#accountablity

[unwelcome-ozian]

[beautifullittlefool1999]

Lolllll I’m sorry

But actually if this was a threat a lot of harassment would be checked before it started. Like don’t make me get out the fucking skillet.

[islandnaturals]

I recently discovered something about myself…self awareness is a love language for me and so I suffer in relationships/friendships with people who aren’t self aware. I’m not perfect. No one is perfect but I can confidently say that for at least the past 10 years of my life I’ve been consistently checking myself for the parts of me that need growth. It helps me a LOT when others can be mirrors for me to show me things I cannot see about myself. So it’s difficult for me to relate to anyone is isn’t self aware and they aren’t doing any kind of self exploration so there’s no self improvement. It’s even worse when I try to be a mirror for them and they either refuse to look or gaslight me. I’ve learned to walk away from those types of relationships because I’m the one who suffers. Now when I meet someone, at the top of the checklist is… “how is your awareness of your traumas and the way they affect your ability to have healthy relationships?” #selfawareness #selflove #selfwork #accountablity #lovelanguage (at Jamaica) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWf4jG5rY-r/?utm_medium=tumblr

[kevinbingham]

The Nine Tenets of Loki

Truth: Be real. Be true to yourself as much as you are to others. Don't apologize for who you are.

Humor: Learn to find the humor in all things, especially in yourself. This is how we learn not to be self-righteous assholes.

Humility: If you need to tie your balls to a goat to get shit done, suck it up buttercup.

Cunning: Try to think outside the box. Don't make a mess so big that you can't think your way out of it.

Transformation: Don't be afraid of change, because that's how we grow. Don't be afraid of self-examination and listen to constructive criticism.

Creativity: Create awesome stuff. Try new things out. If you don't like it, blow it up and try again.

Accountability: You are the only one in charge of your own destiny, your own life, and your own actions. Own your shit.

Empathy: Try to see things from more than one perspective. Walk a mile in someone else's shoes before you pass judgment.

Experimentation: A mistake is only a mistake if you do it twice. Until then, everything is an experiment.

[wack-ashimself]

See, Morty? Now we're BOTH accountable.

rick and morty

[unwelcome-ozian]

[unwelcome-ozian]

Projection. We attribute to another person feelings, desires or motives that are ours but we don’t recognize as our own, since we don’t want to accept them because they would unbalance the image we have of ourselves. By projecting them onto another person, we are relieved and can maintain a less tensed relationship with our “ego”. For example, a person may get angry with his partner and complain that he doesn’t listen when, in fact, is he/she who’s not listening but doesn’t want to accept it.

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