#ableist anon

[funnier-with-narcpd]

I have NPD and I am ableist.

what do you want me to do with this information. Okay

[this-is-narc-joy]

I have NPD and I am ableist

this is ... a submission ?

[cleobel]

At least Google what ‘chronic’ actually means. Chronic illness doesn’t care if it’s in your body or your brain, it just means long-term.

That’s why your precious type 1 diabetes (lol) and schizophrenia (maybe you should get that checked, just saying) both qualify. So before you flap your mouth and look like the ignorant, pathetic moron you clearly are, try, I don’t know… not embarrassing yourself for once.

The only one who's embarrassing themselves is you. You're just proving my point that you're acting ignorant and ableist.

Do not joke about serious mental illnesses like schizophrenia. Last week in my country a schizophrenic man set fire to his mother and she died after days of agony. Schizophrenia is a deeply stigmatized illness that shouldn't be used lightly to perpetuate toxic fandom wars. You're being insensitive.

I will do you a favor and delete any other asks you might send me so that people won't have to look at the lows you're willing to sink to for the sake of a little ship drama.

[doctoratecuddles]

"Protect minors", "Protect minors"! Until it's one of ur mindless hater friends. It's crazy how blind u people are. Sure, accusing Kittycorn is fine, but pointing out concerning behavior gets u dogpiled by the hater mob. What is wrong with u. Genuine question. Did mindlessly hating people on the internet rot ur brain and make u think touching kids is ok if u hate the right person online? I hope u all hold hands and jump off a bridge.

I honestly don't even have words dawg. Accusing a random guy of being a pedophile and wishing minors would kill themselves... all because you were wrong... uhm. Yeah you're actually fucking messed up please seek professional help and log off you're a fucking vile person wishing death upon children.

[newhologram]

"wow im sowwy i have such low spoons i couldn't possibly put an image ID in my post, can someone else do it for me uwu"

just admit you don't give two shits about people who use screen readers. you wrote up a whole ass text post with an image but your energy magically stops when it's time to be inclusive? lmao no. if you can't spare the energy to add an ID to that then don't post it at all you fucking cunt. and you don't get to act like it's a massive fucking burden on you that you have to shove off to someone else. actually vile behaviour from someone who's literally complaining about ableism. i hate this shit ass community

^ So this is actually ableism. ^ Lots of very nasty ableist projecting here which is disappointing but quite common on this site.

Chronic pain, fatigue, and brain fog are a thing. Limitations are a thing. My pain and meds wrecking my cognitive function, my symptoms demanding I take a break so I don’t go into the red and puke are a thing. My very nerve pain from using my hands is literally why I had to give up so many things, and why I can’t edit or type that much in a given day. It’s called disability for a reason.

(I queue most posts after chipping away at them. Only some posts are spontaneous.)

This is why we even use the concept of spoons. If I need to stop and save spoons to drive an hour to my doctor appt, or even just save them to cook a meal later, then I HAVE to do that. And I’d rather post something and ask for assistance from others who feel up to it than have a post keep sitting in my drafts for months and months. I have 2 year old posts I just can’t get my brain working for.

You’re so close with “energy magically disappeared”—so close. Bc that’s actually how disability and chronic illness is. Moment to moment we don’t know how we’re going to feel or when we’ll need to take a break.

It’s so funny bc the reason my backlog has gotten so much bigger over the past 3 years is bc I take so long to subtitle clips and write ID’s.

I’m not mad at you, but boundary-wise, it isn’t okay for you to take out your frustration with the community on me just bc I’m an easy and accessible target to anon rage at. I would recommend talking about this stuff in your journal or with a trusted friend or mental health professional before running off to say mean things you may later feel bad about.

Thank you to those who have always helped to ID things without judgment or projection. It seriously means so much bc I’ve got a lot on my plate with my health and home and job rn. I’m grateful for your kindness and for you seeing me as human and not just a content creation machine. I’m glad to be part of a community that understands that it’s okay to ask for help and to help each other. I’m glad we don’t have this unhealthy mindset of “I MUST do it myself or I’m a bad person.”

🙏🏻💙🥄♿️✨

[intersex-idiots]

crazy how our asks magically stopped being violent and petty when we turned off anon.

cowards, that's what you are. if you're going to say we're faking our disorders or telling us to die you better have the balls to say it when anon's off.

- Nora

[spacebatisluvd]

A note regarding that Anon I got a while back, since this has been on my mind:

While Anon was unquestionably ableist in their ask, I have no hard evidence that it was intentional. Now, thoughtless cruelty is still cruelty—which is why I drew their attention to the implications of their ask and attitude—and I am not defending that.

But...those of us of privileged classes have to learn this stuff at some point. It’s my experience that a patient, compassionate explanation is more effective that cruelty returned in kind. (This is only true for unintentional cruelty, mind you. If anyone has a remedy for intentional cruelty, I’m all ears. I think we need it.)

Now, I also understand that disabled people or people of other underprivileged classes are often overburdened with the responsibility of teaching the privileged classes compassion because they’re faced with that kind of attitude daily. That’s tiresome. Being of a privileged class myself—all of my “abnormalities” are things that I can conceal well enough to pass for “normal”, or things that I can pass off as “quirks”, for the most part—I’m not generally overburdened. I have a lot more patience for people like Anon, for better or worse.

Apologies if anyone thinks I should have been harsher—I understand where you’re coming from—but I did want to explain my reasoning. (And, of course, I’m willing to be educated on things I should have pointed out when faced with their question.)

[keplercryptids]

Why do you do image descriptions they're so fucking annoying

mm right, image descriptions allow disabled people basic access to the internet. i understand why that would annoy an ableist like you.