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[wannabecatwriter]

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Here's one for Elliott.

[greenplumbboblover]

Hiya, hope you're well! I can't seem to download your build/buy blender references which I'd LOVE to get my hands on, but the page keeps coming up as a server error, while the rest of the site seems to be working fine :( any chance you could please fix the link/let me have an alternative download link if it's just a problem on my end? 🙏🏻

Hey!

This should now be fixed! For some reason it threw an error because it somehow had 2 unique views for some bizarre reason.

Either way, it should now work! (and not happen anymore in the future ;))

[lazysunjade]

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[buckleysims]

Replies below! (I love you guys so much. ♥)

@jones7659 I can’t believe you daughter is fifteen now! That’s so awesome! :D Also, how sweet that you found your husband without having to wade through a bunch of losers and players first. Can’t say that I’m not jealous, lol. But yeah, life is short, and it only gets shorter. Even if this turns out to be nothing, at least I got to have some fun. Anyway, thank you for your encouragement. ♥

@muses-circle Reply #1: You called me adorable, and now I can’t stop blushing. XD But really, I am so grateful for your support. You’re right, too. I should try not to be so concerned about getting in over my head with this guy. He’s cool, and he seems to like me in spite of myself. That’s what matters here, and I need to stop psyching myself out wondering what he could possibly see in me. Although I still don’t know what he could possibly see in me. Regardless, I am going to try. Today was a snow day here so I didn’t have work, but if I make it into the office tomorrow I might go visit him again. Maybe. I don’t want to seem desperate, though, so maybe not. Why is this so hard?! XD

@muses-circle Reply #2: *hugs back* How are you so wonderful?! ;-; I’m glad he apologized, but at the same time it really wasn’t necessary. I was giggling and flirting and enjoying his attention... right up until he almost kissed me. But he truly didn’t do anything wrong. I should not have encouraged him when I wasn’t sure how I felt about the situation. I think that’s why it was so freakin’ awkward.

@amuhav Yeah, going in casual is precisely how I want to approach it, but I’m terrified of falling for a person who doesn’t feel the same way about me. I don’t handle rejection well, lol. Still, that’s no reason to avoid him, right? I mean, I can’t let my fears dictate my decisions. Also, you make an excellent point about “hot” people, one that I hadn’t considered before. I still get the feeling that he’s interested in me more for sex than a relationship, but the fact that he’s so incredibly attractive may be coloring my perceptions. And that’s not fair. Anyway, thank you for replying! *hugs*

@opsims I laughed so hard at your comment that I think I actually snorted. Out loud. In public. But it was so worth it, ROFL! Thank you for the laugh! :D

@hunterthewriterworld I have been beating myself up about that (almost) kiss practically since the moment it happened. I feel like the world’s biggest loser. I mean, what are the odds that a man will try to kiss the same person twice? It’s like that old proverb, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.” He is not a fool, so... sigh. But anyway, your comments have been such a comfort to me. Thank you for your kindness. <3

@pudding-parade Oh, how I wish that were true! But he did see it as a straight up, flat out rejection. I’m sure of it. :( Nevertheless, I am still holding on to a faint glimmer of hope. Like you said, he may have noticed how nervous I was and realized that things were just moving too quickly for me. I hope so anyway. And yes, the fact that we were just hanging out in his office, that (almost) kiss took me by complete surprise! Admittedly he kept flirting and inching closer to me, but I didn’t think he’d risk something as intimate as a first kiss when we could have been interrupted at any moment.

@sweetpyxels You are amazing. Thank you so much for your advice. Half of me wishes that he would ask me out on a “proper” date (not just office lunches, lol), but the other half of my brain thinks that that would be a huge mistake. I’m not sure I’m even allowed to date him, and I don’t want to lose my job. (I mean, I don’t think there are any rules against it, but my boss is very, very strict and very, very old-fashioned.) But more than that, what if I actually fall for him? A little flirting is easy to shrug off, but a real date? Yikes. Anyway, thanks for listening to me. I really appreciate it!

@wannabecatwriter *hugs* You are the sweetest person! You always say something that makes me feel so much better. I probably shouldn’t be glad about this, but you telling me that my situation is relatable... I don’t feel so alone now. So thank you. ♥

@nornities Thank you. I really, really appreciate your advice. I must admit that it did seem incredibly forward of him to try and kiss me in that situation, and it does concern me. As you mentioned, he’s probably used to getting exactly what he wants, especially regarding women, and that does not bode well. I will have to keep it in mind for sure. I don’t want a broken heart.

@mysimsloveaffair Aw! *blush* To be fair, he asked me to stop by. I almost didn’t, but I wanted to see him again so badly. I am my own worst enemy, lol.

@simlicious You give the best advice! So thoughtful and supportive and kind. Thank you. ♥ I’m glad that you think it was okay for me to take a step back. That makes me feel a bit better, although I must confess that I am still beating myself up about it and wondering what it would be like to kiss him. I am such a mess, lol. Also, your comment about the importance of sharing my feelings and insecurities really resonated with me. I just... I don’t know how. I don’t want him to get the idea that I’m expecting anything serious to come out of this, but he deserves to know that I’m not exactly an easy person to date. :/

@lilidebergerac I am so flattered! Thank you! I felt anything but cute after that (almost) kiss though. He just looked so ashamed and embarrassed. It was mortifying. I hope tries again someday, but I don’t think that he will. I’m sure this man has his choice of women, so why would he bother chasing the one who flirts with him and then rejects him for no good reason? :( :( :( I need a real life time machine, lol.

@curmudgeonness Aw, Rob! ;-; You’re too sweet! Thank you so, so much for your comment. I cherish our friendship (you’re one of my longest/oldest mutuals on here), and your support means the world to me. But yeah, you’re right. I’m not in a rush, but it does make me wonder if perhaps he is. And if so, why? Ugh, now I’m back to questioning his intentions again. When did life become so damn complicated. XD

@batsheba Okay, what an awesome word!!! As for asking him out, though, please don’t think less of me, but I’m not sure I have the courage to do it. What if he says no? D: But I will think about it. Anyway, thanks again for the encouragement. You are amazing. <3

@ktarsims I kind of wish that I was okay with just having a fling because this guy would be the perfect person for it, but honestly I don’t think that I am? I’m not saying that I need this to turn into something serious, but I don’t want just no-strings-attached sex either. But yes, I agree with you that if he pushes my limits and oversteps my boundaries and refuses to be patient, then he’s not worth it. Also, your “friend” sounds awful! It’s not fair that he put you in such a difficult position.

[keibea]

aaaaaaah, why aren't these questions numbereddddd... okay okay, good thing we can bullet point in asks nowwww.

For Elodie:

are they an affectionate person?  how do they feel about pda?

are they good at explaining things to others?

what’s their favorite dish to cook?  favorite dish to order out?

describe their dream home.  looks, location, decorations, etc.

I wanted you to struggle Aimee hehehhhhehe thank you my lovely <3 <3 tbh i almost forgot i asked these WHOOPS

are they an affectionate person?  how do they feel about pda?

elodie is a veryyyy affectionate person. she's almost always holding eli's hand when they're out and about and the same usually goes with her friends. she prefers to stay close and show her love through touching. she doesnt mind pda, but prefers herself to not like, for example, kiss eli in front of everyone. she likes it to be more of a private thing.

are they good at explaining things to others?

nope she's absolutely shiz at explaining anything. and i mean anything. never give her ikea instructions because she'll lead you into a hole.

what’s their favorite dish to cook?  favorite dish to order out?

elodie can't cook. at all. but goodness knows she tries! eli's suffering when he comes back home late from work and cant start dinner before elodie. she's currently trying to master pesto pasta, which seems to be her faveourite atm. favourite dish to order out....hmmmm...my weird brain cant understand this one so im going to take it as where does she like to go for dinner?? indian. she lovessss indian food.

describe their dream home.  looks, location, decorations, etc.

ive been giving this a lot of thought recently...(because yes i have nothing better to do then plan out the imaginary lives of my sims that im weirdly invested in piss off) and definitely either a cottage or some sort of old fixer-upper. ive made a little mood board thingy cause i apparently have nothing better to do and i also suck at describing anything sooooo:

do these work together in any way, shape or form? probably not, architecture is not my strong suit (lila help plz thank youuu). but yeah definitely lots of windows, secluded surrounded by plants and greenery. a place for a greenhouse and maybe a chicken coup with lots of old knickknacks and rolling green hills as their views.

[winterecho-archive]

aaaaaaaaaaaaaah have I missed your birthday??? curse my infrequent dash use HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYY 💖🎂💖🎂💖

LOL you haven't missed it! It's currently 10:30pm and it still my birthday! 😆 Thankyou so much honey! 🥰💗

[izayoichan]

RQOTD: What is a random fact or piece information about your story that you have been wanting to share but haven’t had a reason to share it?

I have pondered this a while, and never really found something, but recently I realized something, and its in a way about the story.. but if it wasn't for two people (they both know who they are) this story would have "ended", and I would have quit posting it and gone back to keeping it private to those few I know have an interest and that would have been it. What can one say, it's hard to motivate posting stuff on tumblr sometimes. Sorry for keeping this ask for so long though, and thank you very much for asking it! ❤

[dandylion240]

“Oh really,” an amused voice said behind him.

“Yeah really,” he asserted, turning to look up at the stranger.

“If I were a genie what would you have wished for?” the stranger asked with a knowing grin on his face.

“I’d have wished not to be a fairy,” Storm cried incautiously. “That Rickey would love my brother and for my dad to find love again.” Picking the bottle up he hurled it at the water. He stood watching it bob on the surface. “Wishes are stupid,” he muttered.