hi!! so im kinda confused about the last scene with dean in 4x12. who was he talking to exactly? cause i don't know if I missed anything or if he is just some random dude or what
she was talking to a lawyer.
after dean confesses everything to the MRA cult, vance (breckin meyer) brings someone over for him to meet.
while at first i thought he was a divorce lawyer (specifically because he is introduced as "never having lost a case") i think he might be a criminal lawyer because dean talks to him about the trial date moving up in his office—and his suggestion is for dean to turn on beth.
when dean meets with him at the office, the lawyer tells dean a story about a famous golfer up on his private jet "on top of the world," only the hull was breached (the surface of the plane was punctured) which meant that "everyone inside was sound asleep from no oxygen." dean asks what happened, and the lawyer says, "plane's on autopilot... just cruising... all they gotta do is wake up." they don't, though, and the plane ultimately ends up crashing in a corn field, killing everyone.
it's a metaphor for dean's situation. his and beth's marriage—and from the lawyer's perspective, dean in particular—is on autopilot. they're not tending to it, they're not following emergency protocol for emergency situations. they're cruising in stasis.
dean recognizes part of the metaphor—that the cornfield is him in prison—but he doesn't recognize how to avoid it. the lawyer and vance say it's about turning beth in. dean balks, saying his kids need their mother, then vance offers up several rather superficial examples of why his kids need him (he taught them how to ride a bike, how to do a slap shot, he built the tree house). it signals for the audience how much these men don't understand what mothers do—fatherhood is just the fun stuff, and that's equally as important in their eyes as the duties of parenthood because all of that is invisible to them.
the scene ends with vance telling dean to "wake up," and dean sighs. he's still mulling it over privately though the rest of the episode—and then beth fails in what he thinks is her role. she's unable to get to danny quickly (when dean can't go at all because of house arrest, because of her) when he's hurt and alone in the hospital, and it's because of crime.
dean ends the phone call saying, "next time, just lie to me."
in dean's mind, that's the final straw. not only is he convinced she is not the same type of mother she once was, he comes to believe that the kids don't need her. as he says, "he didn't even ask for you."
it's a really heartbreaking line because this whole season has been about beth waffling about choosing crime or her family, when her family feels her absence so acutely that they've become used to it, and yet it's because of her family—because she's been trying and failing to protect dean, even—that she hasn't ever been able to fully commit to crime either.
in the final scene, dean meets with the lawyer again, who tells him he doesn't look so well. dean says, "i'm fine."
dean's going to turn beth in to save himself.






