[isl-equ-ay]

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[kiefbowl]

women are so disconnected from their sense of self. asking others permission to want things and wondering if their feelings are allowed. my wish for all women is to start feeling entitled to their lives, entitled to their material existance on this earth, entitled to all that comes with being human. it's a lot easier to stand up for yourself and not tolerate mistreatment when you turn "am I allowed to feel angry?" into a definitive statement of "I'm angry."

[jenn1fersbody]

[poeticpicturism]

[cottaqecore]

sara toufali

[poeticpicturism]

[isl-equ-ay]

[thetwilightgarden]

[kosmogrl]

year of the horse you know what that means:

staying stuck in place is OUT

running free and doing whatever you want is IN

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

taking naps standing up is also IN

[miamlsunshine]

[cansu-m]

[oaluz]

““How can I support you?” is a question that works in almost every situation imaginable. It preempts judgement and assumptions while oozing humility. Often the person won’t have an immediate answer—likely because they aren’t used to being asked a question that’s about what they actually need as a unique human being. If they look stunned, I suggest something like: “It’s OK if you don’t have an answer or don’t need anything right now; the offer’s open for whenever. Just let me know.” And then use an emoji of some sort or make a face that conveys warmth so they know you mean it. (This could be a unicorn, the two señoritas dancing, or the smiling poo. Up to you.) *Here’s the fine print: you have to believe their answer, whatever it is. If they tell you they don’t need anything, you don’t get to push or pressure or demand they give you something to do so you feel less helpless. Remember, this isn’t about you.”

— Dear Bystander, The Unsolicited Advice Has Got To Stop - The Establishment 

[vssfu]

[odonianpoet]

[summernightsdream]

My baby giraffe

[unaliveish]

thi nguyen