When you said "when it comes to black women you were taught you could do anything to them?"
Since it was a personal question and I gave a personal answer...
In high school, I was this... let's say weird kid. Keep in mind that I'm not a Black kid in a mixed school. I was one of the MANY Black kids in one of the two only public high schools on St. Thomas, USVI.
I was a Yankee (islander term for Black American who speaks "proper") and to them, I would be "most likely to marry a White woman". In the islands, this was considered an insult because basically they were saying that "you're so weird, that no strong Black woman is going to take you on, you best get with a private school White girl who's more naive."
My best friend told me that I was better off dating a White woman because I would least likely get arrested. I was like how come?
He said "Well, if ya fall in love with the Frenchie them (White women), they will be the easy to get into a relationship with. Them women always making you wanna guess and give you damn situations. Frenchie them... neva gonna call Bobbiland unless close to death. Black women, you can knock them down, they get up and give you licks. They will play fist cuffs wif you. But will be quick to call bobbiland (police) on you. Black women will ruin you. Trust me, boy... get a White wifey. They will give it up, want more. And since you play straight and narrow, you'll never have to worry about them calling bobbiland."
So... long story short...
... when Black women say things like "Black men ain't shit"...