Sun in the 8th house synastry is such a powerful and intense synastry to have regardless of it being platonic or romantic. There’s often an element of mystery, fascination, and intrigue here. Both the Sun and 8th house person usually feel immediately drawn to each other when they first meet. Having experienced this synastry a few times in my life and having been the house person, I can say that I have naturally gravitated towards and felt a deep connection with each person who has had their Sun in my 8th house. However, it is important to note that this type of 8th house synastry may play out differently. Your experiences can depend on the sign that is in your 8th house, the other placements in your chart, whether or not you have 8th house placements yourself, and the other aspects you have in synastry with the other person, etc.
When you have your Venus in another person's 8th house, the 8th house person will often find you very attractive, beautiful, and alluring in some way. This can manifest as them having a strong physical attraction towards you, but this synastry doesn't always solely translate to physical attraction. It can also manifest as the 8th house person having an admiration for the Venus person's beauty and/or being fascinated by their emotional depth. Overall, both people will usually find each other magnetic and intriguing.
3rd house synastry and 7th house synastry combined can make for a very fun dynamic, especially when the Sun, Moon, and Mercury are in these houses between the two people. For example, let's say Person 1 has their Sun in Person 2's 3rd house. This synastry can indicate the 3rd house person sees the Sun person as a great conversationalist, someone who is intelligent, mentally stimulating, well-rounded, and knows a lot about various topics and can teach them many new things. In the same example, imagine Person 2 has their Sun in Person 1's 7th house. The Sun person (Person 2) may come across as very social, charming, and affable to the 7th house person (Person 1) and may even be their ideal friend, romantic partner, or business partner. Because the 3rd house and 7th house are both air houses, I feel having both houses especially in these personal planets in synastry often emphasizes a strong mental connection and shared values between the two people.
Neptune conjunct Descendant in synastry can show the Descendant person feeling like the Neptune person is their dream guy or dream girl. The Descendant person could also believe the Neptune person is extraordinary or out of this world and unlike their previous crushes and lovers. They could immediately want to commit to them. However, the Descendant person needs to be mindful of their tendency to idealize and ignore the realities or even the red flags of the Neptune person.
You might feel like the person you have Mercury conjunct Moon in synastry with can read your mind and understand you in ways no else can, especially if you’re the Mercury person in this synastry. The Moon person could easily pick up on the emotions of the Mercury person and be able to read in between the lines whenever they interact. This is the synastry where you see one person asking the other, “What’s wrong? You’re not yourself today.” I feel this synastry would be less likely to experience conflict, however you’d also need to look at the other synastry aspects between both individuals’ moons to see if that would be the case or not.
You’ll likely have great communication and learn a lot of new things with friends and partners when you have both 3rd house synastry and multiple positive aspects between you and that person’s Mercury placement and vice versa. This is especially true when their Sun, Moon, Mercury, or even Jupiter lands in your 3rd house. For aspects, this could look like your Mercury forming a conjunction to their Jupiter and their Jupiter forming a trine to your Mercury. I actually have these placements in synastry with a friend of mine and I feel like I’m always learning something new when we talk to each other, even more so because her Sun is in my 3rd house.
A friend or partner who has their Mercury in your 2nd house can boost your self-esteem and confidence, help ground you, and make you aware of the ways in which you could improve yourself and your life.
i much prefer having someone embody my 7th house or have planets in my 7th house rather than my 1st house, because i feel like the 7th house person compliments me more and has characteristics i actually want and am actively seeking out for, verses someone with a bunch of planets in my 1st house feels too much like me and i’m not seeking myself in a relationship, i’m seeking my other half.
People love to bring up mirrors in astrology when referencing others but never want to be honest about how the person in your 7th house will hold up a mirror to you. And you’re gonna have to be the one to face yourself and deal with uncomfortable truths about who you actually are.
“Flaws and all,” like Beyonce said.
The 7th house shows how you’re insufferable, annoying, your shortcomings, etc. The person—and the relationship you have with them—who has their planets in the 7H of your chart is going to shed light on these things and if you’re self aware enough, they don’t even have to say a word.
Hello! What do you think of his chiron in my 7th house?
When someone’s Chiron falls in your 7th house, you could become more aware of your relationship wounds/trauma and you could feel as if the Chiron person is healing those wounds. It could be because the Chiron person does more of the things you always wanted in your past relationships. He could just have certain traits that you feel previous partners may have lacked or he could bring an energy that was not present in past relationships. But just as much healing that is being done to you, is the same amount of healing that the Chiron person is going through themselves in this connection. It works both ways here so the Chiron person in this connection will want to relieve you of any pain that you are still dealing with in regard to your relationships and he will learn a lot about himself in the process. Both you and the Chiron person will grow as a result of this connection.
Hello and Happy Holidays! I was wondering do you know what Synastry aspects & overlays indicate being very attached at the hip? To the point that it might seem very odd to see one without the other?? "We're a packaged deal"// "Hey, where's your shadow?"// "You guys are just two peas in a pod"// "With us you get a two for one special" Kind of energy/vibe. Thank you for your time, and hope that there is plenty of Holiday joy and cheer for you and your loved ones!
Thank you! Happy Holiday’s to you as well. ☺️🎄Well, to start, I would say 7th house synastry (overlaying planets in the 7th house) would reflect this type of connection. For example, if one partner’s planet falls into the other’s 7th house (especially the Sun, Moon, Venus, or Mars) this could enhance their desire to want to be with each other. It’s a really good synastry to have.
Venus Aspects, especially Venus and Mars. I would think aspects between these two planets (especially conjunctions or trines) would indicate a passionate and intense connection between these partners. They would be extremely attracted towards one another.
Sun Aspects, like Sun conjunct Moon, can create a warm, sunny feeling in the relationship. This connection would bring a sense of completion between the partners. They would be each other’s guiding light and muse. ☀️ 🖼️
Saturn Aspects (especially positively aspected). For instance, conjunctions or trines could indicate commitment and a sense of duty towards one another. These partners would embody an energy of reliability and strength together.
Moon-Moon, and Sun-Venus synastry can also show these dynamics. These aspects can foster a deep emotional connection, making you feel that you truly relate to and understand this person.
Lastly, I would consider Chiron Aspects. The connection could be healing and transformative, and they may feel like they are each other’s safe space. I hope this answered your question. 🩷
🫧The 7th house symbolises partnership and close relationships. It also signifies contractual relationships of all kinds i.e marriage or business. In this post, I will focus on romantic relationships.
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You will feel a very strong pull towards the house person. Perhaps they see you as an ideal love interest, someone that embodies a lot of what they're looking for in a partner. They may see you as someone who is dominant and can take the leadership role in the relationship. They may come to depend or lean onto you when they are overwhelmed. If you work together, you may be more experienced in your industry and thus act as a guide for the house person. Both of them will have a lot of pride in their relationship. If they get married, perhaps the sun person will flex their ring wherever they go lol. There is a good likelihood of marriage.
Moon:
You will feel emotionally tied to the house person. Perhaps the house person will provide a lot of comfort and emotional security to the moon person. You will feel bound together and may have trouble with boundaries or letting go if the relationship turns sour. You will be very warm and possessive of each other. It seems like if one of them were to show the same or similar amount of affection to others it's going to be like they cheated on their partner. The moon person especially will not be fond of sharing that intimacy with other people. Marriage could very much be on the table.
Mercury :
Both parties will love conversing with each other. The mercury person will want to show their affection through words, or through writing or even through songs. Their mental rapport will be a means of flirtation. Both parties could romanticise each other while talking. Perhaps both of them will find ease in communicating their wants, needs and desires as well as their issues within the relationship. Communication is very important for the both of you to ensure the longevity of your relationship.
Note: "blah blah blah, proper name, place name backstory stuff" I had that stuck in my head while writing this part lmao.
Venus:
Both parties will see each other as marriage material. The 7th house person will love how the venus person carries themselves, from the way they dress to the way the talk the 7th house person is likely to be head over heels for them. They can be very much in love with each other. The downside however is the same traits that they once found attractive about each other can lead to hate if the relationship doesn't end well. Could be a potential marriage partner.
Mars:
There is a great attraction between you. The Mars person especially will have 7th house person in a chokehold lol. There is a tendency for the mars person to rush into commitment however, which can lead to a lot of disappointments or arguments when the relationship doesn't turn out the way they expected.
Jupiter:
You both share similar ideals and philosophies about life. You are charming and playful together, and may love goofing around. The both of you will find that trusting each other comes easily even from the moment you meet. You will teach eachother about relationships, and help expand both of your love lives. Could be a sign of a long-term reason.
Saturn:
You might as well be the first long-term or serious relationship that the house person has. They will see you as a reliable and loyal companion.
Pluto:
The pluto person will bring a lot of change, and healing to the 7th house person. If there are things that the 7th house person kept hidden, refusing to deal with pluto will be the one to drag it out just with their presence alone. They could be very possessive and obsessed with each other.
Neptune:
Neptune will likely be head over heels for the house person. Seeing the house person as everything they've ever dreamt of in a partner. They could also choose to perceive it through the filtered vision of a hopeless romantic. Whether the 7th house person sees them the same way depends on the sign it's in. If it's in aquarius, virgo, gemini or aries then there's a good chance that it's one sided.
Uranus:
You both are likely not each other's usual preference in terms of looks or personality, but you will feel very at ease with each other. You won't feel constantly and judged, and you'll start to open your mind to things you would have never considered before. Could possibly be an open relationship but it's not always the case. If you do decide to be together, it's usually without the restraints of legalization i.e marriage contracts.
ex: Vanessa Paradis & Johnny Depp were together for 14 years and had kids, even though they were never married & never cared to get documentation for their union.His saturn (aquarius 7th house) harmoniously aspects her uranus (libra 11th house).
Chiron:
The Chiron person will draw out all the fears and insecurities that the 7th house has around relationships. One or both oh them may have been badly hurt in their love life or close connections before, and they will find in eachother the opportunity to address that pain and heal from it. On the flip side, this also means that this person could be the biggest heartbreak you'll ever experience if it weren't to end well.
You may feel drawn to being their partner, or perhaps being married to them may as well align with your destiny in this life. You'll find that both of you may feel fated to be with each other or at least have a significant impact into your relationships or business. You could also work together.
South:
You may have been married to them in a past life, or you'll notice that they hold a lot of similarities to people you've been in relationships with before. Being their partner will perhaps trigger the feeling that you might have met before. There may be karmic attachments to this person.
You will be passionate and slightly competitive with each other. There's this hard to get energy that you may like to play with. With one being the chaser and the other enjoying being chased lol. Heated arguments are prone to happen when misunderstandings arise however.
Taurus :
Both of you are very romantic, and find a lot of comfort within eachother. You will love spending time together, just breathing in their presence. You could also go on a lot of dates, or just stay at home together. Mundane things will suddenly feel like enchanted endeavours. However, both of you could also be stubborn and petty.
Gemini :
Fun, witty and exciting. Your connection will bring both intellectual stimulation and a childlike sense of joy into each other's life. You'll also be like twins when you're with each other i.e dressing the same way, adopting their manner of speech. You will feel that nobody quite understands you the way your partner does. However, there could be lies and manipulation taking place verbally or perhaps they could spread negative rumours about each other if the relationship doesn't run smoothly.
Cancer :
Both will feel very connected to each other. You will feel like you've found your home, or your forever person. You'll both feel as if you were meant for each other. Treating each other with care and compassion. There may be a tendency to victimise themselves when hurt however.
Leo:
You will be very loyal and possessive of your relationship. You're friends with everyone, and people will know you as the extra pair, never boring and never apart. There is a tendency to overreact over things however.
Virgo:
Both of you will feel naturally connected to eachother. You'll find that your lives, no matter how different actually mesh together very well in terms of routine. You will love doing practical things for each other, and working around their schedule to be together. There is a potential for a long-term relationship.
Libra:
Communication and equality is very important to the both of you. You will make sure that both of you will feel just as loved and appreciated as you are. There is a tendency to look at the relationship through rose tinted glasses however.
Scorpio:
There is nothing that you can hide from each other. Your relationship will be centered around themes of love, passion, obsession and slight toxicity if not handled correctly. If all goes well, you will experience a love that knows no bounds. However if things go south both parties will become very vengeful and grow a deep hatred towards each other.
Sagittarius:
You both will be very adventurous and entertaining together. You will spend a lot of time learning or sharing your knowledge and culture. You could love travelling, or just going out together in general. Marriage could be quite possible.
Capricorn:
Loyal, reserved and responsible. You both approach love and commitment through a mature and practical approach. Both of you share similar values in a relationship and strive to obtain success and stability. It's likely that both of you will be together for a very long time, if not married.
Aquarius:
You could be an odd pairing. You could be very involved in your community together or take part in a lot of charities or humanitarian activities. You will allow each other a lot for freedom and space for individuality. You will have unconstrained fun together, pranks, spontaneous trips, shared tiktok accounts, the works! You could also prefer to be long-term partners without the legality of marriage contracts.
Pisces:
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Your relationship goes beyond the physical realm. You will be spiritually connected to one another and may have been dreaming of them long before you met. There is a tendency to be very unrealistic however, detaching yourselves from reality and going into seclusion.
Hello there! Can you describe my chart as well? (if you don't mind)
My chart is very similar to the one of the other person who asked!
Hello sweetie ( ı did it shortly so easy to read.)
with your asc in scorpio, moon in cancer, sun in pisces,sun in 4th house, you are totally water dominant person. so your decisions depends on your emotional side. plus with pisces mercury you might have artistic abilities. but you should balance your thoughts between logic and emotion not just emotion. 8th house moon probably you never forget what others did to you( both bad and good stuffs). 9th house jupıter brings you extra luck in the areas associated to 9th house such as higher education,university, other cultures...
pluto and mars in 2th house you are ambitious about financial ıssues. you have capacity to earn big moneys. because 2th pluto seems in the chart of billionaires. neptune and venus in 3rd house good at communication. maybe you have beautiful voice. dsc in taurus you need stable and determinated partners who care about financial matters. 8th house saturn maybe restricted feelings, emotions. asc aspect both moon and sun, you are blend of your parents for appearance. also by being watery dominant you may have intuitive mind and abilities. asc square neptune your outer personality might not to much your inner personality ı mean people might perceivw you as someone different. and your mother might be pretty emotional person according to your moon. you are person dependent on your family. you give importance to your family.
I am waiting for your back answer are these suits you
With this synastry, some themes that persist in this house are mundane affairs, work habits, routines, physical health, self-care/medicine. This house also represents animals, taking care of others, and perhaps in the best case scenario putting someone else's needs above their own, and in worst case scenario nit-picking or nagging on one another.
I feel like this synastry would create two individuals who would work well together in their everyday life, depending on what planets are sitting here would create a more specific theme, but perhaps you put your partner needs above your own, or (you or them) could think of the small little details that would make their day easier, such as them making your coffee everyday or picking up your favorite food on the way home from work, this house to me (when it comes to partnership) would amplify doing little acts of service for one another and heightens consideration on both ends (or could be one sided depending on each own natal chart). You guys can work together or have the same interests when it comes to hobbies or activities. Now if the planet(s) involved aren't making harsh aspects to your planets (or vice versa) then this energy could manifest pleasantly. Their considerate nature brings more ease into your life, rather than causes more unnecessary setbacks. In other sense, if someone is looking for more of a fun, passionate, type of love or adventure then this house could feel a bit boring. Not everyone will appreciate considerate acts as a whole when it comes to love, so it depends on how the person will receive this kind of energy.
Another sense of this is, I feel like this could make you or your partner overly aware of one another, meaning how they act, what they say, or even to what they wear might be under a microscope, malicious intent is not on purpose but this house's energy might unlock or uncover that type of detailed energy.
Balancing one another might come easy and you're able to add them in your everyday life, they might fit in like a puzzle piece with no blockages or resistance; but again depending on their own natal chart; they might view this as a gateway to a white picket fence and not everyone searches for that type of lifestyle.
7TH House Synastry
I have dealt with 7th house synastry before, I made a post about him a few months ago but relooking at our synastry the main feelings that persevered had to be his Pluto conjuncting my Venus and squaring my Mars. That was a whirlwind in itself and because of my Scorpio Moon/12H Venus & Pluto/Moon square Neptune I clung onto that peace he gave me for dear life. So, I'm not entirely sure if what I felt from him was either the 7th house energy, or his Pluto, or from a past life, but anyway going off from what I feel like this energy would bring:
With 7th house synastry, one common theme I hear about this house is it represents open enemies/your life partner. This house is directly opposite of your ascendant, therefore the qualities this house brings will either be qualities you wish you had or wish to develop, or qualities you find perhaps even annoying or "too much" to deal with; depending on what journey you're on when it comes with accepting your 7th house needs. A part of you might admire the traits of the person who falls in your 7th house because they might obtain qualities or attributes you're still trying to decipher within or unlock, or you might find it like I said (annoying) or just out of your comfort zone.
Depending on what planet that falls in the 7th house and it's aspects would create a better story but for the most part, I believe this would need other cute synastry aspects/desire for it to manifest in the upmost positive sense of them becoming your life long partner/lover; especially if you are like me who sort of need that passion and lust when it comes to romantic partners but to each their own.
Attraction and desire to continue the relationship I think is noteworthy; this may feel more true if you personally have active 1H/2H/12H natal placements, if you share more 5H/7H/8H natal placements then the energy the 7th house brings may feel more ideal. I personally have NO 7th house placements, and I immensely struggle with emotional vulnerability and acceptance of love so for me, I would struggle more with solely 7th house synastry then the next person)
In one short fling this boys Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars fell in my 7th house and I was repulsed, like okay I was interested at first for whatever reason because I was drunk and he was in front of me; but he ignited uncomfortable feelings the following days after because he sat SO heavy on a house I have no business or care for (as of yet).
But going back to what I feel this would cause from my astrological guess is; if there is a connection forged then this would bring you two closer. You might take on their traits that they are able to master and they might take on yours; bringing in balance for you two and ease with where you guys want your connection to go. They can become the ying to your yang; when you're overly emotional they help you stand your ground with making sound decisions and with processing your emotions. They'll be able to comfort you in the way you always wished someone would. If you're suddenly overly cold or detached they can help show and ignite compassion and empathy within you, if you're an over thinker where you worry or have unnecessary thoughts they can come in and bring in light and hope when it feels hopeless. If you're overly impulsive or chaotic/dramatic they can come in and ease the intensity you might showcase in everyday small matters, bringing in light-heartedness and bring you to understand your emotions better.
Therefore they can help you process your 7th house needs better than someone else, igniting character development or openness in some areas of life. Comfort could also be forged I believe, you might feel understood with them; making it easy to connect with them on a more deeper level, causing more closeness between the two of you.
I believe the reason this house can showcase long term potential is because once you embrace and take on the qualities of your descendant, then the connection between the two of you will manifest deeply and partnership is increased.
Again the planets in question and natal placements would always paint a better picture about how someone would react to these houses being lit up.
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