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Improve Your Online Dating Profile Pictures

When it comes to Online Dating a lot of people think of it as a joke and something that doesn’t really matter because its “Online Dating.” Well guess what, the people who have those thoughts are the ones who end up complaining and bitching that they’re not getting any type of results so they have nothing but negative things to say about it.

A better way to think about it is to joke around and have fun, having THAT mindset will help you out a lot more than not giving a shit. If you’re going to put your time and effort into something make it worth your while, don’t just half ass it so you can bitch and nag about it later, KNOW WHAT I’M SAYIN’???

Okay, pictures.  When it comes to choosing your pictures there’s a few things that come into play…

1.) Have recent photos of yourself

2.) Having QUALITY photos

3.) Have more than 3 pictures of yourself 

4.) Have pictures of you OUTSIDE of your house

Having recent photos of yourself is important because your style could have changed, you could have gone balled or you could have gained or lost some weight. If you look nothing like your pictures except for the fact that people can tell it’s you, it’s considered lying. I know, I know…girls will take their best angled shots and make themselves look like they’re 120 pounds when in fact they’re 190, lol, but don’t do it. 

It doesn’t look good if it’s 2012 and your picture says 2005 in the corner even if you look the same, people are going to think, “Does he not go out or have a social life?” If you don’t have recent photos of yourself take your camera with you for the next month everywhere you go and if you don’t have a camera BARROW ONE. You want recent photos of yourself!

The reason that quality photos are important is so that girls can actually see you in the picture. Having fuzzy or too digital looking of a picture won’t help them see you and it will make them skip looking at the rest of your profile. A lot of the online dating sites turn your picture into a thumbnail and when girls are browsing and hunting for guys, a fuzzy picture will look even more blurry when smaller.

If you’re into going out bar hopping or clubbing or only go when friends invite you, there are photographers that take pictures for the venue and promoters, don’t think twice about not stopping them and having them take a picture of you and your friends doing fun and silly poses. THAT’S WHAT THEYRE PAID TO DO, take photos of the crowd having fun. Usually they’ll hand you a card with the website you can find your photos at and the quality of their pictures are great since they’re using top of the line cameras.

Not all, but a lot of guys will barely put any photos of themselves up and it doesn’t help you one bit. You got to think that Online Dating is like window shopping, the more pictures you have to look at and if they’re all cool and of quality the better your chances are of her hitting you up or writing you back.

If you walked up to a store and saw some crappy display with some alright looking clothes hanging on a beat up manikin you wouldn’t think to yourself, “Man I’m so going into this store to grab some gear.” No, you’d think to yourself, “NEXT!” So keep that in mind when you’re uploading photos of yourself. Your pictures are the hooking point on getting her to read your profile and messaging you back.

You may be asking yourself why do I need pictures of me outside of my house? Let me explain. You want to show women that you have an interesting and fun life and if all your pictures are taken from your webcam at your desk inside your room, she might think, “Does he only play video games?” or “Does he even have a job?” Everything about online dating is getting them hooked enough to get a date and you having pictures of you bar hopping, miniature golfing drunk, fishing on your boat, whatever it is, is what’s going to help you out.

Women don’t want to date guys with boring lives, that’s probably the reason she left her ex-boyfriend in the first place. He didn’t like going out or didn’t have enough friends etc. etc…So remember, have 5-7 pictures of you outside your house having fun and doing things with friends will look a lot better than having you just sitting around your house taking pictures of yourself in the mirror like this is MySpace 2004.   

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Top 3 Mistakes Guys Make With Their Photos On Dating Sites

1.) Having Old Photos  Look fellas, if you’re going to be using online dating as your source of finding girlfriends or dates you’re going to have to take it a little serious and make sure your photos are up to date.

I’m not saying you can’t have a picture of you from when you were younger but don’t only have outdated pictures of yourself from over 4 years ago.

Having older pictures of yourself is just like a girl posting old pictures of herself on her profile and then texting you old pictures and when you meet her she’s 50 pounds heavier, you just don’t do it.

If you don’t have any ideas on how to get pictures of yourself, here are a few tips. Purchase a camera, they have cheap ones for like $68 dollars at Best Buy or Target and if you cant’ afford one at the moment barrow one from a close friend or family member.

If you’re out and about bar hopping or clubbing, they usually have photographers taking photos for the venue or promoter, stop them and have them take your picture. They will usually hand you a business card on where to find the pictures and if not, ask them where you can find them and they’ll tell you..

Take one or two pictures from your webcam, just don’t take all of them from there but having one or two is fine. If you see your friends taking pictures, jump in front of them and put yourself in the picture. 

So yeah, no outdated pictures.  

  2.)  Wearing The Same Outfit In 2+ Pictures Remember, first impressions don’t get second chances so you want to make it count as much as you can when girls come to your profile. When you have pictures, don’t have the same outfit on in more than one picture!

Say you have 5 photos up on your profile, have all 5 photos with you in different outfits! I know we all have out “favorite” outfits and all that jazz but for the sake of your online dating profile make sure they’re all different.

Say you start taking your camera with you everywhere you go and you head out 3-4 nights a week, in just one week you’ll have 4 new pictures with 4 new outfits you can put up on your profile. It’s that easy.

Remember to have fun while taking your camera out with you everywhere as well! The more fun you have the better your pictures will come out and girls will notice that.

3.) Not Having Quality Photos Okay, when I mean quality photos I mean photos that can show who you are, not pictures that are taken from a distance where people can’t see you’re actual features.

If women can only tell that you have brown hair, you’re smiling and you have on a Nike sweater it’s not a quality picture.

Have photos that are close enough that they can see you. Another thing about quality photos is having pictures that aren’t too digital, you want to have a camera that has a high quality amount of pixels or megapixels.

You can go with what I suggested earlier in (Having Old Photos) and get photos taken of you while you’re out clubbing.

You may be thinking to yourself, “Why does all this stuff matter?” Just like everything in life, the more effort you put into this the better your results are going to be.

Now that you know what not to do, have fun on whichever dating site(s) you’re on and remember to 1.) Have RECENT photos of yourself, 2.) Be wearing a different outfit in every picture you have up. 3.) Have quality pictures. 

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Top 3 Mistakes Made When Messaging Girls On Dating Sites

1.) Messaging her too many time  You can message girls two MAYBE three times if she hasn’t responded but there’s a certain way you have to do it. Girls are getting swarmed with messages every day and if you don’t think so, make a female profile and check it for yourself, it’s too much. Say you’re scanning through your favorite dating site and you see this little cutie you want to message, you message her with your “best” message you came up with and BAM, nothing…A lot of guys will message her back the next day, you don’t want to be that guy.   If she doesn’t respond to your initial message wait a week or two and then send a NEW message. Sending the next day will just make you look mad needy and super desperate. Yes, you will look that way even if you’re the coolest dude on the planet. If you’re already in mid convo with her and she doesn’t respond to one of your messages and you’re wondering what happened, you can message her then, but don’t say something like, “Hey, just wondering what happened to you…” think a bit outside the box, “I just read on OkCupid’s blog that you ran off and got married to some guy from Seattle, how’s everything been?” Just replace OkCupid with whatever dating site you’re talking to her on.  When you really like something GO FOR IT! Again, don’t send three or more in a row seeing what she’s doing, just send the one poking fun at her for not messaging and leave it.

If she doesn’t message back after that then who knows what happened to her. Messaging twice in a row like this is only needy if you think it’s needy. Having the right mindset is what you truly need. I have friends who send a girl a who doesn’t write them back a new Power Message every week to see if she’ll bite and a few have gotten numbers from this. The key thing to this online dating thing is HAVING FUN with it. The minute you think it’s a chore or a hassle you’re not going to like it. Dating, flirting, sex and all the good stuff that comes from relationships isn’t a chore. 2.) Messaging, "Hello." "Hi." or "How was your weekend?" 

Like I said earlier in rule one, THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX! Believe it or not these three messages are really common and you, my friend, don’t want to be common, right? Your first message means a lot, since first impressions don’t get second chances UNLESS you go balls out and message her like we mentioned above. In your message you want to convey who you are and almost screen for the type of person she is by her response. 

You’re on dating sites because you’re looking for a girl that YOU want, not one that’s going to allow you to be her man. You choose. A lot of guys have the mentality of “I hope she likes this.” NO! Your thought needs to be, “If she doesn’t like my stuff then she obviously doesn’t get my humor so why would I want to date her?”

Make messaging a game. Send out messages that sound serious, send messages that are funny or even sarcastic. TEST THEM ALL! Don’t make one message, message 17 girls and think that, that’s it because it’s not.

Thousands of girls are signing up on dating sites every day, it’s literally like someone hit the REFRESH button on a video game and you get to start over every day you sign in. 3.) Tell a girl you want to have sex with her right away.

Yes, there are some guys out there that just flat out tell girls they just want to have sex in their initial message. It does sound funny but that’s as far as it goes, women don’t sit at their computer reading through their messages and when they come to the one where some random guy tells her he wants to have sex with her, she’s not thinking to herself, “LETS MAKE IT HAPPEN!”  I’m not saying there aren’t girls out there that don’t want to have sex, but lets face it girls like to be chased, flirted with and want to have that attraction built. If you read what models say they like in a guy when they’re interviewed in magazines they say they want a guy that can make them laugh.  That’s one thing 99.9% of women say, “I just want a guy that has a great sense of humor.” Or “I just want a guy who can make me laugh.” Leave being aggressive out of the messaging and save that for the sexting and the bedroom. Keep the messaging to being witty, charming and outrageous to win her over until you meet her on the date.