being an ace with a high libido is so frustrating sometimes. it’s like being so hungry you want to eat everything and anything but the minute you look at food, nothing is appetizing whatsoever. it’s so tiring to want so much but not want anything at all 😭
funnily enough, i know some people exclude high libido aces as not being aces, but for me it just makes me even more certain that i am asexual. because for all intents and purposes, i could be allosexual with all this desire. but even with all the want in the world, the moment i think about making it a reality and trying to think of someone or find someone—it’s over. there’s nothing there. like i can’t describe to you how little i feel.
my high libido doesn’t invalidate my asexuality, if anything it just makes it so intensely more prominent, because at the end of the day i would be allosexual if i weren’t so god damn asexual LMAO
so yknow. having no desire for anyone while having lots of General Desire just makes me more sure i’m ace. because i would like to, ideally, work this out with someone, but. i’m asexual, and there’s nobody in existence i would actually want to do that with. it’s basically like the idea of sex is good, but not with another person. it doesn’t make any sense to me either, but it’s just how i work.
so i guess if you are also a high libido ace who can relate, you are very much asexual too and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
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