Demigender Friends

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[demigenderfriends]

CM, signing off

hi everyone, this is Mod Chin-Mae speaking ^^ it's with a heavy heart that I say that I'll be resigning as a mod here. during my time here, daria has been nothing short of an incredible person to work aside and just an amasing person.

im leaving the blog because I need to dedicate more time to my studies and to be with my family, please keep in mind that again there is no ill will towards daria, this is just simething I think I need to do for myself.

all of you have been a great following and I wish all of you the best of luck in figuring out just who you really are. I'm sure that person is incredible ^^

-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

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[demigenderfriends]

I recently figured out im genderfae, but im scared to come out because people might not think its a real identity/a mogai thing?? what should I do?

i think you should gauge your closest friends opinions on mogai and demigender identities.. if you try ease them into the topic and get them to understand, then maybe come out to that small group of people!-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[demigenderfriends]

hi everyone!! i would just like to say that the notes on our responses are usually filled with good advice too, so if our response isnt satisfactory, i suggest looking at the notes/replies! thank you for your time.

-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[demigenderfriends]

Hey, so I think I might be demiboy? But I’m really not sure. I’ve always understood demiboy to be “part boy” but I feel I’m “like a boy” and demiboy seems to be the closest to that? Is that a demiboy feeling?

yep!! like a boy but not fully a boy is also a valid use of demiboy!! 

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

idk if this has been asked but how to deal with part dysphoria? i'm feeling sort of distressed and uncomfortable with female features. I want a binder, I want to be referred to as they/them. my dad and some other people act like I'm just an sjw who has no problems and just wants attention but I really want to become less feminine so I can feel comfortable with myself and not dislike my body. Is this dysphoria or is everyone else right?

this is like,,,the textbook definition of dysphoria. i hope u find a way to feel more comfortable, check our binding/binder tags for options on what u can do!!

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

So, the label that I use and makes the most sense to me is Demigirl! But,!, when I feel agender, I don't feel male or masculine necessarily, but aestheticly, I want to LOOK masc, I just know I'm not. Is that normal? Sorry if this doesn't make sense, English isn't my first language.

ye that makes sense!! masc is often seen as genderless or androgynous for various reasons, so wanting to look masc but not feeling male/masculine is fine!!

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

for last anon: nonboy?? it's a gender I was saw somewhere!!

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{ID: tweet by @/archivistswap. “non-binary doesn’t look one kind of way. it looks all kind of ways. this isn’t just in regards to how we present, but to the pronouns we use and the labels we use, and our experiences. we are such a diverse demographic and nowhere near monolithic, do not treat us as such.”}

[demigenderfriends]

hey im afab and ive been having this gender conversation w myself for a long time thats just "anything that isnt a boy" but like?? idk how to translate that into a gender identity. like i feel like the only thing that bothers me abt my gender is that i dont meet the beauty standards of being a woman & i dont wanna misconstrue that as a non binary identity like... how do i know for sure that im not a cis woman?? bc i still think i am one but like, i dont know. id like to be called they sometimes.

hey there!!

in general, if ur anything that isnt a boy i would suggest genderfae!! it’s genderfluidity through any genders that aren’t male/masc aligned!! n if ur questioning n like to be called they, im p sure ur not cis!! n if u end up being cis it doesnt matter, gender can change, exploration is important!! hope ur okay

 - mod daria

[demigenderfriends]

If I’m demigirl and I’m attracted to women, could I call myself a lesbian? Or is there another word for nb people who are attracted to women?

you could be described as lesbian or as nbwlw (non-binary woman loving woman).. but if you want to be vague you could describe yourself as just sapphic!! Sapphic means any fem-aligned person who likes women-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[demigenderfriends]

Is this blog still active?

yes, the blog is still active! daria is currently on summer vacation i think, and im going through some family troubles at the moment hence why we've been a bit less frequent.-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[demigenderfriends]

Hey! Im running a demigender discord! I was wondering if you could give my blog a boost?

ah, of course friend!! i would ask all of our followers to check this discord out ^^-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[demigenderfriends]

do you think there's a difference betweem demibigender and bidemigender?

Personally, I don't think there's a difference. Maybe it's because my first language isn't English (the problem may be grammatical?) but both words mean the same thing to me!Another mod is more than welcome to reblog this with their opinion!-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[demigenderfriends]

What would the definitions of demiflux/demifluid be?

Demiflux/fluid means that your gender identity involves multiple parts of the demigender spectrum!! Like if your identity can fluctuate from demiboy and agender you could be demiflux.I hope this helps and if you have any questions, send in another ask!!-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[demigenderfriends]

I think I might be a demiboy, and although I really like He/Him I also don’t mind She/Her and am okay with any pronouns, though I prefer He/Him the most. Can I still be that and use She/Her?

yes, you can! but you might be demiflux with a strong masc leaning.. then again whatever makes you comfortable, we support! ^^-Mod Chin-Mae🇰🇷

[nlmgalaxy]

Neopronouns Survey

Hi everybody! I made a survey in hopes of discovering which neopronouns are most popular, so I’d appreciate it if folks who use neopronouns could take a minute to fill it out! The results will help me update the educational materials in my school’s diversity center. If this survey doesn’t apply to you, feel free to reblog to boost! -Mod Pluto