#-fluid

[demigenderfriends]

I think I might be Demi-juxera fluidflux. I have a looong list of genders that match me part of the time, but I feel like that’s a good umbrella?

awesome!! i sometimes forget that juxtera is a thing but ye that sounds like a good umbrella!!

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

if im part static male, part fluid nonbinary, is it normal to have days where i feel 100% male?

hey there!!

if im understanding u correctly, ye thats fine!! n it doesnt invalidate ur nonbinary identity at all <3

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

Hello!!! I am definitely a demigirl on the spectrum (it's a mix between female and agender) and I can't tell if I would be demigirlflux or demigirlfluid (if those are real terms). I don't like that demigirl describes me completely bc it makes me feel that my gender is static and doesn't move at all. I experience the flux in the intensity of my femininity and my agender but I also experience the fluid where I am back and forth between the genders. Is there any other names for this gender too?

hey there!!

sounds like u’ve got the difference between -flux and -fluid down which is NICE!! i think the best term for u would be genderfluidflux where the genders are female, demigirl and agender. this label describes that ur gender moves n also describes that the intensity of ur gender changes!!

hope this helps!!

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

Plz help I'm super confused about my gender....I'm AFAB and thought I was a demigirl/flux but I just realised I kinda like the label demiboy as well? But then I'm also kinda neutral sometimes and rarely femme? I don't want a super complicated label I rlly want smth simple and like one or two words because I don't want to confuse people...but I just really don't know what I am and I wanna know. Labels are important to me and I like the demi label....what's the difference between fluid and flux?

hey there!!

-fluid is when ur gender changes along a spectrum, -flux is when it changes in intensity, -fluidflux is where it does both!! u could be genderfluid between demiboy and demigirl or bigender demiboy/demigirl maybe?

hope this helps!!

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

Does demiflux always have to be varying degrees of a single gender alongside a nonbinary one (eg: girl, nanogirl, demigirl with agender)? Or can it be, say, an agender constant with male and female fluctuating? I've been using the term demiflux for a while, but recently saw someone defining it as a single gender alongside a nonbinary one and wanted to make sure I'm not misusing the term! (Although that is the only time I've seen it defined that way)

hey there!!

-flux seems to focus on the intensity of a single gender identity whereas -fluid indicates fluidity between genders, so if ur feeling like part of ur gender is fluid AND fluctuating, u can use demifluidflux!!

hope this helps

 - mod daria