#*dick

[lttlewing]

dick grayson in every episode — lex luthor

❝ please don't burn down the bowling alley. ❞

[november-golf]

@vitalphenomena

"So like a dog, then?"

[guyramsayfieri]

I’m so excited for Big Barry Syx this season. It feels like Murph pulled out a naddpod character for this - a genuinely deep, emotional backstory, with insane humor to back it up. Honestly, top Murph character immediately.

[sunnibits]

Btw I don’t ship Izzy/Ivan/Fang in the ‘they’re in love with each other way’ at all lmao. In fact I don’t think they even like Izzy as a person, this relationship purely hinges on the fact that they have been around him long enough that his general asshole-ness simply doesn’t phase them anymore and they’ve figured out by now that he’ll be a little less of a dick if you just force him to relax once in a while.

[rotationalsymmetry]

One of the really weird things about this site is when young people talk about love and it’s like, “ok, that’s not wrong, but also wow that’s missing so much nuance.”

Useful advice for people in their early 20’s for instance and useful advice for people who are...older than that, can be quite different.

The one main thing I wish I’d known at 20 is: chances are your first relationship isn’t going to be a life long relationship, and the advice Dear Abbey gives to married couples (see a counselor, relationships take work, talk it out) is not advice for you, a young person who’s 2 months in to her first relationship ever. Advice for you is: you look for reasons to leave, or to see this as “for now while it’s still fun” only, not reasons to stay.

You expect to have a few relationships that had some good aspects but weren’t long haul relationships. You’re learning what you can expect in a relationship and what’s normal and what you like and don’t like. It’s good to spend some time figuring that out. Learning. It’s good to not commit to spending your life with the first person who ever expressed interest in you.

People romanticize high school sweethearts and so on. That’s bullshit. I mean, sometimes it works, you shouldn’t end a functional relationship just because of some abstract idea that dating experience with different people is good. But: if your life course involves dating many different people and having several short lived relationships before settling into a LTR, that’s good. That teaches you so much about yourself and about relationships in general.

There’s a time and place to “work on the relationship” but that’s not in the early stages of a new relationship. The first part of a new relationship is all about looking for compatibility and whether the other person treats you well, signs it’s not going to work. Or, if you have no idea what to look for, it’s about paying attention to what’s going on so that next time you will.

[the-transfeminine-mystique]

Just in general I don’t really want to talk abt the specifics of transness with cis ppl, and particularly like cis doctors, but whew the thing that feels the most unimaginable to explain is how I don’t particularly like my dick and I would rather it be gone but, while it’s here, I’m also self-conscious about it not being big enough lmaoooooo

[love-pyramus]

Girl help.