Mike Driver
cherry valley forever
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Origami Around
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styofa doing anything
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Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
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shark vs the universe
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@sweetcarnality
artwork commissioned by one and only @olivieblake
But the monster could not get into the habit of peering into the depths, and by chance, his gaze passed over the day boy and the night girl, leaving one to slip out of the dark. from Nightmares and Nocturnes by @olivieblake
Commission me!
Likes? I think what you meant was “needs”.
John Mulaney | The Salt & Pepper Diner
I think what makes this joke great is that I’ve heard it several times before and it still makes me absolutely cry from laughing. I just listened to this in my office at work and I was laughing so hard people were giving me weird looks when they walked down the hall past my office. Do yourself a favor and unmute this. Your day will be better for it.
what am i watching here?
I don’t want to decide.
I don’t want to decide how our date will go. I don’t want to decide where we go, or what I wear, or who will drive, or where we’ll end up.
I don’t want to worry about choosing a restaurant that you’ll like, or wonder if you’ve been there before, or are picky about that kind of cuisine, or dislike the neighborhood it’s in.
I don’t want to hem and haw over which outfit will make me look my best for you, but not too slutty, but isn’t too uncomfortable, but is still sexy. I don’t want to fret over choosing underwear that will sit right under the dress, if I should make it match. If I should wear an unlined bra because you’ll want to touch me through it, or a padded bra because it will make me look stacked in a wiggle dress.
I don’t want to worry about whether I should meet you there so I have an escape route, or allow you to pick me up because you want to be a gentleman, or take an uber to be safe.
I don’t want to stress over whether taking you home with me tonight is too soon. I don’t want to wonder if you’ll think I’m slutty if I go home with you. I don’t want the night to end too soon because I’ve got ideas in my head of what’s appropriate for a first, second, third, or fourth date. I don’t want to rush into things and spend tomorrow worrying if you think we went too far.
I want you to take the lead. I want you to decide.
I need you to share your preferences, indicate what you would like, or outright make a request.
Take away my worry by taking away the options that plague me.
You like Thai food and Indian food, or better yet, you want to go to a specific restaurant. You’d like to see me in a little black dress, no panties. You’ll pick me up so we don’t both have to worry about parking. And while you know we both want so much more, you set boundaries for the night because you want me to be comfortable. Because there’s always next time.
I don’t want to decide. I need you to. It’s just so much easier that way.
^Yes yes yes yes yes yes. Take notes.
Fuck this day in the face till the tears roll down its cheeks and the mascara runs.
Mr.Cain (via asmodeus-cain)
Perfect!
(via dwpreturns)
Cussing doesn’t come from a lack of vocabulary – I know all the other words. None of them speak the same language that my f*cking heart does.
Anis Mojgani (via wordsnquotes)
“There’s My Girl”
Whenever I place myself in a position for spanking, my husband says, “There’s my girl.” At first it made me chuckle. I mean, my ass is pretty much in his face, and that’s when he says I’m his girl? It never bothered me – just struck me as humorous.
But it’s been years now, and the other day, I realized how accurate the statement was. After a long day with limited time together, it’s the first overtly submissive act I can engage in without an audience. It’s the first time the two of us are together (usually) without distractions or interruptions.
I don’t think I’ll ever tell him about this realization I had. I would never want him to stop saying it, and sometimes noticing something can cause it to change. It’s funny that I never really thought about this before. I used to laugh, but not now, because he’s right; that’s when I become his girl.
“Masculinity and femininity are complementary properties,” I told her. “If a man wishes a woman to be more feminine, he must be more masculine. If a woman wishes a man to be more masculine, she must be more feminine.” Page 205 - Explorers of Gor
(via omnomnomnoms)
Makes a lot of sense.
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Wild cherry trees in Nara, Japan.
O/our tribe has had its first baby!
At 6:33am, Saturday morning, W/we received the news W/we have all been waiting for!
@sweetcarnality and R are home with their new bundle of baby girl joy!
If this crosses your dash, please send her a congratulations and a ton of love and light - W/we are very excited about this and just needed to let everyone know ASAP!
Sending you all love, light and joy - DB and His princess i
Thank Y/you for such an amazing welcome for our newest baby girl! i love Y/you guys.
When Depression Loosens the Collar
I had a long conversation with a friend last night, about depression.
Depression is just plain brutal, and I’ve had more experience with it than I care to think about. It hurts everyone involved, in ways that are subtle and devious. We realized during our discussion, though, that it’s particularly hard for the submissive partners of affected Dominants.
D/s is not our entire relationship, but its nuances color so many of our interactions. When Wolf’s depression takes hold, it’s sometimes all he can do to keep putting one foot in front of the other. He manages the bare essentials, and not much more. Not only do I feel helpless because I can’t bring him out of it, but I feel adrift, unloved, and decidedly un-owned. How can he give me the structure and discipline I need if he can barely make himself get out of bed? Then in the midst of feeling sorry for myself, I remember how much worse he must feel, and I add guilt to the reasons I hurt.
On the worst days, it feels like he’s in a isolation booth. I can see him, but I can’t touch him. I know he’s there, and I know that he will eventually be released, but that doesn’t make the wait any easier. All I can do is keep mouthing I love you against the glass, and hope he understands.
My friend and I asked Wolf for advice, and this is what he said. “Remember that depression isn’t about you. It isn’t anything you’ve said or done, and doesn’t mean that they don’t love you. Even though it feels helpless, and like there’s nothing you can do, your efforts matter, even when you’re turned away. It’s also okay to engage an activity with your partner, and push past the lethargy to force a little light in.”
He also recommended a support group, but my friend pointed out (rightly so) that many of the issues facing subs are unique to us. Can you imagine going to a depression support group and complaining that your partner’s depression was really cutting into your spanking time? Probably not the best conversation starter.
I wish I had all the answers, but I don’t. What I can offer is the reassurance that your Dominant is still inside there somewhere, waiting to come back to you. The grip holding the leash might be slack, but the collar is still in place. Hang in there, and remember that sometimes being needed is just as rewarding as being dominated. ~spice
This is so important for friends and lovers of people with depression to know – “Remember that depression isn’t about you. It isn’t anything you’ve said or done, and doesn’t mean that they don’t love you.” Well said!
^^^ Thank you so much for this, there is not enough about how partners of those with depression are affected. Indeed it isn’t about you at all and that is probably hardest to take because if it’s not about you, how can you help? Just being there is helpful, it’s a support in itself. I’m a sub with depression, not a Dom but I love that people are discussing this. Warm thoughts and big hugs xxx
I don’t think depression discriminates between Dom and sub. It may be more obvious in a Dominant, with the expectation of leadership and self direction. But the ideal submissive is no less self directed. And depression takes no less a toll on the relationship. The support and delight of interaction falls away.
I don’t have a solution. Wish I did. I can only offer my experience, the few lessons I have learned; the will to open the discussion, and the knowledge that sometimes the words help, even if only a little. A little better, a little more understanding, patience and self love are a little better.
A friend from long past tagged my bumper. When we get better, everyone gets better. Still true.
Namaste, cheers. And be well!
Reblogging for all of our new followers, and because it seems especially relevant today. Let yourselves off the hook - depression isn’t anyone’s fault. Just something to work your way through, together. ~spice
Beauty and the Beast (1991)
my fave
sending you positive energy … strength…courage…patience…along with light and love…You got this…there is no greater joy…hugs @sweetcarnality {♡m♡}
Thank you very much for the kind thoughts and wishes. Every little bit of positivity helps and is greatly appreciated.
It is O/our dear @sweetcarnality‘s due day!
Everyone get the energy flowing and get that baby home!
My darling princess i recommends using “French induction” - rough “vanilla” sex, with doggy style working best due to deeper penetration. Then, repeat until “desired results” are achieved! :-)
(Is it any wonder I fucking love My little girl?)
W/we love you sweetc!
DB and His princess i
obsessed with pink velvet
