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[fadarama]

[psychology-daily]

PsychologyDaily.com ➤ Therapy App ➤ Stay Motivated

[carlottacisternas]

What is marriage like?

Marriage is a relief and sacred and hard work (but that part is not a surprise), and a completion and being stupid together in the kitchen and laughing at each other’s lame jokes and being able to tell what the other is thinking by a meeting of the eyes across the room. Marriage is a support and a warm bed and sadness when you have to give up your old lives and saying “I’m sorry” and cleaning the kitchen without being asked even though you’ve cleaned it every day that week. Marriage is getting up together at 5:45 most mornings even though you don’t want to and learning to choose your battles and getting annoyed at each other over the most insignificant infractions and making up after arguments and respecting that the other person had a life before you. Mostly, though, marriage is stumbling through life with your best friend and holding each other through the night and never having to say goodbye and some of the biggest, most soul-stretching, fulfilling experiences (and fun) I’ve ever had.

[13october1999-deactivated202003]

“Never wish them pain. That’s not who you are. If they caused you pain they must have pain inside. Wish them healing.”

—

Najwa Zebian (via purplebuddhaquotes)

I am wishing them healing and blessings.

[wnq-writers]

10 Advices for myself : 1. Be kind. But not too kind. 2. If you feel you’ve been hurt, you’re hurt. Period. No one else is allowed to tell you how much you’re allowed to hurt. 3. Make the blame. But also take the blame. 4. People are gonna call you, “Crazy” and “Weird” and “Mad” for doing your own thing. Take the compliment. 5. Everyone’s first priority is their own selves. So put yourself first no matter what. 6. If you like that notebook, buy it. So what if you have more than enough empty pages back home? More the merrier. 7. Write. Draw. Sing. Dance. Act. Cry. Laugh. Curse. Do whatever the fuck you want. So long as it doesn’t affect them, no one has the right to complain against it. 8. The world is full of hypocrites. You may even find one in the mirror at times. But it’s alright. 9. Whatever you do, don’t put reins on your dreams. Dreams are the only highways with an infinite horizon that holds the impossible. 10. Laugh. Keep laughing. Happy is your best look.

beingjustlittlered, writing prompt #62: list 10 pieces of advice you’d give yourself (via wnq-writers)

[defineyourgrind]

[defineyourgrind]

[sofia-mylifeline]

It’s possible to go on, no matter how impossible it seems…

- Nicholas Sparks (Dear John)

[theresilientsurvivor]

I do busy.

#recoveryfromrelapse

[inspiration-and-motivation]

[stevenrosas]

When things go wrong, take a moment to be thankful for all the other things that are still going right. And if you’re struggling to be thankful for what you have, be thankful for what you have escaped. Sometimes the best gifts in life are the troubles you don’t have.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

As time goes on, you’ll understand. What lasts, lasts; what doesn’t, doesn’t. Time solves most things. And what time can’t solve, you have to solve yourself.

Haruki Murakami (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[defineyourgrind]

[defineyourgrind]

[positive-outlooks]

[wordsnquotes]

My father had taught me to be nice first, because you can always be mean later, but once you’ve been mean to someone, they won’t believe the nice anymore. So be nice, be nice, until it’s time to stop being nice, then destroy them.

Laurell K. Hamilton, A Stroke of Midnight (via wordsnquotes)