⇾ it goes without saying the fact that noah is a very warm, charismatic person who loves being loved perhaps that's the reason why he had so many relationships so first is advice is to not be scared by how many came before you.
⇾ he is very caring about the people he enjoys spending time with, his favorite thing is making them laugh and appreciate the things that make him happy so that you have something interesting to share.
⇾ if he is interested, he is not hesitant in showing, in making easy conversation, in casually asking you things about yourself, and eventually, if you do open up to him he'd start sharing about him too.
⇾ noah has always been the most approachable kid of the kangs, this fact lead to many girls and friends chasing him during his school years, contacts that he never actively said no to just because he didn't feel good denying their affection.
⇾ of course, because of that many girls dated him for his money and status, things that he knew but didn't take much into the heart because the relationship would end sooner or later.
⇾ so if you're dating him, date him for him, not for what you heard about him or might show you or you might think he is. (trust me, is not as easy as it seems, it might get blurry)
⇾ that being said, dates with him are gentle, comfortable, and sometimes even spectacular. don't get me wrong, his favorite dates still are watching movies together but if he is feeling particularly special he might take you to a nice restaurant, with a nice view, or surprise you taking you to the concert of your favorite artist... like i said, he wants to make you feel good, that is enough to bring a smile to his face.
⇾ if things go right, he'll make you feel very special by the end of every evening, he'd take you to his place to drink some beer and chill, that's noah's code to sex.
⇾ and uh, boy, lemme tell you about sex with noah kang okay? yes, it is pretty much everything you would expect with sex with noah kang, but there is more to it than what meets the eye, starting by how good he is at saying things and how slooooow he can take things even when he is so eager. let's not even get to the topic of size though.
⇾ so if you're saying all these marvelous things about him and how much he dated, why the fuck is he still single? well, he might seem like the best but he is very complicated deep inside.
⇾ noah is the kind of person that looks for more than just a sex connection, he likes to have complex conversations, deep observations of life, he likes to explore not only different and exciting things about love but also the mundane ones, the ones from day to day life that makes us who we are.
⇾ he wouldn't blame you for not having the patience to deal with his somber days, or to understand not only the good side of things, but he would expect your support even if slightly just to know he can count on you.
⇾ counting on you is important, not only to be his girlfriend, but to be his partner, his companionship, his friend.
⇾ so if he asks for something, with the voice full of irony and holding back laughter is because that is important, even if he is not telling you it is.
⇾ he likes special gifts and little romantic things that aren't exactly cheezy but still go to show what you guys are and how that makes him happy.
⇾ a lot of homemade videos! he has special video cameras that he takes places, sometimes he just films stuff with his phone or even yours... just small moments, between you, him and the life all around. it's cute cause at the end of every month or so, he makes them into these little short films and you guys watch them together.
⇾ noah will drive you wherever you want to go, he'll pick you up and he'll take you home with the soft radio on and a smile on his face.
⇾ i know it can be intimidating meeting the extension of himself: his family, especially when they weren't easily impressed by the exes before you, but if you're truly meant to be with him it will be pretty obvious so you won't have much to worry about.
⇾ he is a little too much of a people pleaser, so he'll take you to meet all his friends, all the places he likes to, songs he listens to and movies he loves... everything, he's like a little excited kid with a new friend.
⇾ once you start making your own memories then it's all about the places you both like, the comfort of each other.
⇾ the one noah love is not the one he can't shut up about but the one whom he knows about, the comfort and trust in his words go way beyond excitement, they are actually calmer, soothing, and familiar when he is truly in love.
⇾ and loving you is in every detail, is in the way he watches you with his eyes and the way he calls your name and the way he gently sits beside you... and quickly it becomes words in his everyday conversations with you, a reminder that "i love you" means "my life is you, with you and i'm so incredibly glad"
⇾ for all that is worth, being in love with noah is like riding a bike, the first time you're a little scared because of the way it's so infamous and everyone knows so damn well, but once you get the hang of how it turns, runs, you just want to keep pedaling; moving forward, because he makes you feel like the wind, always somewhere new in your soul.