I’m so in between Tom being into bdsm and so kinky vs him being painfully conservative in bed 😭 honestly what do you think?
this is honestly a good question! personally, I’d say if we speak about canon/close-to-canon Tom he’d be rather conservative? I see him being minimal on foreplay and the only position he’ll do is prone bone. just a vanilla guy who tries to get you off by what he’s doing, but if it isn’t enough, that’s it. you get me? that’s at least what I think is the norm—if he’s angry or irritated he’ll have you on your knees in no time, gripping your hair while he uses your mouth to let off some steam.
in fanfiction, I am a hard dom!Tom truther. I know I have not written many fics like that, but honestly it fits him pretty well. I mean that man is definitely 100% a sadist. he loves seeing your tears, he loves giving you bruises, marking, branding you. he makes sure to tie the ropes around your wrist so tight, your skin will be irritated and raw after he’s done with you. he’ll make you beg for his mercy too. always giving you one, two, three more orgasms/spanks than you say you can take. you don’t have another choice anyway—wrists and ankles tied to the bedpost, there’s no way you’re escaping him. your pain (good pain, of course) gives him a sense of satisfaction.
especially after he’s had a rough day of being surrounded by idiots, his favourite activity is bending you over his lap, your legs secured between his to keep you from moving around, and making you count. sometimes it’s 20, sometimes it’s 35, though often times he doesn’t stop until his palm is growing sore and you’re a sobbing mess, trembling beneath his touch.
it’s not really that much about physical pleasure for him—seeing you break, whimpering a string of small I am sorry’s even though you didn’t do anything out of place is the most gratification he could ask for.
but don’t get me wrong—this man values after care more than anything else. as before mentioned, he is the one to wreck you and yet he loves rebuilding you even more. words of affirmation, physical touch, taking a bath together, massaging your sore wrists with a cooling ointment—he’ll do it all. <3













