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25 Things That Will Make You a Better Sugar

• Choose your battles. There are things you won’t be able to convince him of.

• Research sex; watch porn; experiment. Know your limits, know what you’re willing to try.

• Expand your mind - listen to podcasts in your car, learn a second language (like French, Italian or Chinese) and research a few key topics that interest you so that you always have something to talk about.

• Practice good penmanship, always.

• Go to yoga classes which will help you centre your mind, be conscious of your posture and maintain your physique. Many cities have free classes if you’re willing to look.

• Text in full sentences, with accurate grammar.

• Learn how to cook a few ‘fancy’ meals well. Should you spend the night at his house, be prepared to cook one without making a fuss.

• If you’re a smoker, keep gum and perfume on you at all times. Buy a decent lighter, one that you have to refill with lighter fluid. Never light your own cigarettes - pull your lighter out, put your cigarette in your mouth and look at him expectantly.

• Swear less. People will be shocked when you do swear if it’s a rare occurrence.

• Look in the mirror every morning and identify one thing that you love about yourself and your appearance. Throughout the day, remind yourself of this thing.

• Be consciously aware of how fast you’re speaking. Take a second before you speak to collect your thoughts and consider your phrasing.

• Know good dinner etiquette.

• Travel whenever you can, even if it’s only to cities adjacent to yours. 

• On dates, go to the bathroom and take a moment to freshen up your makeup, gather yourself and take a deep breath.

• Learn how to mix a few basic cocktails like martinis, Manhattans and mojitos.

• Know this sentence structure: “I understand that _____, is that right?” People want to feel they’re being heard, first and foremost. For example, “I understand you’re upset that I can’t be available short notice. Is that right?” Follow up with: “Let’s work together on a solution.”

• Remain calm, no matter what.

• Learn a sport - tennis, golf, it doesn’t matter.

• Spend time alone; be independent. When you are comfortable with your own company, you will settle for nothing less than good company.

• Build a list of goals for yourself, long and short term. Know them inside out.

• Watch classic movies: Sabrina, All About Eve, Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Study the starlets and pick characteristics, gestures and the like that you can emulate in your own actions.

• Learn to give a good head rub, back massage, etc.

• Subscribe to newsletters for local galleries, art cinemas, fine dining restaurants, etc. Email your SD with suggestions of things that you come across which you think he might like. Don’t be afraid to make the effort, as long as you’re not the only one who is.

• Make reading the newspaper part of your daily ritual. Do the crossword, too.

• Read more - The Life of O, The Awakening, A Handmaid’s Tale, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, The Optimist’s Daughter, Lolita. Reading will become a part of your daily meditation.

• Be punctual, authentic and consistent.

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• get out and explore the city/town/neighborhood you live in so that you have some suggestions for places to go no matter the situation. Also, it is great to talk about the places you like to go so that he can get an idea of what you like • ask questions! Beyond the usual “how was your day?” Try asking him- “what was the last great meal you ate and where? What made it so special?” Follow up questions show you are listening and helps keep the ball in his court • When a POT gets to talking sexual, either talk financial or smile and be evasive. Don’t be defensive or disgusted, it will likely make things worse. If he is crossing the line, smile and excuse yourself to the restroom and simply collect yourself and leave. Don’t make a scene or argue, it will not end well. Sugaring requires thick skin and you sometimes have to learn to just laugh and change subjects. • never underestimate a smile and a touch on the arm or hand. Use your eyes and body language to say “I want to fuck you” while keeping the conversation light and neutral- it is a total mind fuck. • pay attention to your daddy’s needs! Is he always coughing? Carry some cough drops on you for when you see him. Is he always tired? Show up with a hot cup of coffee or a protein bar, even some b-12 gummies. A little effort means a lot to these guys who are largely ignored and spend all their energy on others! My regular loves to snack on grapes and pecans so I always have some in my kitchen for him • smile when you talk, it makes you seem engaging and helps keep your voice lively for him to listen to • Keep your place clean! It seems like a no brainer if your SD is coming over to pick your place up but make sure you burn candles or spray something so it smells nice, fresh sheets on a made bed, clean your bathroom, etc. When you take selfies and mirror pics make sure the mirror/background is clean and uncluttered. Keep your car clean in case he needs to get in, you don’t want fast food wrappers and clothes all over the place.

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Thoughtful

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Income vs. Allowance

$1k/month = $12k/yr = $17k/ before tax : SD needs a Gross Income of $85k/yr

$3k/month = $36k/yr = $51k/ before tax. SD needs a Gross Income of $255k/ yr

$5k/month = $60k/yr = $86k/ before tax : SD needs a Gross Income of $430k/ yr

$10k/month = $120k/yr = $171k/ before tax: SD needs a Gross Income of $855k/yr

Gross Income = A person’s total income before taking taxes or deductions. 

A SD does not have to make millions to afford your requested allowance.Just because he makes millions does not mean he will share them with you! They live expensive lives. therefore you are not the only person expenses he has to pay for. He didn’t get that Mercedes or Range Rover for free and the maintenance on luxury vehicles are not cheap!

Stop basing your search off income and or net worth because majority real/serious SD’s low ball themselves to weed out the “atm users, rinsers, etc.“

Net worth = The total monetary value of all a persons assets. ( including home value, car value, stocks and bonds) These things are NOT listed on the sites.

Some of you aren’t ever going to find an SD because you are too focused on how much the site says/list he makes. Remember that guys can enter their own income and net worth.  Start looking for guys who match what you are looking for in an SD. The more genuine you are as a person the better shot you have at receiving the allowance you want. 

Stop playing yourselves because you are wasting your own time.

Honey

[sugardo11]

Sugarbaby Austin tx

For real if your a sugar baby in Austin be friends with me. We can talk shit and eat food I need a bff Jill 😘🤗💁

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Body Language Linguistics

I’m going to start by stating the obvious!

Men LOVE a CONFIDENT woman! 

In one of my previous posts ( The Three Layers of Confidence ) I talked about how the surface layer of confidence is how you portray yourself … and this all boils down to your body language.

The way you walk, the way you gesture, your facial expression, your smile and your voice are just a few of the things that encompass what the rest of the world initially sees.

I’ve been a sugar baby for quite some time now and what I’ve found is that men (SD’s) value this a lot more than women and women tend to underestimate the importance of this. A lot of the time sugar babies are too busy thinking about the way they look, the way they dress and what type of men are around that they are not too concerned with their body language. If only these girls knew the amount of POTs and SD’s I’ve spoken to who have experienced the following situation: They see as stunningly beautiful woman and they cannot peel their eyes away from her but then the see her move and she walks around with a slouch and all her energy points towards the floor, and suddenly that girl becomes unattractive. Her physical features have not changed but the man’s perception has done a complete U-turn, simply because the girl looks unconfident and doesn’t own her presence.

The advice I’m about to give doesn’t just apply to sugar babies, it applies to EVERYONE!

1)      Hold yourself the right way.

When you walk around, one of the most attractive things you can do is carry yourself well. Keep your shoulders pointed back and push your chest up, (as if a string was pulling your chest from above) and keep a strong frame.

2)      Don’t be afraid to gesture when you talk. 

Standing there all rigid isn’t going to get you the attention of any affluent man! Be fluid with your hand movements. It shows power and confidence. Open palm gestures are better over closed palm gestures because they’re more welcoming, and that is what you want. You want to be approachable.

3)      Stop crossing your arms. 

This is something I learned from the age of 16 when my mentor pointed out to me how defensive you can look when you cross your arms. People often cross their arms when they are angry or hurt, they come off closed. I understand that sometimes when you are in a stressful or uncomfortable environment, you cross your arms, and often we do it subconsciously. But I want you to become more aware of your body. Try to notice those moments when you cross your arms and stop! It makes you seem cold and unapproachable.

4)      Don’t clutch your bag around your shoulder when you are walking. 

It’s a nervous sign and you look like you are hiding something. Just Relax! … If you find yourself in a high tension situation, a really great thing to do is to breathe slower. Taking your breathing to a more controlled and slower level will immediately relax you. I do this often, when I’m in a lecture theater with over 100 people and I’m about to be the first one to ask a question. I put my hand straight up in the air and in the few seconds, zone out, slow my breathing down and ask my question. That way when everyone turns to stare at the ebony, Irish/American acented girl who just asked a daring question.. I feel fine. And because my body language is on point, everyone who turns to look at me now sees a confident girl. In one brief moment, I have shaped their initial perception of me to my advantage.

Now that you’ve got the basics down, we are going to work on how body language changes through the different segments of an interaction.

At the beginning of the interaction you want to have a fun, energetic and an exciting persona. If you are an SB and you are freestyling, what you want is for men to be approaching you. If you are a business person and you are networking at an event, again, you want people to be approaching you. So approachable body language plays a key part at the beginning of any social interaction.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that this is just down to you…. No, no, no! This is down to you and your friends or team mates or whoever you keep in your company. 

For example, you’re out in the city and you’ve struck gold. You and your friend have stumbled upon the perfect 5 star bar that is just flooded with potential men/clients/mentors. 

Now if you and your company are all standing close together facing each other in a near circle-like formation, you have immediately made it very difficult for anyone to come over to you! What you want is to have your company standing side by side, sort of like a V shape (this is perfect for smaller groups). This way you can still have a conversation with your company, while making it open and easy for someone to join the interaction. At the same time you can be scanning the room to see what’s going on.

 Do this and you will find a lot more people will approach you. Ladies, never forget that one of the hardest things an older man can do is approach a young woman when she is out with her friends. Not only does he have to walk over to you, interrupt your conversation, risk being rejected or even laughed at, and then have to do the walk of shame back to his friends. So it’s your job to make it as easy as possible for someone to approach you.

As you move through the conversation, don’t be afraid to slow things down. Especially if you are trying to seduce a potential sugar daddy or date. You want to slow things down a bit and make the interaction a bit more sensual. Slow down your gestures, if you are drinking something, slow down the way you drink it. Make more eye contact. Play with your expressions and don’t be afraid to squint your eyes a in a sexy way (you know the look I’m talking about).

Do keep in mind that this isn’t about being overly sexual: there is nothing more unappealing than a woman that is trying too hard to be sexy.

Try these steps in your everyday life and you will soon notice they will become an integral part of your physical essence. The more you practice, the better you get and it won’t be long before people look at you and from your body language, they can immediately tell that you are a high value, confident person.

Xxx

BronzedSugarUK

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"You're going to feel guilty at first. Expect it. Ignore it. You're not a slut, you're not a liar. You are an entertainer. Men don't buy a fine wine because they're thirsty. They buy it because it makes them feel good. And buying it makes them feel good about themselves. That's why they come here, too. Men will always pay for their vices, whether it's wine or lifting your skirt."

For every woman or man who is judged on their profession. Wither it is a nude model, stripper, cammer, or dancer. 

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So true.

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Yesssss🐍🐉🐲

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I honestly needed this right now 💖

[sugardo11]

More like 20 🤗🤗🤗

[zodiacmind]

How To Attract Different Zodiac Signs

Aries: Give them a chance to chase you and capture you. Assuming they already have some interest for you, playing hard to get can make things more interesting and rewarding for them when they get you. But at the same time, give them a chance to catch you by being available to their requests or their needs. 

Taurus: Do something thoughtful for them. Pay attention to their emotional or instrumental needs, empathize with them or help them out. Once they receive your kindness, they will pay more attention to you and reciprocate. They will also begin to see you in a different light because of how thoughtful you were. 

Gemini: Dress nice or sharp to impress. Our physical appearance says a lot about the person we are and it affects the image of the person we’re with. Looks also capture the attention so dress appropriately but also comfortably. 

Cancer: Smile. When they look at you or when you look at them, a genuine smile is very heart warming. It conveys that you’re comfortable in your own shoes and that you’re approachable. If you’re comfortable and approachable, they will feel less defensive around you (since we are around strangers) and will very likely open up to you in the future or reciprocate the smile. 

Leo: Say their name loud and clear. People really like to hear their name called or mentioned especially when it’s by a person they adore. It shows that you are paying attention to them and that they are not just some random no-body. So the next time you talk them, say their name once or twice at the beginning or near the end of a conversation or when some interesting emotions come up. 

Virgo: Flirt with them. You can make things fun or interesting for them through your conversations or non-verbals. You can say things that put a smile on their face or do things that make them laugh. At the same time, to give yourself some value, pull back and make them curious about you. 

Libra: Be spontaneous. Plan for activities where things can change at the drop of a hat. This will keep them guessing and hungry for more. For example, when talking to them ask if they want to go somewhere or do something right after. Don’t plan it for like next day or next week making it seem less spontaneous. 

Scorpio: Prove your feelings. If you really care about this person, pay attention to what they say, their intention, their motivations and react to that. For example, if they hint to you that they too are interested in you, don’t be afraid to reciprocate. 

Sagittarius: Share your passion with them. Let them know what you do, your hobbies, your goals dreams, fantasies or accomplishments and hope that they will want to be a part that too. Also, ask them about theirs and really show support and interest in what they do. For example, if they say they like a certain movie, encourage them to talk more about it and do something for them related to their interest. 

Capricorn: Mirror their body language or attitude. We feel more comfortable around people who are like us. Dress like them (wear matching clothing)  or copy the way they talk or their non-verbals to capture their attention. But do this moderately and subtly and ensure that it creating a positive vibe. 

Aquarius: Be simple and open-minded. If they don’t expect big things, do little things for them that show that you care. Talk to them when you have free time. Ask them about their day. Plan activities with them like going out to eat or shopping. Give them a hug or say hello when you see them. 

Pisces: Buy them something or make something meaningful to them. For example, if you know they like a particular accessory like a phone case or watch, get it for them. Get them something they can use for a long time that will remind you of them. Or write them a heart felt letter, make or get them food, or even holding the door for them.

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they should have a tinder for friends like hey girl wyd wanna drink wine and get our nails done

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Stop slut shaming girls with big boobs and/or an ass. They wear the shit skinny girls wear but are immediately associated with being a hoe because it fits them differently.

[sugardo11]

Austin sugar baby's

I need friends where are you 😏😏😏😏

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How to Turn Vanilla to Sugar - Part 1

I was just giving some advice to a follower of mine when I realised it was a fabulous advice post, so I’m sharing it all with you. - You’re welcome

Not every rich man is generous!

That’s the sad truth! a man may have money but he may be stingy with it. When you see this happening, admit your losses, move on, and don’t hold a grudge. It will only hinder your efforts.

There are little tests you can do to ascertain a man’s generosity.

I will touch on this in the posts in a few weeks. But here’s an example just for you sugar.

The Headphone Test

G.L.Lambert touches on this in his book ‘Ho Tactics’. He talks about when you are on a date to go an meet a man, create a fake lil emergency that he should help you with. For example, tell him that you left your earphones/headphones in the taxi/ bus/ train and ask hi if he could pick you up a pair on his way to meet you.

Different types of men respond to this differently.

Salt: they tell you that they don’t have any cash on hem, or whatever excuse. Or perhaps they buy you earphones from the pound store. Maybe he even goes as far as telling you that instead he will try and help you call the transport you used, to see if you can retrieve them. If this, or something similar happens, run for the god-damn, hills and never come back, he is salt.

Splenda: This man maybe gives you his moderately expensive headphones he has at home and tells you to keep them. Possibly, he buys you some regular headphones on his way and presents them to you, Either way, he finds a way to give you headphones that aren’t cheap, but aren’t necessarily expensive either.

Sugar: Our favourite type of man buys you beats, or 50 cent headphones, or whatever expensive headphones are trending when you read this. He could also tell you that he’ll take you to go get a new pair when you finish your date

One thing I will caution you on, is not to leave the date without deciphering what kind of man he is. So don’t accept any promises for buyng you some headphones online when ou get home. There is no time like now! Yes he could buy them in a couple of days, or maybe not, but the point isn’t for new headphones, the whole point of this is to determine his sugar … or salt level. You do not want to  have wasted 2 weeks talking to this guy only for the headphones to arrive and they are from Topshop.

Converting a vanilla into sugar is not a quick process

Unlike website like Seeking Arrangement, men don’t come with the notion ‘I’m going to be a Sugar Daddy’ already in mind. You have to treat this like a normal relationship. A lot of these men will run if they heard you say ‘sugar daddy’, often because they have negative connotations of sugar relationship, or they think you are a gold digger, or they don’t want to feel like an ‘old man’. SO it requires more thinking, your goal is to finesse things slowly from this man/woman, then ultimately work your way to your go whether it’s a 5K allowance or trophy wife status.

There are two ways to approach this. I’ve based these on acctual scientific research (because nerd obvs) and personal experience turning vanilla to sweet sweet sugar.

Surge, Retreat, Approach

I’m sure you’ve heard it before. Here’s the concept, in order to make someone more likely to do what you want, make a big request. Usually something extravagant or very large. In order words, it’s essential that it is way more outlandish than your actual goal. Why? Because there’s a 99% chance that you will be rejected! ‘Why do I want to be rejected Bronzy I here you say? Well it’s because your next request (your goal) will seem a lot more reasonable. Therefore, now they’ve stopped panicking and think ‘’that’s not as bad, I can actually do that’. And this is a superb tactic to use on splenda. Because you could have asked him your goal straight up, and chances are, if he’s splenda, he wouldn’t be able to ‘afford it’ or he’s only be able to provide something half as expensive. So with this you have raised the bar, so when he brings that bar down, it’s exactly where you wanted it to be in the first place. 

This is something I used on a POT I was rinsing recently. Through conversation I could tell he was quite tight fisted, but I don’t let that out me off. I asked him to buy me a wallet, he accepted and told me to send him the link. So I sent him two options, One super expensive wallet ( that personally i would not even buy if I had the money) and the wallet I actually wanted. I told him to ‘pick the one he thinks would look best on me’ and just like I had anticipated, he picked the cheapest option, (the bag I wanted). This is just one example of how Surge, Retreat, Approach can work (please read the disclaimer at the bottom).

Seeking Steadily

This is the most effective, but also time consuming method. If you are rinsing (i.e, getting them coins w/out any intention of intimacy or physical contact), then I would be wary using this approach. This is the notion of asking for small things at a time, then gradually working your way up to your goal. When you ask someone to do you a small favour, they then become 40%** more likely to agree to your larger (goal request) than if you were to ask them outright. 

Let’s get nerdy for a bit. The study i saw, had the goal of getting home-owners to put up a large sign in their front garden.. In the first experiment, the straight out asked the home-owners if they would put the sign in their front garden. Less than 50% of subjects agreed. In the second experiment, they asked the home-owners, if they could put a small sticker in front of their house. Of those that accepted, they then came back a week or so later, and asked if they could put the sign in there front garden. As you’ve guessed, way more subjects allowed their front garden to display the large sign.

In summary, get someone to commit to something small, and they are way more likely to agree to your larger and ultimate goal.

So for example, you’ve put on your wishlist to have a Givenchy bag by Christmas. So come October or November, as your vanilla or splenda to buy you a wallet or shoes (anything that costs at most, half the price of your goal), then come Christmas, it’s time to ask for what you actually want. The same applies to ultimately getting an allowance from a man. It takes dedication, but it’s how I changed Director from Vanilla, to gift daddy, to splenda, to ultimately, sugar daddy. Next stop, whale! Stick around to see if I make it

xxxx

BronzedSugarUK

*Surge, Retreat, Approach, although quicker, is more high risk than Seeking Steadily because there is a possibility, that certain men will be frighten by your expensive/ outlandish request and just leave, without you having the chance to negotiate.

** I don’t remember the exact figure, that’s just an estimation.

[dreamgrlarchive]

all I want is a fat ass, long voluminous hair, a flat stomach, amazing eyebrows, money, emotional stability, and a boyfriend. I'm not selfish

[bl-ossomed]

Maybe we’ll meet again, when we’re slightly older and our minds less hectic, and I’ll be right for you and you’ll be right for me. But right now I am chaos to your thoughts and you are poison to my heart.

(via queenxkimberly)

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I Am A Sugar Baby

It is delusion at its finest. The men would like to think they are still desired, and the girls would like to think they aren’t whores. I want you to actually want me, they say. And you nod your head, pretending it’s not about the money – that you’d willingly let a balding, overweight, social inept man have his way with you. The moans that slip out of your mouth are genuinely for him, not for your ex-lover, whom you so dearly love. But somewhere in the midst of all the disgust and self-hatred, they do become for him. Somehow, you begin to desire it, and you can’t imagine a world outside of it. Maybe that’s why you can’t sleep with men you love.

Sex is foreign to you. Sex is work. Sex is money. Sex isn’t fun. And when you try to break free, you realize that it’s a poison that has seeped into every pore of your being. That no matter how far you try to get it from it, the chain is still there, clasped tight around your ankle. You want it to be a distant memory, but somehow it haunts you constantly. Run all you want, but it will take you back eventually. Let’s patent that. Hunt the whore. You pay for the things you do, by the person you will become.

I’ve become what every parent fears when they realize you’re a girl. Is my baby going to become a whore? And they do everything to protect you from it. No make-up until you’re sixteen. No dating until you’re married. You can’t wear short skirts, wear a cardigan. No one says it. But it’s there, unspoken. And is it the ultimate failure of parenthood? You always wonder, what if I had a mother and a father? What if I was loved more? And whose fault is it.

Someone didn’t teach you morals, someone didn’t teach you to be self-sufficient, I don’t know how to be an adult. Maybe that should be a class in middle school: How not to be a whore when you grow up. When your family says they’re always worried about you, this is why. Even if you don’t say it, it bleeds from the sadness in your eyes, your soft-spoken demeanor, the slices on your thighs. The vodka filled water bottles and extra glasses of red wine with dinner. We had a whole bottle, where did it go? The short dresses and flirtatious personality. Crying yourself to sleep at night. And your lovers they can tell too. A forty-minute blow job? Sure. I want to fuck you in the ass. Sure. I want to suck on your breasts until they bleed. Sure. Why? Anything for you. If you want it this badly, you should have it. Somewhere in all the perversion, you start to want it too. But you never really know if it’s you. You’re the epitome of dysfunction. What do you like? I don’t know. What turns on you? I don’t know. Does this feel good? Nothing feels good anymore.

You can sift through hundreds of pages of Google searches for reasons against being a sugar baby, an escort. Except for the possibility of rape and murder, you will not find a single article warning you about the consequences of such an action. Instead, you will find articles illustrating the sexually liberating, financial stability, ego-boosting opportunity. It’s a dark secret, but the minute you meet your first client, no one will tell you how it changes you forever.

You are no longer the bright-eyed, happy and hopeful black haired girl smiling back at you. You are now deceitful, you are now distrustful, hateful, suspicious, and selfish. And you wonder if your father does this. Your peach glow has suddenly turned into a mucky black. Pretend all you want it doesn’t exist, but a part of your soul has withered away forever. You’re writing this story, but you realize it’s not fiction, it’s your life. Suddenly it’s the most heartbreaking thing you’ve read. Is this really happening? I think I’m dreaming again. You forget who you are. And you forget what innocence felt like. Dream all you want, but you can never go back to nineteen again, the time when such things never existed. Haven’t eaten in a week? You beg your parents for money. Not the talent section of craigslist.

And yet, even though you know it destroys you, it lures you back in. This will be the last time you say, three thousand, that’s all I need. The cycle begins again. The cycle of whore-dom. You consider it. You do it. You loathe it. You fall apart. Hunt the whore. You’ve lost. Game over.

-anonymous via http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2013/04/i-am-sugar-baby/

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“I am an attractive guy, I have lots of money and finding girls isn’t hard for me. What makes you so special?”

“I admire your self-confidence. I am a beautiful, young, woman with a long list of aspirations and goals to accomplish. Finding a wealthy generous gentleman for a woman like myself has never been a challenge. Although we met through unconventional means we are both searching for a conventional value that adds to the equation. What I find puzzling at the moment however is where you can add that value to my life. Finding somebody attractive doesn’t add much since I could seek a jock-fuck (insert high profile athlete), someone that has a lot money might add a little more value because they’re able to help the small things like bills but there’s already plenty of men willing to do that. So here I am wondering, what on earth can you add as a value to my fast-paced crazy life?”

Feel free to add:

“And, if you are wondering what a beautiful young woman like myself can add as value to your life… then you are asking the wrong questions and are clueless how to take care of a woman as special as myself.”

Ladies, if a man is *questioning* what value you can add to his life that means he’s already TRYING to calculate if he can afford you – which, I’ll be blunt to say that he CANNOT. The men that are wealthy never question what a beautiful young woman can add to their life because they already KNOW the value and COST to keep her happy and AGREE anyways.

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I hope girls use this (or similar) to answer that question instead of sounding desperate listing how they are special and why they are special. The minute you do that you’ve already proved that you are seeking his approval and you are weak. This is how a lot of you get chewed up and spat out by the guys in the bowl – you have no ounce of confidence to set a man straight. Know your fucking worth!! Shit like this will be included in my memoir as this is the basics of literally running your own shit!