R’s Predictions || September 2014
Since we didn’t exactly meet on September 5th, I decided to just make the title ambiguous. Procrastination also helped me create this mediocre banner.
Don’t peak, ladies! I’m watching you.
I guess I’ll start out my prediction post with myself. These are more like what I want to achieve by the next year. First, I will be more confident. I will be able to take risks towards the career that I decide to go after— even if it isn’t related to graphic design. I will be able to say how I feel about people without feeling guilty. I will be able to express myself verbally without having to feel like I have to explain myself all the time. I will be able to have time for myself without feeling guilty about it. I will complete at least three of the things in my bucket list. A year from now, Q and I would have started our little shop project and hopefully will have a couple of apparel form it. On my 21st birthday, everyone can get together without any drama. It doesn’t have to be in Vegas (because it’s not my cup of tea), but maybe Disneyland or even a fun little road trip to experience a new city. Whatever we decide to do, it will be something I enjoy. By then, J and I would still be together. Also, by next year, I’m a lot more confident on the road and freeways.
Now for my lovely friends:
Q would have probably switched her major to art by now. Maybe she will be attending a couple classes with me at CSUN and we would still be working together at the VPAC. Either that or she would be in the process of transferring. I can also see her excelling in our shop project. We would have the creative freedom to make things for ourselves and be able to share it with everyone else. Hopefully we're still motivated and inspired by then. I also hope that we always remember to do this because we love it and we enjoy it, not just for the sake of money. By then, she would also be comfortable driving on the road with her awesome car and awesome license. Between now and next year, we would still have Disney movie marathons of movies we’ve seen millions of times. We would continue criticizing it and making jokes even though we’re obviously enjoying the musical numbers.
L would have probably met a couple of cool celebrities between now and next year. I see her pursuing music and auditioning for talent shows. When she does, it would probably be a difficult road at first but she will eventually get the hang of it. I also see her learning an instrument. A year from now might not be enough time to become an expert at it, but I do see her including her new found musical instrumental talent into her music. She will also start writing her own songs. A year from now, she will gain confidence in herself and abilities; nothing will stop her from making her way to the top! She will learn that you don’t need to have a male counterpart to be happy because she’ll love herself first and she has us, duh.
Would she have graduated by next year? If she did, I see her being offered a couple of jobs from out of state or far away in general. Either that or I see her traveling a lot. I believe she deserves a lot more than she’s getting or “settling” for. She deserves happiness, so that’s what I’m going to predict for her. She will learn to put herself first and have time for herself. This is probably a bad prediction, but she would have broken up with her current boyfriend. I may not know exactly what's going on, but from what I know, S deserves so much more. She will meet someone that deserves her and that will do more good than misery. Someone that will not make excuses for his behavior or cause her more pain than happiness. That someone will put her first and will treat her like a princess. That someone would be there for her emotionally and physically. That someone will not make her have to think twice if she was good enough or if she is loved— because the answer is always yes. Above all, that person will never make her feel guilty about who she is and will not try to change her. If she has not met this someone, at least, she would be in the process of getting to know them. I know you might be looking at me when this is being read out loud and probably think to yourself, "no one is perfect and that will never happen." I just want you to know to have faith. God will bring you the right people at the right time. He has a plan for you and you just have to trust in him. When it's the right time, that blessing will be there, made and created just for you. If you don't get the blessing you wanted or hoped for, don't worry! Maybe that specific blessing wasn't right for you, maybe God is saving you the trouble and burden of all that outcome. Just be patient and know that we will always be here for you as well.