#31daysofselflove

[wasthatme]

I’ve read something that reminded me of this, and I think it’s a good place to start.

1- boundaries are good, they’re your friend

2- decide what your core values are

3- you cannot change others, so change yourself

4- decide the consequences ahead of time

5- let your behaviour, not your words speak for you

6- say what you mean, mean what you say

They are pretty self explanatory, specially for me. I used to write down philosophies in life and I know deep inside, I still have many of them down. I need to start doing that again, I want to start doing that again.

[wasthatme]

Healing. I need to remind myself that healing doesn’t happen overnight, it is a constant battle and it will not be a pretty sight however, I need to remind myself to give time...time. To let time do it’s job. To breathe and enjoy life as it comes. And to not be frustrated with myself while in the process of healing.

[wasthatme]

So many things. Toxic people, toxic situations, the things that are in my head. I know life won’t be complete without bad things, the gloom and doom sometimes makes the good worth more. Dealing with these things can be taxing but they make the good feel so much better.

I say these things but it’s still a struggle for me to believe. And that, that’s what I need to get rid of.

[blackmodelsunite]

@lindi_r • • • • • • #31daysofselflove ❤️ One would think today’s task was easy but over the years, it hasn’t been. I’ve pictured my naked body in so many different ways for 6 years but still struggled with certain parts. Now, each time I capture this bawdy, I love something new 😍 Of all my amazing features 😻 the ones I love the most are: 1. My hip scar. Scars represent strength and survival. 💪🏾 2. My itty bitty titties. They’re so cute. I used to want to get a boob job but I love how they look in clothes so we nice 😋 3. My complexion. My undertone is red, but my actual tone flip flops between yellow and caramel, and I love how versatile it can be. 💁🏾‍♀️ 4. My little big booty. She’s so cute and looks small but packs a lot of dynamite. 🧨 5. My stretch marks. Probably my favourite part as it’s unique to me and literally feels and looks like a map to heaven. 🗺 What are the best parts of your body? #Repost . . #blackmodelsunite https://www.instagram.com/p/CDyTzyODlG1/?igshid=abx1xm1icit2

[hernandopride]

January 10: How can you set better boundaries in your life? #selflove #selfloveday10 #31DaysofSelfLove #boundaries #lgbt #lgbtq #rainbow #gay #lesbian #transgender #bisexual #pansexual #asexual #genderqueer #male #female #love #acceptance #diversity #lovewhoyouwant #betruetoyou #beyourself #beyou #hernandopride https://www.instagram.com/p/B7I7VuVFxYB/?igshid=s1or98ec4i6m

[hernandopride]

January 9: What's something in your life that you need to get rid of? #selflove #selfloveday9 #31DaysofSelfLove #getridofit #lgbt #lgbtq #rainbow #gay #lesbian #transgender #bisexual #pansexual #asexual #genderqueer #male #female #love #acceptance #diversity #lovewhoyouwant #betruetoyou #beyourself #beyou #hernandopride https://www.instagram.com/p/B7GX1mplhub/?igshid=1cat30yuyjyt2

[hernandopride]

January 8: Where in your life do you need to slow down and take your time? #selflove #selfloveday8 #31DaysofSelfLove #slowdown #takeyourtime #lgbt #lgbtq #rainbow #gay #lesbian #transgender #bisexual #pansexual #asexual #genderqueer #male #female #love #acceptance #diversity #lovewhoyouwant #betruetoyou #beyourself #beyou #hernandopride https://www.instagram.com/p/B7FXUb5lVA9/?igshid=1oo88yfxzfnvm

[hernandopride]

January 7: Name a thing you love about your body and your personality. #selflove #selfloveday7 #31DaysofSelfLove #bodypositivity #personalitypositivity #lgbt #lgbtq #rainbow #gay #lesbian #transgender #bisexual #pansexual #asexual #genderqueer #male #female #love #acceptance #diversity #lovewhoyouwant #betruetoyou #beyourself #beyou #hernandopride https://www.instagram.com/p/B7BOrhKFByf/?igshid=zcoeys5yqnjr