Gay yearning

Queer, they/them, early 20s, white. This is my side blog for gay yearning, I follow from @anarchangelnerd. PFP is drawn by me :-).

[t4t-mlm]

This blog started as a way to become more comfortable with being a man who loves men and not feeling like it's something that's weird or predatory. It is still partly a place where I'm learning to celebrate my gender (although that's no longer man) and loving men, but over the past year or so since I started dating my boyfriend, it's also become a celebration of my love for him (the most perfectest guy in the world).

This space is mostly SFW but there are occasionally NSFW text or drawings/photographs (but not gifs/videos).

I don't really have a tagging system, but if you need anything tagged, let me know.

DNI:

Minors, i.e. under 18 (I'm just not comfortable interacting with people who are that much younger than me on a space about romantic and sexual relationships and where I occasionally post nsfw content)

Exclusionists

Transmeds/truscum

TERFS/TEHM

Pedophiles/"MAPs"

Racist, sexist, xenophobic, otherwise bigotted

[katehbye-deactivated20240711]

[bigsoftbison]

i do not want to work. i want to kiss

[nothingbutloveforyou]

want to be lazy with you. lazy mornings, lazy cuddles, lazy dinner in our sweatpants, lazy makeouts , lazy baths together, lazy late night trips. just a calm and lazy life with you

[loverboy-ant]

i can't wait until we can go on picnics with sandwiches and lemonade, and a heart shaped basket. i will pick tiny flowers to put in his hair. we could take polaroids of us together and i could keep one in my wallet

[foxes-in-love]

[jojo-oliver]

[ID in alt text] 5/15 of my LGBTQIA+ boots series! asexual flag themed🖤 I'll be posting 1+ per week until the 1st of pride month 🏳️‍🌈 and then I'll post all of them! - stickers or prints of this series here

[nothingbutloveforyou]

it might be a little silly and cliché, but someday i really want to slow dance with my love in the kitchen at night

[dickpuncher420]

having someone watch u play video games is an underrated form of companionship

[kinavu]

"they should be at the club" "they should be at the farmers market" "they should be at the public library" well i should be in my lovers arms but im not am i. life is full of disappointments

[nothingbutloveforyou]

love is stored in many things. like forehead kisses, "this reminded me of you", knowing how they like their favorite drink, listening to them talk about their favorite things, sharing songs/movies/tv shows, knowing what weird memes would make them laugh, checking in during the day, making them laugh after they cried, rubbing their hand with your thumb, hearing their real laugh, eye contact, a playlist. love is all around <3

[toadsrbutch]

fuck looks. relationships NEED to based on your ability to be SILLY TOGETHER!!!!!! you better be laughing together or ELSE

[stickseasonsimp-deactivated2023]

we are going to have a happy home. a quiet home. a home that smells like baked goods and clean laundry, a home without bugs. a home where messy just means we had a good time, a place where we can drop our guards and be vulnerable. a home where loud noises and laughter are never menacing. a safe place.

[kinavu]

"they should be at the club" "they should be at the farmers market" "they should be at the public library" well i should be in my lovers arms but im not am i. life is full of disappointments

[foxes-in-love]

[frawgs]

man listen…… i just want to decorate my house with th love of my life 

[elainiisms]

non sexual intimacy!!!! bathing together, washing each other, playing with each other's hair, kissing every inch of their body, writing love letters on their back with your finger, connecting their moles and freckles to create constellations on their skin, running your hands up and down their thighs, ugh just expressing physical love without it having to be about sex!!!!