Listen. You don't have the right to decide what a transgender looks like. Just because someone is female to male and likes to dress more feminine doesn't make them any less of a man. They are allowed to wear make up, wear cute dresses or even have whatever style they like. It's not up to you to decide how they choose to dress or present themselves. Just because someone is male to female doesn't make them any less a female just because they like to wear male attire. Suits, or whatever it is they want to wear. And just because you're transgender DOES NOT MAKE IT OKAY to harass or bully another transgender. Transgenders can be transphobes too. Stop thinking because you view them a certain way that it makes it okay to tell them how they're allowed to dress or act. And for parent of transgender kids who don't support them. Who use dead names and force them to use a dead name and dress like the wrong gender. You are scum bags. As a parent it's your job to protect and nurture your child. To help them and guide them in a direction they are comfortable with. If you force them to have a personality you want rather than allowing them to be their own individual you're no better than the parents of school shooters who leave their guns loaded and out for their kids to use. No matter what your kid identifies as, trans, cis, fluid, ace, nonbinary, or whatever the case may be. Try to understand it, support them. As a parent, friend, relative or partner that is your job. Thank you.