best!

-Via: Sugarrangel

[sophisticatedsugar]

Good advice. Thanks for sharing xo

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Don’t chase men. Chase your goals, because they won’t woke up one day and say that they don’t love you anymore.

(via senselessgod)

Tru

(via isaisadora)

[love-seeks-luxury-blog]

Is it normal SD's to pay and gift you before any intimacy or it is always expected the same day?

I don’t expect anything from POTs from the Meet & Greet. But once we decide to start the arrangement, I do expect allowances to be given. It is definitely better to have them upfront, and especially with a new arrangement don’t be afraid to ask or open your mouth. “Hey, could we get the allowance out of the way?” Usually works for me.Some of my SDs give it to me at the end but I trust them so I’m not too bothered by it. Stay safe & Good Luck 💜

[chocolatesugah]

I’m not a real sugar baby, because I told him that I require protection for ALL sexual occasions.

So in return he stated, I must be escorting on the side. Claiming there are, “millions of real SBs out there”. Dear God ladies please don’t be having unprotected sex with the men for any reason! Be safe be safe!

Don’t fall for this trick either, this is really how they try and manipulate you. With the whole,“what you won’t…another will.” Don’t fall for that shit.

[chocolatesugah]

I’m not a real sugar baby, because I told him that I require protection for ALL sexual occasions.

So in return he stated, I must be escorting on the side. Claiming there are, “millions of real SBs out there”. Dear God ladies please don’t be having unprotected sex with the men for any reason! Be safe be safe!

Don’t fall for this trick either, this is really how they try and manipulate you. With the whole,“what you won’t…another will.” Don’t fall for that shit.