#appearance doesn't matter

[wanderingmind867]

My dad's coming home by 9 am. I'm not sure if we're going to do downtown today, since it apparently feels like -20 outside. I'm not sure what we should do, but my dad's coming home early anyways. I guess we'll collectively decide once he's home.

I'm trying to write notes on here, but I'm having so many issues. The tags for tumblr aren't working like I want them to. My hair is full of dead skin. I have really bad heartburn. I don't feel great and I feel like I'm close to one of those big sensory meltdowns again. So I may blow up at my dad when he gets home. I'm just frustrated. I don't know why, but I hate it.

[11fflower11]

If you say "appearance doesn't matter'', you're a liar. Appearance always matters, even if you don't want to admit it, it's true. You care what someone looks like.

[mondflut]

you are not your age

nor the size of the clothes you wear

you are not your weight

or the colour of your hair

you are not your name

or the dimples in your cheeks

you are all the books you read

and all the words you speak

you are your croaky morning voice

and the smiles you try to hide

you're the sweetness in your laughter

and every tear you've cried

you're the songs you sing so loudly

when you know you're all alone.

you're the places that you've been to

and the ones that you call home

you're the things that you believe in

and the people that you love

you're the photos in your bedroom

and the future you dream of

you're made of so much beauty

but it seems that you forgot

when you decided that you were defined

by all the things you're not

"Not" by Erin Hanson

[bangtan-mental]

Do you think Suga would go well with a girl who is more on the shorter side, but not super petite and skinny, more average? 158cm and 56kg to be exact. It may seem like a lot for my height compared to korean idols, but Im still normal range. Think similar CL's size in weight.

hi, i really don’t think Suga cares about how tall you are or how much you weigh. if your personality is something he likes that’s all that’s gonna matter, weight can always fluctuate and everything, it’s not like you’ll stay 56 kg your whole life. 

i hope more of you come to terms with the fact that when it comes to love and relationships appearance is the last thing that matters. if someone loves you just because you’re a certain height/weight and wants to break up with you the minute you gain a kg or lose one, then that person’s a jerk and he deserves to be kicked so hard he can’t have babies. 

please be confident in the way you are.

[vindictive-muse-blog]

2.

I’d like to think that there are people out there who care more about what you are than what your face looks like

[yourcoffinawaitsdarling-blog]

I fucking LOVE when people try to "warn me" that people may not find my hair cuts/colors or body modifications "attractive". OH GOOD THING YOU TOLD ME! I WAS SOOOOO WORRIED ABOUT IT. YOU HAVE REALLY SAVED ME FRIEND. THANKS TO YOU I WILL NOT GROW OLD ALONE! No. The only person who needs to find me physically attractive is the person I'm sleeping with and he thinks I'm lovely. As for everyone else, if my physical appearance is so important to you that it would cause you not to want to associate with me.... GOOD. Like me for me or fuck right off.

[pancakes-are-yum]

My life 🍩🍩🍩

[cutchbassidy]

Henceforth no more pictures of faces with the poems.