Normally I'd apologize for making OOC posts like this. But I'm not going to this time.
I am speaking not only on my own behalf, but also speaking on behalf of @/official-buckybarnes
What the actual fuck. What makes you think you have the right to start up drama most especially when it includes someone who has made it abundantly clear that they did not want any drama.
You know who you are. But I'm more than willing to say names if I have to.
Bucky's mun put in a lot of effort into planning out all of this.
Not ONCE was she even contacted about the shit that happened. And do you understand how upsetting that is to someone?
Do you understand how much you've upset her? Even more so when you start claiming things like "He hates me now and he has every right" or other incredible hurtful and negative things have been said?
Bucky's mun, again, has made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR she didn't want any of this drama, and it is ridiculous to not only do so anyways, but to continuously do it on multiple occasions. Not to mention, again, she was not ONCE included in a single plan for any of this. Which is downright disrespectful, and might I even personally add, childish.
So allow me to make this clear. No room for argument.
Bucky's mun WAS NOT contacted about any of the drama that started regarding the wedding or even the previous drama regarding the drama with Natasha returning to the Red Room.
Bucky's mun WAS NOT consenting to any of this drama.
Bucky's mun DID NOT want to role-play in these scenarios and was actively made upset time and time again by these incidents.
Bucky's mun DID NOT have Bucky say anything negative about other members, nor did Bucky claim that he hated Natasha.
Bucky's mun HAS made it clear that she did not want to be involved in drama, most especially scenarios such as this.
Bucky's mun IS incredibly upset and has been actively distraught over not only this situation, but previous situations as well with unwanted, unwarranted, and unsolicited drama.
And frankly, I'm pretty sick of it too. And that's fucking saying something because I do angst RPs. But I at least have the basic decency to plan it out with the other parties involved.
And it doesn't help either when you start having your character immediately start searching for other families the moment this drama happens. Which, again, Bucky's mun was not even kept in the loop of anything happening. And that is incredibly drastic.
I've seen a lot of folks post this today already, but CHECK IN WITH YOUR RP PARTNERS BEFORE YOU START THINGS LIKE THIS. IT CAN BE INCREDIBLY UPSETTING AND MENTALLY DRAINING. EVEN MORE SO WHEN IT'S HEAVY SUBJECTS LIKE THIS.