Jul 3, 2012
Sensitivity Heightened awareness of oneself and others within the context of social and personal relationships.
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Sensitivity Heightened awareness of oneself and others within the context of social and personal relationships.
Journal 04/08/12
Breaking up sucks. true story Bro.
but it's never the actual Break up that manages to get us, is it? no. its the reason.
because, if someone comes over and says "im sorry, i just dont like you like that. i enjoy your sense of humour and your personality, but being scandalous with you just makes me over analyze our relationship, and im really more comfortable just being your best friend."
then i can be like "hmm... do we still get to play minecraft?" and he can be like "pshduh!" and then i'll be like "COOL"
and we'll eat ice cream and play minecraft, and i'll be chillin like will smith.
but there are certain things you shouldnt use as an excuse to break up a relationship.
telling me that you need to go find yourself. that you dont like who you're becoming. that you think you're becoming addicted to "stuff" (aka, sex. though, my advice for other people is that if the person you're having sex with, cant say the word "sex", you should probably not be having sex with them.) or that your brother (whom i am now sworn to kill) gave you a new outlook on life or, my personal favorite, "what will other people think?"
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Not my happy face.
when ending a relationship it's important to make it Very clear where the boundaries lie. whether this relationship involves formal dating, casual dating, or just being friends with benefits. no one likes the confusion that comes with not knowing where you stand.
in conclusion, be honest with yourself and with your partner remember that there are things in the relationship that you are supposed to work out Together (which also should not be used as excuses to break up) and that if you're in a relationship and theres something that's bothering you, remember that there is not only one type of relationship that you can be in.
and dont give up on all relationships just because one turned out sucky. letting people in may be painful, but im slowly discovering that its the only way to find the good ones.
you cant see my facial expression, but i think it's funny... actually, i cant see my facial expression either.