okay, let me just give you guys advice real quick. if you miss someone, thats okay. its okay to miss their voice, their laugh, they way they called you cute pet names that you secretly adored, their humor, their touch, their smile, them. thats okay. its okay if you spend more times thinking of them than not. but what isnt okay is, thinking youre worthless because they left, or saying you will never find someone youre worthy for. because the way i see it is, if the person left then, thats their mistake okay? they were unable to see your worth, beauty, and uniqueness. thats their problem. what isnt okay is feeling pathetic for missing them. everyone misses someone. whether its been a day, month, years, ect. its no where near pathetic. hell, i miss someone and its been 8 smacking months. yeah, it sucks and i wish things turned out differently, but they didnt and thats okay. because i know i will find someone even if its seemingly difficult right now, it isnt impossible.