radiate kindness

sunny (she/her) // be kind // my ask box is always open!

[sunshineesuggestions]

Cyclamen?

cyclamen: did you have a favourite stuffed animal as a child? what was it?

when i was very young i had a stuffed duck that i called puddles. i loved puddles so much that when i lost him my mother had to go to the store and buy another until we found him! i still have both of them.

[sunshineesuggestions]

bluemink?

bluemink: what are your thoughts on children?

i think kids are both extraordinarily wonderful and wildly unpredictable. i’m still deciding if i want kids, but i do know that i will not be having my own. there are so many kids already in need of a loving home, and i don’t really feel a strong need for a genetic mini me.

[spectral-ask-memes]

Flower Asks

Alisons: Sexuality? 

Amaranth: Pronouns/Gender? 

Amaryllis: Birthday? 

Anemone: Favorite flower? 

Angelonia: Favorite t.v. show? 

Arum-Lily: What’s the farthest you’d go for a stranger? 

Aster: What’s one of your favorite quotes? 

Aubrieta: Favorite drink? 

Baby’s Breath: Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? 

Balsam Fir: Have you ever been in love? 

Baneberries: Favorite song? 

Basket of Gold: Describe your family. 

Beebalm: Do you have a best friend? Who is it? 

Begonia: Favorite color? 

Bellflower: Favorite animal? 

Bergenia: Are you a morning or night person? 

Black-Eyed Susan: If you could be any animal for a day, what would it be?

Bloodroots: When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? 

Bluemink: What are your thoughts on children? 

Blazing Stars: What are you afraid of? Is there a reason why? 

Borage: Give a random fact about your childhood. 

Bugleherb: How would you spend your last day on Earth?  

Buttercup: Relationship Status? 

Camelia: If you could visit anywhere, where would you want to go? 

Candytufts: When do you feel most loved? 

Canna: Do you have any tattoos?  

Canterbury Bells: Do you have any piercings?  

California Poppy: Height?  

Cardinal Flower: Do you believe in ghosts? 

Carnation: What are you currently wearing?  

Catnip: Have you ever slept with a nightlight? 

Chives: Who was the last person you hugged?  

Chrysanthemum: Who’s the last person you kissed?

Cock’s Comb: Favorite font? 

Columbine: Are you tired? 

Common Boneset: What are you looking forward to? 

Coneflower: Dream job? 

Crane’s-Bill: Introvert or extrovert? 

Crocus: Have you ever been in love? 

Crown Imperial: What’s the farthest you would go for someone you care about? 

Cyclamen: Did you have a favorite stuffed animal as a child? What was it? 

Daffodil: What’s your zodiac sign? 

Dahlia: Have you done anything worth remembering? 

Daisy: What do you feel is your greatest accomplishment? 

Daylily: What would you do if your parents didn’t like your partner(s)?  

Dendrobium: Who is the last person that you said “I love you” to?

False Goat’s Beard: What is something you are good at? 

Foxgloves: What’s something you’re bad at? 

Freesia: What are three good things that have happened in the past month? 

Garden Cosmos: How was your day today? 

Gardenia: Are you happy with where you’re at in your life? 

Gladiolus: What is something you hope to do in the next year or two? 

Glory-of-the-Snow: What are ten things that make you happy/you’re grateful to have in your life? 

Heliotropium: What helps you calm down when you feel stressed?  

Hellebore: How do you show affection? 

Hoary Stock: What are you proudest of? 

Hollyhock: Describe your ideal day. 

Hyacinth: What do you like to do in your free time?  

Hydrangea: How long have you known your best friend? How did you meet them?

Irises: Who can you talk to about (almost) everything?

Laceleaf: How many friends do you have?

Lantanas: What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? 

Larkspur: What do you think of yourself? 

Lavender: What’s your favorite thing about yourself? 

Leather Flower: What’s your least favorite thing about yourself?  

Lilac: What’s something you liked to do as a child? 

Lily: Who was your best friend when you were a kid? 

Lily of the Incas: What is something you still feel guilty for? 

Lily of the Nile: What is something you feel guilty for that you shouldn’t feel guilty about?  

Lupine: What does your name mean? Why is that your name? 

Marigold: Where did you grow up? Tell us about it. 

Morning Glory: What was your bedroom like growing up? 

Mugworts: What was it like for you as a teenager? Did you enjoy your teenage years?  

Norwegian Angelica: Tell us about your mom.

Onions: Tell about your dad.  

Orchid: Tell about your grandparents. 

Pansy: What was your most memorable birthday? What made it be so memorable? 

Peony: What was your first job? 

Petunia: If you’re in a relationship, how did you meet your partner(s)? If you’re not in a relationship, how did you meet your crush/how do you hope to meet your future partner(s), if you want any? 

Pincushion: How do you deal with pain? 

Pink: Where is home? 

Plantain Lilies: If you could go back in time, what is one thing you would stop/change? 

Prairie Gentian: Who is someone you look up to? Describe them. 

Primrose: Describe your ideal life. 

Rhodendron: What is something you used to believe in as a child? 

Ricinus: Who’s the most important in your life? 

Rose: What’s your favorite sound? 

Rosemallows: What’s your favorite memory? 

Sage: What’s your least favorite memory? 

Snapdragon: At this moment, what do you want?  

St. John’s Wort: Is it easy or difficult for you to express how you feel about things? 

Sunflower: What is something you don’t want to imagine life without? 

Sweet Pea: How much sleep did you get last night? 

Tickseed: What’s your main reason to get up every morning? 

Touch-Me-Not: How do you feel about your current job? 

Transvaal Daisy: What’s your favorite item of clothing? 

Tropical White Morning Glory: Describe your aesthetic.  

Tulip: What would be the best present to get you? 

Vervain: What’s stressing you out most right now? 

Wisteria: How many books have you read in the past few months? What were they called? 

Wolf’s Bane: Where do you want to be in life this time next year?

Yarrow: Do you know what vore is?

Zinnia: Give a random fact about yourself.

[sunshineesuggestions]

i love these so much!

[sunshineesuggestions]

How do I find my soulmate ? Any suggestions / tips?

i personally don’t believe in soulmates. i believe that you may click with some people better than others, but that there is no person where things just fall into place, where everything is perfect. all healthy relationships take work. also, finding someone who you can fall in love with romantically is not the only thing in the world. fall in love with your friends, your family, the world. i hope this made some sense!

[sunshineesuggestions]

I like this one guy in my English class but idk how to approach him like he’s always surrounded by his lax friends ;-;; pls help

oh boy i know how this one feels!! alright friend, we live in a peculiar age where approaching someone in person can feel impossible, but i believe that the connection you make person to person can’t be reached as quickly any other way than eye to eye. my guess is that your best bet is to try to get him alone. it may take walking up while he’s with his friends and joining the conversation, maybe bring food to class if allowed, and hand it out yourself. that will mean you get to talk to him he will definitely notice you. i personally get very anxious but even a simple compliment can help break the ice. best of luck to you!

[aznaudrey]

p a n t o n e s

[sunshineesuggestions]

I sometimes feel hopeless when it comes to dating, sex, and love. And then I feel silly for thinking that and placing my worth on that. Any advice? Thanks hun 😁🍯

hello friend! keep in mind that this is all my own opinion, not instructions on how to live your life. i have only very recently become comfortable with dating, and i do believe it is partially thanks to the kind of people i now allow myself to go for. feeling hopeless about your dating life is definitely something a lot of people i know go through. society places a very high standard that everyone’s purpose is to date well, find a perfect match. as long as you are having fun, being safe, and not hurting anyone, there are no rules for dating. feeling silly about placing your worth on it will be hard to shake, but firstly, your feelings are not silly. secondly, try placing your worth on the things that you take pride in about yourself. it can be a long and difficult process but it is so worth it to view yourself as you are, as a wonderful individual whose needs and feelings are very much valid. i hope this has helped, always feel free to ask more if i can help!

[sunshineesuggestions]

i think that, just maybe, you could be the sweetest thing i’ve ever seen.

[sunshineesuggestions]

i dont wanna live anymore

i hope i didn’t answer this too late but i really hope this helps you. life is really hard and there are a lot of bad things but there is also so much good to live for. you have so much left to see and learn and feel and love. sometimes it can be hard to live for yourself and if you are struggling don’t live for yourself, live for the birds that sing and the trees that grow. love for the people in your life that love you. i promise you they love you. live for the lives that you can make better, live for the dogs that will always get excited to see you no matter what. and if you can’t live for them, live for me, because i don’t care if you are someone i’ve never even met or my best friend, i want you to live. it gets better. please stick around to see it.

if anyone needs someone to talk to, message me. i will listen. i will not judge. and i will do everything in my power to help you. you are not alone.

[daydreams-and-sunshine]

[sunshineesuggestions]

this blog is perfect for one of my yellow blogs!!

thank you! yellow is my favourite colour and i’m so glad that it works for you!!

[sunshineesuggestions]

let your days be as warm as you make my heart feel.

[sunshineesuggestions]

6k!! i’m so happy!! i love you all so much!!

[sunshineesuggestions]

your smile is sunshine & it melts my heart.

[daydreams-and-sunshine]

[sunshineesuggestions]

i love your blog so much 💗💗 you really do inspire me to be kind and encouraging to other people! i hope you have a great day and appreciate yourself for your kindness!

oh this has been in my inbox for so long i feel awful but thank you so much!! i love that my blog impacted you in a positive way!

[sunshineesuggestions]

what are key personality aspects someone should work on

hello friend! i think that everyone can always work on something, no one is perfect and we can all be a little kinder, a little more generous, a little less judgmental. and while it’s not my place to tell people who or how to be, i think everyone should try to be more respectful and accepting of the people around them.