you go to visit your hometown and see a cute guy at the mall, you decide fuck it, youāre only there for a few weeks and so you get his number. yāall connect instantly, immediately getting along but you notice heās a little off sometimes, like heāll be fine and then dry. you think heās just having an off day. you soon figure out heās a c0k3 and x@n4x addict, but you are like whatever cus youāve done similar things before so itās fine. the two of you hang out twice in person and heās fine, super fun and sweet, you even kiss during the movie you were watching and decide to date since youāre going back home and donāt want to start dating online. then he starts getting comfortable, he starts getting mad when you donāt respond fast, when youāre doing something else on call, and starts wanting to be on call all the time. he goes to his brothers party for a cabin, heās on call with you but with your cameras off cus heās getting drunk whatever, you trust him because why not? itās been a week now. by this point, heās started having pretty mad mood swings, going from happy to dry, then he starts getting angry and accusing you of the silliest things. he is stressing you out so bad you arenāt eating, again, just met this guy. but youāre attached because when heās good, heās great. fast forward to you get home, heās causing arguments everyday, spamming you in the middle of the night, accusing you of cheating on him at 4am on a school morning, itās constant arguing and youāre being patient as you can but itās getting hard. you have each others instagram and it somehow makes the situation worse, he starts posting shit on your note accusing you of cheating and basically mocking you on YOUR notes. itās humiliating. your friends start to take a step back, even threatening not to speak to you until you end it so you do. you feel bad but know itās the best thing you can do. the two of you have a playlist together in the meantime btw, and youāre adding songs to it aimed toward eachother, changing profile pictures, bios, etc. itās a constant cycle of breaking up and getting back together in the span of a few HOURS. eventually, yall end it for good and he admits to cheating on you when yāall first started dating when he went to his brothers party, WHILE YOU WERE SICK AND ON THE PHONE WITH HIM!! You keep your calm, not caring and simply let him be. Since then, heās sent you paragraphs, changed his tiktok username to match yours, followed and unfollowed you on spotify, made playlists about you, and texting you on discord which you donāt even have, you got an email about it. he is so obsessed with you, and yāall held hands at MOST. throughout this, heās gotten with multiple other girls, posted tiktoks of new hickies in YOUR hoodie, and changed his aesthetic to match yours. anyways, we broke up two months ago, dated for maybe a week max if you donāt count the on and off, and heās STILL trying to message me. leave me ALONE fucking psycho..