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sweetlybound

I can’t describe how badly I need this.

cleverbrute

same

thesailorrvenus-deactivated2019

censored, but make it art hoe.

sweetlybound

i love this so much, words cannot describe

lifemaniac91

esdeline

pleasurewhore-deactivated201802

Respecting your limits does not equal being with you regardless of what they are.

A person can respect your limits and still choose not to be with you because of them.

You don’t want to give up control of your orgasms, don’t want to swallow, or don’t want to use an honorific (Sir, Master, etc.), that’s your choice and it’s completely valid.

You get to set your limits, but keep in mind that when someone comes along and tells you those things are a must have for them, that’s not them disrespecting you. They’re not abusive or manipulative for deciding not to pursue a relationship because your limits are essentials for them.

People have just as much of a right to their ‘musts’ as you have to your ‘wonts’.

a-daddys-search

Absolutely!

instructor144

Yes. This. Sometimes, one person’s hard limit is the other person’s must-have. If you are in that situation, the other person is not obligated to forego their must-have in order to accommodate your hard limit. In this situation, it’s a foundational incompatibility, and the two of you move on. Doesn’t require a lot of drama, doesn’t require a lot of gnashing and waling, doesn’t require showing up in my Inbox with “So he’s totally an abusive asshole for not accommodating me, right??” You just move on.