Plural Positivity

Inclusive of all forms of plurality! Endo and Tulpa safe. DNI: anti-endo/sysmed, MAPs, any form of community exclus

[systempositive]

Welcome to SystemPositive!

We are Daydreamers Collective and we made this blog to extend support and positivity to systems of all origins.

"Even-"

Yes, doesn't matter who. All systems are loved and cared for here.

"What can we send in asks?"

Pretty much anything plurality-related. We take positivity requests, you can send in your own positivity, you can send memes to our ask box, show us your plurality-related art, and if you ask we can reblog your pinned/donation posts. Lighthearted and good-taste plural jokes that make us laugh skip the queue.

"Is there anything you'd prefer we don't send?"

Discourse (especially syscourse) is absolutely not welcome here. We are radinclus and accept all good-faith identities. Hate, discourse, slurs, fakeclaiming, and other forms of negativity will be deleted and/or blocked. Please do not vent in our ask box. Please do not "warn" us about other members of the community.

"What else should we keep in mind wrt the ask box?"

Sending asks with media is fine, but if you want to be anonymous and send a meme, please let us know so we can post it and credit you as "anon," and keep your blog anonymous.

"Do you have a DNI?"

We only ask that you don't interact if you are a sysmed/anti-endo, anti-tulpa, or a (pro-c) paraphile (anti-c is fine). This is for the safety of everyone who follows this blog, plus the blog owners.

Our queue is set to post four (4) times per day. This may increase based on the number of asks we get.

We signoff (most of) our posts the same way we sign off on our main; [Name] [emoji] [pro/nouns]. Check out our main blog's carrd to see everyone's signoffs.

[multiplicity-positivity]

Shoutout to fictives who’s source is not who they once thought!

Systems often don’t get to choose who gets introjected, and many systems gain fictives with little to no knowledge about the fictive’s source. Here’s to those fictives who find out later that their source is not who they once thought, whether that means their source is a bad person, made bad decisions, or anything else!

It’s important to remember that as fictives, we’re not our sources! Some may feel like they are their sources, but if that’s a distressing thought for you, you absolutely do not have to continue to think that way! It’s okay to distance yourself from your source after you learn more about them. It’s okay (and healthy even!) to develop into your own person, separate from your source! This does not have to change your fictive identity in the slightest - you’re still totally valid as a fictive, introject, and system member even if you no longer identify with your source!

It’s okay to feel shocked, confused, or betrayed after learning more about your source and discovering they aren’t a good person. Your feelings are valid, and you’re allowed to feel them to the fullest! You are not responsible for the actions of your source, and even if you feel intrinsically connected to them, please know that you do not have to nor are you destined to follow in their footsteps. You are capable of making your own choices and decisions!

Regardless of how knowledge about your source affects you, know that you will always be a welcome and important part of the plural community just the way you are. You should feel no pressure to change for better or worse after learning more about your source - it’s okay for you to just exist as yourself, whatever that looks like for you!

Remember we care about you, we’re rooting for you, and we believe in you in all that you do! Please don’t be too hard on yourself because of decisions made by your source. Take care of yourself and your system and show yourselves some kindness! Thank you so much - we hope you have a lovely day!

(Image ID:) A pale orange userbox with a cluster of multicolored flowers for the userbox image. The border and text are both dark orange, and the text reads “all plurals can interact with this post!” (End ID.)

[daydreamers-sys]

Transgender Mentally Ill and Disabled Couple With a Cat, Losing Our Home in 20 Days

We are two DID systems, one transmasc and one transfem, both mentally ill and physically disabled. We were instructed to leave by the 24th of February.

My sister has gotten the OK to let us live with her, but we cannot move in until the 1st of March. There will be a 4-5 day overlap in which we will have absolutely nowhere to go, so we have no choice but to find a motel and storage unit.

We need about $300 to make this work. Donations are gladly accepted, but my partner has opened commissions (link) for TTRPG and other OC character designs and reference sheets.

‼‼ For every donation of $5+ I'll doodle you a little aminal. I'm mostly good at furry creatures. Here's two cute little dragons (link) as an example. Just put your blog @ and a short description of what you want in the comment field of the payment app. If you don't want anything, just don't put any creature <3 ‼‼

C*sh*pp: magefox V*nmo: akkiko

$0/$300

[daydreamers-sys]

$25/300

[daydreamers-sys]

hey we’re still at $25 and with a possible LEGAL BATTLE on our hands we could really use the funds ASAP!

please keep reblogging this post!

$25/$300

[daydreamers-sys]

Transgender Mentally Ill and Disabled Couple With a Cat, Losing Our Home in 20 Days

We are two DID systems, one transmasc and one transfem, both mentally ill and physically disabled. We were instructed to leave by the 24th of February.

My sister has gotten the OK to let us live with her, but we cannot move in until the 1st of March. There will be a 4-5 day overlap in which we will have absolutely nowhere to go, so we have no choice but to find a motel and storage unit.

We need about $300 to make this work. Donations are gladly accepted, but my partner has opened commissions (link) for TTRPG and other OC character designs and reference sheets.

‼‼ For every donation of $5+ I'll doodle you a little aminal. I'm mostly good at furry creatures. Here's two cute little dragons (link) as an example. Just put your blog @ and a short description of what you want in the comment field of the payment app. If you don't want anything, just don't put any creature <3 ‼‼

C*sh*pp: magefox V*nmo: akkiko

$0/$300

[illicitsandbagging]

Character Design Commissions

No Background, Simple Background - Starting at $35

Transparent background OR simple pattern/gradient background. Price may change based on character complexity. $35 minimum.

Multiple Outfits - Starting at $35 + $10 per outfit

No background or simple background only.

Reference Sheets - Starting at $50

Character turnaround, Two Outfits, Character Design and Weapon Detail (if applicable), and Character Profile. Price may change based on complexity. No background or Simple Background only.

Party Portraits - Starting at $60

Starting price is for a two-character party portrait. Each additional character is +$20. No background or simple background only.

Complex Background - Starting at $60

Price may change due to complexity. Each additional character is +$20. Three character maximum, not including pets.

Colored Sketch - Starting at $25

Price may change based on complexity.

Specialties: • D&D, Pathfinder, Starfinder, Cyberpunk, Star Wars, other TTRPG Character Designs • Humanoid, Alien, Bipedal, Legless (Naga/Lamia, Merperson, etc)

Good With: • "Beast Races" (Wookies, Minotaurs, etc) • Prosthetic body parts • Mobility Aides

Will Do (Costs Extra): • Mecha, android • Feathered creatures • Insectoid

Will Not Do: • NSFW

Please come with references. Text accepted but please be as detailed as possible. A rough sketch, no matter how "bad," always helps the commission process.

Payments over P*yP*l, C*sh*pp, or V*nmo preferred. DM for inquiries.

[thecrystallinecrowssystem]

So we've started writing! It's mostly for a dnd campaign and any feedback would be appreciated as long as it isn't "furry cringe" (NOTE: The document is still being worked on, so do expect some changes)

Fennik Lore

A presentation of Fenniks and their history, from the Pre-Colonial Era all the way to their Great War

[systempositive]

Wow, this is REALLY neat!! I'm a fox cladotherian and cosmic fox otherkin, so obviously I think this is really neat. I love how they're absolutely huge and super smart.

I love the range of fur colors! I have to ask if that means they can look like multiple different kinds of foxes too? Red, fennec, tibetan, etc?

I'd love to see this more fleshed out and even more writing about it!

[systempositive]

Introjects from the system's or a headmate's own writing are so awesome. It makes sense that your brain would create a headmate from something that's a piece of you, anyway, and latching onto the personality and design of a character that came from your mind makes sense too.

These headmates are very real, and very common even in previously non-plural authors. Writing a character takes getting into their headspace and learning how they tick, because they're a different person than the writer, so of course it's possible for a headmate to form from that. They're not "just OCs" that the author can play with, they're people too.

[systempositive]

Introject-heavy systems honestly make a lot of sense in a day and age where media is everywhere, and a lot of our childhoods are dominated by it. Especially if your system is traumagenic or neurodivergent, having a lot of introjects is pretty logical.

Even if the introjects in your system are fairly recent, they're still real. Traumagenic or not, hyperfixation or not, you're still real people.

[systempositive]

Would it be possible to reblog our pinned post and maybe give us some feedback (/nf)? We're trying to reach a larger audience and we don't have that many followers /lh /nav

I added it to our queue! Did you know I (Aster, host) am a huge foxkin??? I loved it so much!!

[systempositive]

A positivity post for systems with introjects from their own writing? We have several and they constantly feel like they're just OCs and not real

it's queued!

[systempositive]

hopefully it’s not too much, but could we get a positivity post for mcyt introject heavy systems? or double heavy systems?

sorry this took so long! its queued!

[daydreamers-sys]

hey y’all I hate doing this again but my direct deposit hasn’t come thru and I have eaten only a ramen packet in two days.

$20 is all i need for the day.

c*sh*pp: magefox

v*nmo: akkiko

$0/$20

[spirallingmoths]

I don't like getting involved in syscourse but I feel like a good chunk of it could be solved if we just accepted that CDD systems and plural collectives are fundamentally too different to co exist in the same spaces. On the topic of syscourse, I wish the endo discourse wasn't so prominent? Like I'll be honest, i do not give a fuck if endos "exist or not" (they're obviously experiencing something. Legitimate sources and actual studies about them would be cool but oh well, i dont think were at that stage yet) I just want people to stop spreading misinfo and stop acting like something being a disorder means you have to be miserable about it.

[sophieinwonderland]

I think a problem with this line of thinking is that there aren't really a bunch of non-DID/OSDD systems rushing to join DID/OSDD-exclusive spaces.

In the early 90s, all multiples shared the same spaces and resources. Then a group realize their multiplicity wasn't a disorder and tried to break off. This group adopted some of their own language, using terms like "plural" over "multiple" and "headmate" over "alter". Some terms did stay in circulation in the new plural community, such as "system," but mostly it was new communities with their own spaces.

Syscourse didn't start because a bunch of outsiders invaded DID and OSDD spaces. It started because a group within the multiple community wanted to break away into their own spaces. Then they were attacked for wanting to exist in their own communities and not have their experience pathologized.

As long as there are people who are plural publicly without trauma or disorders, there will always be bigots seeking to harass and silence us.

[thelunastusco]

We saw a lot of the early syscourse with our own eyes. It was very much about “okay well we don’t see ourselves as disordered, even if we were formed by trauma” and people screaming “you can’t do that”. It wasn’t even about endogenic systems existing. It was about trauma formed systems wanting to break away from disordered lingo. “Plural” was meant to be inclusive, 100%, but it was coined by traumagenic systems. For a reason.

The syscourse we see now, which is most “do endogenic systems exist” (yes, they do) came around more in 2011, getting full steam by 2014. But the original syscourse was “can you be a system without a disorder”, “can you be healthy and a system”, and was trauma-formed system breaking away to form more inclusive communities-- which often met peacefully with, and even included, non-traumagenic systems. Because they knew it sucked to be told “hey you can’t exist that way”.

Also, just quietly adding on, that having knowing quite a few non-traumagenic plural systems... we’re not fundamentally different. That’s a huge part of the problem in the community, currently, is people sowing this idea that we are. There is no one “symptom” or system experience that disordered systems have, that is always and forever absent from non-disordered systems; there’s no one experience that trauma-formed systems have, that non-traumagenic systems never have.

We can co-exist in the same spaces. We always have. And it’s for the benefit of everyone if we do, even if we also have separate spaces off to the side for different kinds of plural experiences. A unified front (pun intended) is stronger than a fractured one.

It’s not apples and oranges, it’s red apples and not-red apples

[thegeminidivision]

hey endo systems hey nontraumagenic systems hey mixed origin systems hey unknown origin systems i love u very much i hope ur having a great day mwah mwah mwah /p

[systempositive]

A disordered traumagenic system runs this account btw.

Just in case anyone was wondering ♡

This traumagenic system loves and supports endogenic systems, and all forms of non-traumagenic systems.

We wouldn’t have had our own syscovery if not for y’all. We’re not as dissimilar as others try to lead us to believe.

[systempositive]

Thank you so much for not allowing people to send in syscourse, I'm not plural but I have a lot of friends who are endogenic who are told they're faking for attention, OR people will insist they're actually traumatized and need to unbury/publicly reveal their "secret trauma" to be "valid" which is even worse :(

This is exactly it!

Insisting that endogenic systems (specifically who don’t have trauma) actually do have some hidden trauma somewhere that they just don’t know about “because the disorder is doing its job” can be and is very, very harmful.

Making yourself believe you went through trauma that you never had is bad! Who would have thought??

Anyway. If you have absolutely no trauma as a system, you’re 100% still a system and allowed to label yourself however you want. Suffering is never a prerequisite to existence.

[systempositive]

To the anon that just sent in asking how it’s “possible” to “dissociate and split when you haven’t gone through trauma,” we will not be answering that! :)

The way you worded it was “nice,” but that doesn’t mean it was in good-faith.

Hope this helps!

[systempositive]

This applies to everyone, not just followers! :3