I would reccomend to everyone that you all should avoid interacting with Marie (mariemlpfan, mariecartoonandanimelover, askthe4friends, marielikesnsfw on tumblr, mariesxsfan on twitter, instagram, and inkbunny, mariemlpfan on deviantart, marielikesvsporn on newtumbl, and mariecutiefurry on furaffinity).
Not only does this woman, who is nearly 20 years old, have a disgusting and dehumanising fetish for trans men's bodies, but she also maintains an incredibly inappropriate behavior.
CONTENT WARNING FOR DESCRIPTIONS OF TRANSPHOBIA, SEXISM, HOMOPHOBIA, BIPHOBIA, RAPE APOLOGISM, FETISHIZATION, AND INAPPROPRIATE CONDUCT WITH A MINOR
As a transmasculine person myself, I can't help but say that some of Marie's content has traumatized me. The way she treats trans bodies is extremely invalidating and disrespectful. In any of her drawings involving a character she headcanons as a trans guy, she will do everything she can to make them discernable from cis men. The cis characters will have bodies more similar to their actual character models, and will usually have a simple body shape. However, LITERALLY EVERY TRANS MAN she draws has an exaggerated hourglass figure, and wears either skirts/dresses constantly or skintight pants that indicate what genitals they have. This is a textbook example of an offensive charicature. She obsesses over the genitalia and gender assigned at birth of trans men, and focuses on that rather than their actual genders. That is, of course, unless she's priding herself on drawing "trans representation" and will never just call the characters men, but always trans men, to separate our existence from cis men as if we aren't "real men". This is more obvious in her pornographic drawings, in which she constantly refers to trans men as "naughty trans boys" or "beautiful trans boyfriends" that cis men are "lucky to have". In her ask blog titled askthe4friends, she takes this weird sexual dymorphism to another level, by making the characters she headcanons as trans men to be the only male characters who wear skirts and dresses, and in her words "still act like girls", which is implying that trans men are actually girls pretending to be men, but are still girls. She uses the distinction of activities cis men and trans men do constantly by stating that the cis men like video games whilst exclusively the trans men like baking, which really seems like an outdated, partriachal, sense of gender roles but used to differentiate between cis men and trans men, which turns the already sexist trope of women being in the kitchen into something transphobic that invalidates the gender of trans men in the process. She also headcanons the cis men attracted to trans men as bisexual, because they are attracted to men, but only the "girly ones". This is invalidating, transphobic, and biphobic as it implies that sexuality is based on genitals and not gender. She has been called out by one anon for constantly drawing trans men extremely feminine, but never drawing cis men that way, to which Marie responded that she does this because "some men have rights to that stuff" which first of all, doesnt make sense or answer the question, and second of all, doesn't reflect the various experiences transmasculine people have with femininity compared to cis people and instead takes advantage of trans men who dare to reclaim feminine expression and turns it into something for her own personal consumption. When the anon mentioned how she always exaggerates their curves, Marie admitted to doing this because she believes that trans men will always have different bodies than cis men because of their gender assigned at birth, but she played it off as if this were a good thing.
In posts she made involving pregnancy and a fanchild, she initially portrayed the character she headcanons as trans to be the mother, and the only father is the cis man. She later changed it so the trans man is also listed as a father, but she is so insistent about focusing on his anatomy for her fetish that she had to also add "(birth giver)", which doesn't need to be stated, as all it does is remind us that she constantly has trans men's reproductive systems in mind for her own enjoyment. She also stated that pregnancy would obviously happen because it's a relationship between a trans man and a cis man, which completely erases the complicated relationship trans men have with pregnancy, how dangerous it is to assume that just because a few trans men carry their pregnancies to term trans men in general are somehow okay with giving birth, the fact that there are several other ways to have children that don't involve trans men having to stop taking testosterone for 9 months, and that if unplanned, pregnancies can be extremely traumatizing as it would wither result in abortion/miscarriage, or halting hormone replacement therapy. All this woman cares about is that trans men are usually born with uteri, and that cis men can impregnate them. All this woman cares about is the genitalia trans men are born with, to which she assumes that gay trans men must be just like her, a cishet woman, then, which ignores the fact that many trans men have different genitalia, and that trans men don't have to be in relationships with cis men.
On her nsfw accounts, she puts a direct focus on trans men's genitals, often drawing closeups of their hairless, dainty bodies being exclusively dominated by cis men. She has constantly been insistent on other artists making only one man in a gay relationship trans, and that the trans man MUST be submissive to the cis man. There's at least one drawing on there where she literally labels a trans man as a cis man's "pet", and another in which a cis man calls a trans man a slut, which is both incredibly dehumanizing and reinforcing of cis entitlement to trans bodies. I have counted, and there are at least 4 separate posts on tumblr alone in which Marie has glorified/pretended to get nosebleeds over the idea of cis men literally raping trans men, focusing on trans men's genitals once again, and stating that the cis man "just can't help it" and that the trans man "starts to/secretly enjoys it". This practically encourages and glorifies brutal violence against trans people, is a classic case of rape apologism, and literally fetishizes a hate crime. She has encouraged others to create content of the same caliber, and I'm honestly shocked that people never stopped her in her tracks. I'm even more shocked that her posts are still getting likes and reblogs, some of which from children.
I messaged Marie on anon a few months ago, before I had seen the posts glorifying rape, thinking that if she simply wasn't aware of the harm she's doing, I could tell her about her mistakes and she would change for the better. However, she responded by not even letting the world see my grievances with her by not publishing my messages, and instead acted like I had made her stay up all night crying. Still, I assumed that she might be a good person who's just a little lost, so I thanked her for "listening" to me and told her how she could fix her mistakes. I told her that despite meeting the definition of fetishization, she wasn't the worst I had seen. I regret saying this, because I was quickly proven wrong.
Marie claimed that she had no idea what she was doing. Marie was lying. Almost immediately after I sent her the first set of anonymous messages, she made an account on instagram, where she posted some of her graphic nsfw content, one of which depicted a trans man with his genitals splayed out in the center of the image, and saying "put your big fat c*** in my p****!!!!!!"... This was right after I had asked her to stop obsessing over trans men's genitals... She eventually made this account private, alongside her twitter a few months later. Her most recent drawing that I have seen of either of the spies was of a trans white spy, in which she drew him in a shirt that read "MEGA MILK", stating that although he doesn't have breasts anymore.. she did it because "you know..." and then she didn't explain anything else, basically implying that she knows that what she's doing doesn't make sense and is invalidating but she's going to continue her horrible actions. Marie has stopped posting her svs fanart on tumblr after I sent her those anonymous messages, likely afraid that more people will call her out on her actions. Instead, she now lurks and interacts with people on tumblr through replies and asks. As of recently, I noticed that she is now taking advantage of a child on this site who makes nsfw content, which is illegal, just so someone else who is young enough to not know any better can feed into her transphobic fantasy without feeling guilty herself. But here's the problem: Marie IS guilty. She has treated trans people horribly, and she is fully aware of it. I have been nothing but polite to her on anon, and I never mentioned anything about her on my blog until recently. But ever since I made my first post, she has actively avoided my blog, liking almost every new post in the spy vs spy tag other than mine for a while. I'm almost glad that she doesn't interact with me, but I can't help but wonder if she's ignoring my posts because I mentioned in my very first one that I am gay and transgender, that I headcanon BOTH of the spies as such as well, and that homophobes and transphobes shouldn't interact with me.
I guess that's the one thing a trans guy has told her that she's actually listened to. Please avoid, or if you can, deplatform this disgusting person. She may claim to be an "ally", but the only things she has done involving lgbtq people is fetishize us to no end, ignore us, and reblog those posts that say "reblog if you're not homophobic!!!11!1". She claims that she can't be misinformed about trans people and that she can't be doing anything wrong because she "has trans friends", but that is no excuse for a cis person to talk over trans people and sexually exploit gender noncomforming/feminine trans mlm. I wouldn't be upset if this was simply just a gender noncomforming trans man projecting onto a fictional character. The problem is that this is not the case at all. Marie is an openly cishet woman (She has in some of her bios that she is heterosexual and "loves gay shit"), her headcanon is fueled by her thought process that trans men= vaginas, and she fetishizes the entire existence of gender noncomforming trans men. She portrays cis men as the "dominant men" in mlm relationships and trans men as the "submissive women", stating multiple times that she's only comfortable with trans men being "ukes" and cis men being the "semes". She makes sexual content of trans men being dominated by cis men to project a cisgender, heterosexual, patriachal lens onto trans men and mlm. This content has been accessible and has influenced the way young, impressionable teens see gay trans men. She is a threat to the safety of the fandom space, to the safety of trans people, and to the safety of minors.
This post has been sitting in my drafts for nearly two months now. I've been hestitant to make anything along the lines of a callout post due to the implications of what may follow. I want to be relatively professional and mature, and the level of responsibility that comes with it involves deciding when it's appropriate to speak up. I've been terrified that people would come after me for talking publicly about it, but it's come to my attention that people need to know that this person has been doing horrible things, and people need to avoid her. I don't want anyone else to be negatively impacted by her behavior online like I and multiple other trans people have been. I don't want her content to be used to groom young people, especially young trans people, into thinking that this behavior is in any way acceptable.
If I've missed anything, or you would like to add to the list of horrors caused by this person, feel free to reblog and share your thoughts. Please don't harass her, though. If she does change her ways, we should encourage it. It's best for her to learn from her mistakes (despite her ignoring people when they've told her in the past) and start to actually listen to, respect, and support us.
