CIRCUMCISION: Tip-top advice for younger intact guys whose foreskin still doesn’t go fully back (i. e. fully retract)
It isn’t necessary to tell your parents. Actually, it’s better if you don’t. They might take you to get circumcised, which is the last thing you want.
Please don’t worry. You’re normal for your age. Your foreskin’s still developing. You don’t have phimosis. You have a normal, non-retractable foreskin due to your youth. It isn’t uncommon for teen guys to have a foreskin that doesn’t retract.
You are blessed with a protective, highly-innervated, erogenous full-length foreskin. Many unforeskinned guys would envy your foreskin. You display great wisdom in wanting to avoid circumcision.
You should thank your parents for protecting your physical integrity. Because of your physical integrity, you’ll be able to have sex the way nature intended it.
http://www.SexAsNatureIntendedIt.com/
http://www.DoctorsOpposingCircumcision.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/for-men-good-news-for-intact-men.pdf
Don’t be misled by those who want you to have part of your penis cut off.
Every male starts life with a tight, non-retractable foreskin. Some get looser automatically and some need a little help.
The foreskin is supposed to be tight and non-retractable in childhood so that it provides protection, but it is supposed to retract and glide back and forth in adulthood. Teens are in transition between childhood and adulthood so frequently the foreskin is still non-retractable.
It’s not necessary to have a foreskin that will retract. Some men live their entire lives with a non-retractable foreskin. They can masturbate, have penetrative sex, get married, and father children with a foreskin that doesn’t retract.
http://www.circumstitions.com/Restric/adult-non-retr.html#adult
You may clean non-retractile foreskin with a rubber-bulb ear syringe. Just fill the syringe with lukewarm water and squirt it into the foreskin.
There are 3 possible reasons that a foreskin will not retract.
1) The tip of the foreskin is too tight to pass back over the head.
2) The frenulum is too short to permit retraction.
3) There’s a fusion or adhesion of the inner foreskin to the glans penis.
The first reason is the most common.
It’s easy to make your foreskin wider, looser and more retractable by manual stretching.
http://circumstitions.com/Docs/teen.pdf
Almost all boys are born with a foreskin that does not retract. This is normal. It takes years for the ability to retract to develop. About ½ of boys have a retractable foreskin by 10.4 years of age. Many adolescents still have foreskins that have tips that are too narrow to pass back over the penis head. These foreskins may be gently stretched over a period of time to cause them to widen. In most cases, the foreskin becomes retractable by age eighteen.
When your penis is erect, gently pull your foreskin back against the head of the penis. As the head attempts to pass through the foreskin it will stretch the skin a little. Do this several times every day and in a few weeks or months your foreskin will widen and you will be able to retract your foreskin. Do NOT force retraction. Do NOT cause yourself pain.
It works by tissue expansion. Stretching skin induces “mitosis”, which is a word that means “division of cells”. New skin cells are formed and the skin grows but it takes some time. The increase in size is permanent. Be patient and give mitosis time to work.
The important thing is to put the skin under tension several times every day so that it will grow wider.
In adult males, the internally lubricated foreskin should be loose enough to glide smoothly back and forth and up and down the shaft of the erect penis.
Betamethasone valerate ointment, a topical steroid, which is available by prescription may help, but it won’t work by itself. Manual stretching is still required.
http://willywellbeing.com/forums/forum/phimosis-frenulum-breve-circumcision-foreskin-retraction/
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/wiki/Tight_Foreskin
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/phimosis/beauge2/
http://www.HealthBoards.com/boards/mens-health/178155-stretching-fix-tight-foreskin-phimosis.html
https://www.wikihow.fitness/Do-Phimosis-Stretching
https://www.reddit.com/r/Phimosishelp/
https://www.reddit.com/r/Phimosis/comments/9hge3n/asian_dude_w_phimosis_cured_by_stretching_my_story
http://www.cirp.org/library/normal/
There are some who would want you to be circumcised. Circumcision is a horrible, mutilating, destructive, harmful operation, that takes off the best part of the penis. Recovery is difficult and painful. It should be considered a last resort to be used only after conservative treatment fails. One may prefer to remain as one is rather than undergo circumcision. Circumcision is becoming outmoded as treatment for non-retractile foreskin.
[And really try to only use clean water for cleaning under the foreskin. NO HARSH SOAPS! Harsh soaps destroy the healthy bacteria under the foreskin and they dry out living, normal, natural tissues. Harsh soaps can lead to troubles with the foreskin as well as possible infections. Now-and-then use of a mild soap, well rinsed off, is OK.]
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