as someone who's life was completely shaken up and controlled by a toxic person for almost two years, i can promise you that you don't come across as being even remotely close to being one at all <3 (i hope this is reassuring its meant to be but i am awful with words)
I'm sorry that you were made to go through that, dear anon, I hope that you find yourself in a better place now. Thank you for taking the time to send your kind message and to even just notice that tag I wrote in the first place (I'll be honest, I never know if anyone sees much of the stuff I say). As you are anon, I'm not sure how much interaction you and I have had in order for this to be something you could know about me, but your words are reassuring nonetheless. Have a great day, anon!