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loooong update
cause I’ve been MIA and I guess a lot happened this past week that I’m pretty excited about so I kind of want to get it out of my system...
Met up with 2 POTS this past week and saw A. Both POTS gave me $300 to cover for $200 uber costs, so that was nice. We’ll name POT 1 Vet and POT 2 prof (weirdly enough, most of the men I’ve meet in the city through SA are professors and Vet and A actually teach at the same university lol).
Saturday: vet (POT 1)
Vet and I have been talking for a few weeks and finally found the time to meet up last Saturday. He’s really easy to talk to, straightforward, and super eager to get started (lol, he offered to get me my own hotel room to stay over for the night, but I still didn’t really feel comfortable doing that so I declined). We went to dinner and confirmed what both of us are looking for. He told me to open a new bank account so that he can deposit my allowance each month, and offered to lend me his car during the school year so that I could drive over instead of having to call an uber each time. The only downside is that he doesn’t look at all like his picture --he’s older and has definitely gained weight from the photo he sent me, so I’m a lil annoyed about that, but I got over it since we have pretty good chemistry. He did show me his ID and tell me where he works (he teaches at the same university as A lmao), so I know he’s serious about this, plus he gave me $300 for the ubers before dinner even started, so that was nice. Also since he’s older, I’m not too comfortable with PDA yet, and he tried to kiss me goodbye in the mall close to where I was meeting a friend afterwards which kind of threw me off and made me super uncomfortable, so I’ll have to talk to him about that. I’m pretty excited to start seeing him though. I think I just have to be firm with what I want cause he’s generally v respectful even though he’s really forward.
Tuesday: prof (POT 2)
Before A ghosted and I moved on, I left my shirt at his place so I texted him asking when I could get it since I would be in the city during the week, and we arranged a time to meet to get my shirt before my POT date with prof.
Since I live an hour and a half outside of the closest major city, I usually call the uber beforehand to make sure that they’re okay with the drive. I so I did that, and met this really nice driver who’s young and we got along really well (he even handed me the aux cord and it was LIT). While we drove, he asked me what I did to make money and I told him about sugaring and whatnot and he was actually super chill about it. He asked me some questions about how it works and all that stuff.
Once we got into the city, and my uber dropped me off at A’s place, I got super nervous even though I just went there to get my shirt (except I also had an ulterior motive to get some/wanted to see if he was seeing anyone else at the moment). He came down and said hi and asked me how I was doing, and I told him I was well and asked if he was seeing anyone, and he said no, so I asked if I could go up to his place and pee. Then once we were upstairs, he offered me water and we sat down and talked, and I called him out for ghosting and said it was rude, and he apologized, and then we ended up kissing and talking more about what was going on in our lives and whatever. Tbh I actually like A, but not enough to call it the feels, but enough that I wouldn’t be opposed to vanilla dating him cause we’re actually closer in age than most people in SR’s are. I can tell that he missed me and I think he likes me and we actually talked about seeing each other outside of a sugar context. But alas I couldn’t stay since I had to meet prof for dinner in 15 minutes, so I left my shirt there and we arranged for a time to meet in the near future.
Dinner with prof was nice, but boring. We talked about work, school, work, travel, and more work. The place he picked wasn’t super upscale, but it wasn’t cheap either. After dinner, we went for a walk and talked more about work and he gave me $300 to cover the cost of transportation, but that was the only thing he mentioned about money. I think he was shy, but I don’t think I’m going to continue seeing him.
I’m excited to see A again though...if he doesn’t flake on me again.
Over
Kind of ended things with A because he was too flaky/unreliable. Wasn’t malicious or anything, but he suggested that I look elsewhere since he was unreliable, so I called him out for already doing so but kind of just told him to be straightforward if he just didn’t want to see me cause he was wasting a lot of my time and messing up my schedule.
Not too hung up on it tho. I also want to stop by his place to pick up a tshirt that my vanilla bf gave me that I left at his place but means a lot to me
tips for treating yoself
body:
Exfoliate once or twice a week.
Let your vagina breathe - don’t wear underwear to bed unless you’re on your period.
Change your pad/tampon/etc at least twice a day.
Don’t wash up inside your vagina (aka douching) it will tip the pH balance in your vagina and you will end up with an infection, you can wash around your thighs/pubic area but that’s it, same applies with perfumes and other body cosmetics.
Use coconut oil its good for so many things!!
Use body butters after getting out of the shower.
Use tea-tree oil for pimples.
Use sunscreen!!!
For people with oily skin - use blotting paper around your eyes and in your T - zone.
Don’t squeeze/pick at pimples - the bacteria on your hands will only make them worse and will create more redness.
Always use moisturiser before applying makeup
When washing your vagina, lift up the clitoral hood and softly rub your finger along the hood to wipe away dead skin cells. If you end up masturbating, fuck it.
Hair:
Wash your hair every 2-3 days. Don’t wash every day because it will make your head dry, try dry shampoos instead.
Use conditioning treatments weekly in the summer to prevent your hair from losing it’s colour.
Brush your curls with your fingers to create a more tousled look.
Before blow drying your hair use volumizing spray or gel on your roots for more definition in your hair.
Use shampoos that are sulfate free as sulfates dry and damage your hair quicker.
If your hair is greasy avoid conditioning the roots, just the ends.
Trim your hair every 6-8 weeks so you have healthy hair and no damaged ends.
Use avacado oil on your hair in the winter to stop your hair from drying out.
Dry shampoo is also very good for volumizing your hair.
The best way to get rid of ingrown hair is to exfoliate.
Avoid dry shaving your pubes, this will cause redness and spots which are easily treated with hydrocortisone cream or aloe vera.
If you are to shave, use conditioner instead of shaving cream - you will get a smoother result - that goes for anywhere you shave.
If you have a big ole mess in your pants try trimming your bush before you shave/wax it.
Waxing HURTS so if you’re dealing with the burns then place a cold towel in the sore area and leave it for about 15 minutes and then apply aloe.
If you experience chest/breast hair the best thing to do is pluck the hairs, it’s painful but rewarding.
Makeup:
Clean your makeup brushes, regularly along with any other makeup appliances (beauty blenders, makeup pads) in a mix of warm water and a little bit of soap.
Use a blotting tissue and then add a small amout of cream concealer onto your eye makeup to prevent smudging.
Matte lipstick goes best with a shimmer eye makeup.
Wearing white eyeliner counteracts the redness in your eyes.
To make your cheekbones appear higher, use bronzer under the cheekbone and highlighter on the actual cheekbone.
In summer if you want to avoid caking yourself with foundation - use tinted moisturiser or BB cream instead.
Always wash your makeup off before going to bed, don’t leave it on.
Always make sure you blend your foundation so your neck isn’t a different colour to your face.
Clean your makeup bag out every once in a while and get rid of any products you don’t use - its cleaner, tidier and more hygienic.
Always make sure you have tape and q-tips handy. Tape is great for a perfect winged eyeliner and q-tips are great for cleaning and tidying up those hard to reach areas.
Concealer works great for a base for your eye makeup as the makeup will stick to it.
Using highlighter and illuminators on your cheekbones, browbone and cupid’s bow for a “dewy look”.
When using cream products like eyeshadow or blush - use translucent powder to set it in place.
Kat Von-D lipstick is blow job proof :)
Replace mascara and eyeliners every 3 months or so.
Don’t share makeup/appliances for your eyes, it may cause infections like conjunctivitis and maybe a sty.
Blot your lips after applying lipstick to avoid getting lipstick teeth.
General:
Change your bra every 5-11 days.
Always make sure your feet are dry before putting on socks and shoes to prevent fungal infections.
Wash blood stained clothes in cold water with 2 tablespoons of salt.
Try your own homemade beauty recipes.
If you peel/lick your lips it will damage them, don’t do that.
Applying eye cream on the cuticles of your nails will make them stronger and healthier.
Always carry tampons/pads even when you’re not on your period, someone else might need them.
Clean out your purse!! Get rid of all that junk and you will thank yourself next time you’re looking for something.
Masturbate. Whenever you can, it’s rewarding and good for you. (yes girls masturbate too).
Always pee after sex/masturbation to help avoid getting a UTI.
Bio-oil is good for stretch marks (as well as loving them).
Save some nice underwear for yourself and just wear your dead old pants when you’re on your period.
Buy yourself some nice underwear/lingerie whenever you can. Make sure it’s 100% cotton though otherwise you can get a yeast infection.
Test yourself every once in a while for STDs. It’s necessary.
Carry a condom on you, it’s not just the guy’s responsibility.
Apply a damp tissue to blotchy, red skin after crying, it will make you look as if you haven’t been crying at all.
Don’t let boys ruin your day.
Use a paperclip to clip the back of your bra straps together to create a racerback bra.
Wrap a maxi pad or pantyliner around any poking underwires in your bra.
Wash your pillow case every 1-2 weeks to help prevent acne.
Cucumbers are good for dark circles and puffy eyes just place a slice over your eyes and leave for about 15 minutes.
treat and love yourself and your body will reward you!!!
Throwback Advice- "Do You Want Your Sugar Daddy Back"
Send him a seductive photo along with a message stating this:
I apologize that things didn’t work out with us. I was hoping for us to have a special relationship. You were always so nice to me. I’m sending this message because in reality I miss you and I hope for this to change with us. Please tell me your thoughts.
Try it and see what happens.
This year July has 5 Fridays, 5 Saturdays and 5 Sundays. This happens once every 823 years. This is called money bags. So copy this and money will arrive within 4 days. Based on Chinese Feng Shui, the one who does not copy, will be without money. Figured I'd pass this on!
This is weird,but what the heck
#options
Give me them all
How to Fake Confidence
1. Hold your head high, and look others in the eye
2. Smile
3. Stop apologizing
4. Relax and be quick to laugh at yourself (but not at others!)
5. Dress in a way that indicates you have self worth
6. Use good manners (like saying please and thank you) as this is actually a mark of self respect
7. Expect other people to believe in you, and to see and appreciate your good qualities.
8. Before you know it, its no longer fake
wheRE WAS THIS ALL MY LIFE
As someone who did this, I can guarantee you it legit works
Congratulations, you have your very first SD
Now, here are some topics which will keep him interested:
his childhood
the differences in growing up at different times
his city/town/country
your childhood
his success (this is a big one. Exaggerate and let him know he’s an inspiration to you)
your motivation in life (be truthful but make sure you have something whether its success, family, money etc)
his work and career
your work history
charity work (his contributions and your own)
sexual history (how many partners each of you have had for example. Girls, I know others say differently.. But if there’s no way of him finding out, feel free to lie and say a lower number than is true)
your family
your good friends
his travel experiences
his family (only at the point he feels comfortable discussing it with you)
famous people he and you have met (during this conversation mention a celebrity you want to meet that you love and that is your SD’s age. For example, George Clooney)
gadgets (ask about the usage of something that he uses i.e. an iPad that you don’t use)
his education, what he liked about college etc
your education, what you studied or are studying..
sports and exercise
psychology
food and different cuisines
drinking and alcohol
sex (if you feel comfortable)
fashion
Feel free to reblog and add more!
Friday rants
My SD literally cancels on my every other week and always says that he’s busy for work. Yet when he says that, I always see him online on SA, so like how busy could he actually be ?? Also he said after we became intimate he would stop looking because that’s how he was hurt in his previous SR...I didn’t ask for exclusivity but ok
Like it’s fine if you want to see other people but like be honest about it, and can you please stop cancelling on me the day before/making plans then ghosting for a week because I literally changed my schedule to accommodate yours??????
...I should probably talk to him about this.
Bless you, MusicalHoe.
♥ The Sugar Doll Survival Kit ♥
Survival kit you say?!
Yes.
After trial and error I have found that certain products/items are detrimental on sugar dates. I’m going to keep this short and sweet.
✔ Compact Mirror
Every lady should carry some sort of mirror on her at all times. God forbid you have a booger hanging from your nostril. ☹ If you have an iPhone you can always use the FaceTime camera.
✔ Mascara
You should already know to carry this in your purse. I LUUUUURVE (yes, lurve) Maybelline Falsies!
Here is a before and after using Maybelline Falsies. What a difference!
✔ Breath mints/Gum
Self-explanatory.
(Especially after consuming anything with onions or garlic)
✔ Defensive weapon of choice
You never know what some of these men may try. You need to be prepared. I prefer a pocket knife or pepper spray. Please DO NOT go around spraying or stabbing innocent people. I will not be held responsible. I have this mace gun at home:
Sooo cute, right?
✔ Perfume (sample size)
Lets not carry 3.4 ounces of perfume in our purse. Your local Sephora store should be able to give you a sample size of your favorite perfume of choice. It should look something like this:
✔ Vaseline (Petroleum Jelly)
I love this stuff! It can be used as a lip balm, rubbed on ASHY body parts, dull mani’s (Just wipe on your fingernails for a last minute nail-pick-me-up), etc.
✔ Tide Pen
Spilling hot chocolate on your WHITE shirt is never a good thing. Luckily, I had my bf’s Tide pen in my purse and it worked perfectly fine. I carry it with me everywhere now.
✔ Business Cards
Do I really have to tell you why to get business cards? Perhaps one with your name on the front and your Google number on the back. You can get them dirt cheap at Vistaprint. SIMPLE.
Last but not least…
✔ Counterfeit Pen
I went on a date with a pot that gave me $200 just for meeting. Later that day while trying to buy a dress at Nordstroms I found out one of the bills were indeed FAKE. Ugh. The humiliation. Now I carry this baby EVERYWEHRE. You can buy them cheap here!
***EDIT: I wrote this post a while ago but I felt it would be beneficial to share with new and seasoned sb’s alike***