#aro venting

[alien-ally]

aro vent ahead:

reblog with aro rage only. vent to your heartless heart's content /sar - aro filled with fury

[worldweaver3791]

alloromantics really do be out here just making themselves and everybody else miserable, huh.

[calicostorms]

[josnowchovi]

Im kind of. Tired of my love not being enough for my allo friends.

AND I DONT MEAN THAT IN A WAY THAT MEANS LIKE THEYRE BAD PPL

But their romantic partners will always be 100% more important to them. And I can’t blame them. Even if it does hurt sometimes.

It’s so annoying bc. I adore you just as much as them. Maybe more so. But because we aren’t romantically involved? I’m tired of my love being less then. It’s not. It’s loud. I have so much of it to give.

But it will never be enough for them.

And I hate that this further drives allonormativity bc I fear only a partner I’m romantically involved with will accept my love as enough. As worthy. And I don’t know how to feel abt that.

[basedtater]

something that really gets my goat where i feel like I don't belong in the aro community no matter how hard I try is like how much I still crave commitment and companionship.

i cannot relate to many of my friends who do not want any kind of serious commitment or to be alone all of the time, it drives me batty. i may not be made for romantic relationships but i was definitely built for companionship in more intimate ways than just textbook standard friendship

im tired of attempting to be in romantic relationships because they don't work either but im not sure how to find people who are like me and just looking for a friend to build an actual platonic commitment to in life. this is especially difficult for someone who like me who is very possibly autistic but regardless has a difficult time with developing lasting friendships to begin with

maybe im still just too attached to amanormativity or something idk