you keep me from crashing down

moving to candyyhearted

[sakura-haruka]

Iron Man (2008) - Avengers: Endgame (2019)

[themixedwitch-deactivated201812]

Mini Land Spirit Shrine

use this as a conduit to connect you to the local spirits and nature

get a pot

fill it with local dirt/sand/clay

keep it on your porch/inside/near your house. somewhere you can visit it.

put cool natural items in it, like local shells, bones, branches, etc. that you’ve found…

watch it come to life. if i just leave a pot of dirt around, something will spring up in it. usually those considered “weeds”. if nothing grows, plant a low-maintenance native plant in it. but there should be something after a time.

make offerings like water and more natural items as you desire. 

connect to it, talk to it, introduce yourself.

Rinse and repeat over time. That’s really it! and then you just… build a relationship as time goes on.

[jennyhoelzer-deactivated2016120]

[traumagooglesearches]

how to stop dwelling on who you could have been if you hadn’t been abused

[traumagooglesearches]

how to stop worrying you’re going to be just like them

[hxmlock]

“if somebody becomes panicked when you accuse them of lying theyre obviously not telling the truth” shut up ugly im a survivor who got punished for shit i never did all the time of fucking course im gonna panic when im blamed for something i didnt do

[hxmlock]

since this post is actually getting attention rn i really want to emphasize this-

many of the “tells” of lying are traits commonly found in abuse survivors and mentally ill/disabled people.

stuttering, averting eye contact, panicking, raising your volume, fidgeting, and other similar traits are actions performed commonly by these groups, especially in situations of heavy stress- such as being accused of doing something we didnt do, especially if we are afraid of being punished for doing nothing.

im honestly begging people to think critically when accusing somebody of lying for small traits like these.

[noisysmudge]

Also I don’t know how common it is in autistic adults or if its just me but avoiding eye contact is supposed to be a tell. Or muttering or trailing off. But like??? I will personally just never look people in the eye. It makes me uncomfortable and there’s nothing about looking in a person’s eyes that really holds my attention. Like all this shit youre supposed to see in a person’s eyes I just don’t see. And I trail off and jump around in what I say and stutter and just my speech patterns are very sporadic and a lot of people will ask me if I’m lying if I change how I talk? But that’s really just me being strange. Don’t know if this happens to other people though

[hxmlock]

i experience this exact thing and its so frustrating when people say im lying because of it

[knockmeoutbabe]

There’s also a lot of cultures where it’s rude to look people in the eye. I’ve known a few students from Sudan that would avoid looking teachers in the eye and the teachers would always assume they were up to something and blame them on things they obviously had no part in. Just because someone avoids eye contact or anything else that seems rude or guilty to YOU doesn’t mean they are.

[hxmlock]

^^^^ this too!!

[edderkopper]

It’s also a CPTSD thing. If you were punished as a kid for “looking at people funny”, not appearing submissive enough, etc., submissively averting your eyes becomes a learned habit that’s hard to break. Especially when dealing with authority figures or otherwise under pressure.

[canadad-deactivated20171111]

can we please get some sort of mental health education for parents i cant believe how many are in denial of their child’s condition

[backwardabyss]

3x14 | 3x22

[merthurdaily]

Top 20 Merlin & Arthur scenes voted for by you #3. S05E13: “I want you to always be you”

[discourseful]

us: Thomas sanders not making his age obvious and basing his whole internet persona on being a Relatable Kid despite being 28 is questionable, especially when you consider he encouraged his fanbase of mostly minors to draw nsfw art of him and then reblogging that art from artists as young as 15

y'all: oh my GOD will YOU STOP calling this POOR BOY a FUCKING PEDOPHILE

[glassgospels]

“everyone eventually becomes their parents” is not deep and profound it’s terrifying and it’s bullshit and abuse survivors dont need to hear that shit thank you

[nyokoko]

Also stop saying that people always marry folks that are like their parents. Again: abuse survivors don’t need to be hearing and internalizing that shit at all.

[illness-deactivated20180325]

as a mentally ill, if you haven’t taken your shower you’re not gonna wanna do anything else. do that first. this sounds like baby advice but fuckin’ do that first

[illness-deactivated20180325]

i understand that this is suspicious advice coming from norman bates but do it

[hvitserkk]

Hello,                  Shadow.      Don’t fuck                              with me.

[proinsiascassidy]

American Gods the characters so far: The Bone Orchard (1.01)

[americangods]

Technical Boy: The latest development in assholes. #AmericanGods

[maevemilllay]

Laura: *mentions kissing Shadow*

Mad Sweeney’s gay ass:

[joshpeck]

this is the funniest tweet I have ever seen