#anti-bamon

[leianaberrie]

She didn't ofc

Not that we are surprised by plec bs and her issues with bonkai and even bamon now

She's always had issues with Bamon. She was just clever enough to weaponize Bamon against Bonkai, encouraging Bamon fans enough to think they had a chance and therefore feel threatened by Bonkai.

[chaosqueery]

Seriously, I really didn’t want to get into this. I just wanted to enjoy my ship and talk about it with someone else. But if you are going to put all this on my post and label them as “facts”, I’m not okay with that.

Your “facts” are either completely without context or are not facts at all, but what I said; opinions. And some of the reasons you seem to think Enzo is so bad for her can be applied to D*mon as well. How long did it take D*mon to appreciate Bonnie as a full person instead of someone who could help help them out of a magical bind? How many black women has D*mon been in love with? (and I don’t know why you think Enzo is more into white women. Did you forget about Maggie? She’s the woman who’s face he clung to in his mind to get him through decades worth of captivity and torture. And then D*mon killed her.) He might not have kidnapped her, but he did nearly kill her and was once willing to sacrifice her. And why wasn’t D*mon around? Because he locked himself away in a coffin and Bonnie felt like he had abandoned her.

I don’t know why you are even telling me about the tagging business if you aren’t grouping me with every other Delena fan. I didn’t say anything about your fandom. Hell, I didn’t even say anything about B*mon until you tried to use it against me. I haven’t been active in the Delena tag in years. Besides, Every. Fandom. Has. Confrontational. Fans. Especially big fandoms. I have seen a lot of B*mon fans come after us as well. What people don’t get is that only a small percentage of every fandom is like that, they are just so vocal, the rest of us get drowned out. And here you are, bad mouthing the Delena fandom for starting stuff, when you came on to a post that was part of a discussion I was having with someone else just to put bonenzo down. 

That’s it. I can’t do this anymore, especially after said I didn’t want it in the first place. Please stay in your lane or at least find someone who wants to keep going over it. If you keep bringing anti-bonenzo into my posts, I will block you.

[fluffycakesistainted]

"Why do some of you bonenzo shippers and delena and steroline shippers feel the need to be so evil? How would you feel if your ship wasn't canon atm or if other shippers continuously rubbed it in your face that the ship you're so passionate about will never ever happen?". If these people weren't harassing the writers to change the story to suit their needs and just enjoyed their ship in fanon I wouldn't feel any need to rub it in their faces, but because of their behavior it's impossible not to!

Exactly! And I’m not usually a petty person at all, but boy do the bitter shippers and their utter terribleness bring it out of me. A few petty posts laughing at how much those in charge of the show give zero craps about what they think and how delusional they sound is nothing compared to the bile they spew into the fandom week after week. They act like they’re the only people to have their OTPs sink or not happen, or that it’s a crime against humanity. Maybe they don’t know this, but not every relationship is endgame, and barely any crack ships (cuz that’s what B*mon is at this point, a fuckin crack ship, ok?) will ever happen. They all need to get their damn lives and priorities together. 

[thepromisethatlovecouldbeeternal]

In 8x09, we could see again how much Bonnie loves Enzo. It is clear that Damon's heart belongs to Elena. It would be bad writing to change that in the last 7 episodes of TVD and make Bonnie fall in love with Damon and Damon fall in love with Bonnie. It would be so ooc and wouldn't make any sense!!

Yes thank you! I actually think Bonnie and Enzo are very cute. I am not a Bamon shipper, but I am all for Bonnie getting happiness, for all the characters to get their happy ending! We’ve seen it before, when Damon falls in love he falls hard. His love for Katherine was gone once he realized she never loved him, and was just manipulating him. He loves Elena so so so so so much more. He loved Katherine for over a century, how could anyone doubt that he wouldn’t love Elena for several centuries? For forever?

[antishippersunite-blog]

Update:

So it appears that new blog was in order. I cannot access the email associated with the original Anti blog, so I created a new email and blah blah blah... For future reference, please direct any asks/submissions to this blog, the original blog has been deleted (and sadly all that went with it.....including my connections) Those of you that made a submission recently, if you wouldn’t mind re-sending your post if you wish for me to publish it. I’m truly sorry for the inconvenience.....but it had to be done.

[langdonmels]

Bonnie Bennett for the character meme?

My NOTP for them

Bonnie/Damon oh my god I can’t stress enough about how much I despise this ship (granted I didn’t hate it nearly as much before that part of the BD fandom showed themselves) but really how could I possibly ship my baby girl with the worst character in existence?

My BROTP for them

Caroline, Elena, Jeremy, Matt, Tyler, Grams

My OTP for them

Enzo, obviously. I’m still bitter I was done so dirty I literally watched this entire fucking show for them and this is how I was treated I should have seen this coming.

My second choice pairing for them

If she hook up with Marcel, Jeremy, or Matt (in that order) I wouldn’t object tbh

My fluffy pairing for them

BE, BCE, Matt/Bonnie

My angsty pairing for them

 BE, Nora/Bonnie, Katherine/Bonnie

My favorite poly ship for them

Bonnie/Enzo/Marcel, Bonnie/Enzo/Jeremy

My weirdest pairing for them

idk tbh Tyler/Bonnie maybe? Katherine/Bonnie tho

[langdonmels]

Ric and Damon's friendship is still, well they aren't really friends lately. Damon was awful at the wedding he gave less fucks about Enzo than Stefan, and Stefan killed the guy like really bro. Honestly B/D friendship was mildly good in S6 and Damon went back to his selfish behavior. He never changed and never will.

I actually liked it a bit in S6 (but I was also bitter bc it was developed in one episode and came out of “nowhere”.... aka every complaint against BE ever but anyway) and even in S7B (and I actually liked Damon like a tad in the end of S7 post-coffin...but this was likely BEs influence and Bonnie being pissed with him) but Damon is just a total mess in season 8 and even now that’s he’s “Damon” again... he’s still a fucking dickhead and Bonnie deserves to aneurism the hell out of him. 

[langdonmels]

these writers are really trying to piss people off lol. How come whenever someone would get siphoned before they would feel a considerable amount of pain, but Bonnie had no idea it was happening to her? ALSO, just as far as consistency goes I'm so annoyed at how Damon is suddenly needing a new drinking buddy (that scene w/ drunk stefan) when Bonnie is still fucking there. So bc she's grieving the loss of her love he just decides he's not interested helping her or their friendship all together?

I’m all about appreciating m/f platonic friendships (anyone who has followed me for any other fandom knows this) - but hell, this friendship is utter shit and Damon is awful and his line about “I’m happy about having you back” or whatever - back from what????? grieving????????? where the fuck were you during this????? - and yeah, the drinking buddy bit annoyed me for lots of reasons (hello, Alaric still exists) but I read it more that he needed one for that night.