So, I didn't see anyone make a term for my experience with something, so I made it myself!
Anterospectrum (Anterospec / Antspec)
It’s name derives from the greek god of all types of Requited love (not just romantic), Anteros, child of Aphrodite. The butterfly on the flag is a reference to Anteros' wings.
“An Identity for an atypical sense of love, often characterized by it’s inability to distinguish types of love from each other, much like platoniromantic. Unlike platoniromantic, it's a spectrum! It can include anyone on the aplatonic-spectrum and anyone on the aromantic-spectrum. for some, it may be a fluxuating definition / viewpoint of love in general, it may be a fluid identity, or may be a fluid feeling about other people."
TL;DR: Platoniromantic mixed with a bit of aflux, except the "flux" part changes depending on the person.
and, just to be clear: this identity has no relation to sexuality!