A closure to my 120 days in Copenhagen
My 120 days of adventure in Denmark is now over.
It's sad to think that I had to leave when I finally feel comfortable in København (and finally be able to pronounce it correctly) to the point of knowing my way around the city even on the buses. Plus, it was so difficult to say good bye to my host family whom I have gotten so close to. Not to mention all the friends that I wouldn't be able to hang out with in Copenhagen. It's truly an understatement to say that the past 120 days have been the best semester in college... Of course, my journey had ups and downs. But fortunately, every downs became the challenges that taught me the essential skills in life and every ups have been the unforgettable memories that I will keep forever.
It's needless to say that this single post cannot sum up everything I have gained and learned, but at least I will have somewhat of a personal closure... I've been back in the states for about a week now, and it's quite unreal. I assure you, the first day back was confusing. Maybe this is the beginning of a reverse culture shock? I don't know. It was weird to think that I wouldn't go back to Værløse in a week or so (like my travel breaks)...
I'm already feeling nostalgic, which brings me back to the beginning of my journey. I remember in high school, I got interested in what life is like in Denmark when I found out about the Danish society and their mindset. Then luckily, I learned about an affiliated program (DIS) with my school that has a course for premeds (at the time I thought almost all study abroad programs have courses for premeds, which I later found out is not true). I applied and got accepted. I wrote to my host family in a form that is as formal as how I write for classes (so silly of me). I heard back from them a couple of days before my departure. Then I soon started blogging, with butterflies in my stomach, anxious and excited...
I remember writing:
I am now a third year in college, trying to find what God has planned for me to do in life. I wanted to explore and learn from a completely different lifestyle. Maybe to readjust or maybe to reaffirm my passion.
So this semester, I am going to explore the way of life in Europe. Meet a lot of new people and take a peak at how they live their lives, maybe finding a way into mine.
(http://sunriseindenmark.tumblr.com/post/29241828654/why-denmark)
Well, I did exactly that. I accomplished everything that I was planning to do:
I learned about the Danish culture and lifestyle
I traveled around Europe
I reaffirmed my passion in life
Nevertheless, I have gained more than I ever expected this semester...
It was a time of introspection; I learned so much about myself
I have incorporated the Danish mindset (low expectations and appreciation) to my life
Made some life long friends :)
Became part of a family that I can truly call my 'Danish family'
(I think) I became a little tougher inside...
I love biking and will soon add it to my daily mode of commute as soon as I get back to school
So the grand concluding question: Is Denmark the happiest country in the world?
Few of my friends have asked me: "So did you learn the key to happiness?" Well, yes and no... From the Danish mindset, I learned that happiness can be found in the most simple things that I took for granted, like a sunny day or a really delicious home cooked meal. Whenever I asked my host 'morfar' (grandpa) how his doing (or hvordan går det), he always answered, 'could be worse' with a smile. :) Of course, the definition of happiness has to be clarified as well. I don't think Danes are the most exuberant people on the Earth. But, they know how to compromise with the situation and be satisfied. Most Danes that I've met find happiness in the most basic but the most essential elements of life like, 'hygge' with family or a small group of friends. And I will never forget the meaning of hygge; the feeling that you get when you have candles lit on a table while you enjoy a good company with a cup of tea or a glass of wine, creating coziness even in the midst of a dark cold winter. :)
This has been actually a very difficult post to write... I started writing this post five days ago and wrote a sentence everyday and just couldn't finish it. But sharing some of my favorite Danish dishes while talking about the Danish political system and the socialized health care with my friends and family, I feel like everything that I l have earned and seen in past four months have already become a part of my life. I brought back a culture, and it will always be with me.
So there you have it. My AMAZING semester is over, but this is not a good bye. :)
Vi ses Danmark! Tak for a wonderful semester!!














