Nov 9, 2025
I think it should have become obvious to me that I'm on the ace spectrum when the first time sex was actually explained to me my first reaction was "why tho?" And has been my reaction to every sex scene I've read and watched. like seriously. why. I don't. I don't get it. kissing and cuddling? fine. cute. sex? ...I'm good.
#ace#acespec#asexual#asexual spectrum#asexual struggles#tmi probably#idk#I was having thoughts today#why does no one talk about the you figure out you're LGBTQ+#but not how#difficult difficult#anyway#any... anyone else?#free to tag#and add#Funnily enough this doesn't apply as much to showering with a partner.#ugh#I'm reading don't let the forest in#and I've never related more to a character#Andrew and I are soul mates I think