#aro rambles

[ask-the-shiny-pokemons]

Well, time to say goodbye to 2025. It might not be a great year, yet I have some fun things happened irl and online, including working on blogs more.

Now I have...11 BLOGS...oh man, it's going to be tough but I hope I could manage to work on at least one for 2026. That's one of my goals for this year.

I might not be as much active as this year because - I GOT A JOB SINCE LAST MONTH (sorta, cause I haven't been paid yet). Hopefully by the mid-January it will happen. (Haven't worked much in December cause the place was busy)

My list for next year's:

Work on every blog at least once.

Finish up the mini story in @aro-pokeverse

Reboot @the-lumiose-goodies

Work and host the Rimielle wedding event

Stop eating too much food cause it was a bit of a problem to me.

Buy more Switch (and not only) games and I guess Switch 2?. Not sure but it will definitely depends on work and how efficiently I will safe the money.

Start to actively commission artists.

Travel, cause it's been a while...

So, that's about I could say

Again, thank you everyone from the community because YOU ALL RULE!

Again, hoping the next year will be better, but who knows yet again.

See you all in 2026!

[shiutsu]

CW:Gore

Allopls try not to assume every single aro is friendship obsessed maniac. Or that everyone has a best friend. No,no we fucking don't. Not everyone has someone that's willing to stay or just put them as a 1st choice.

Or any type of love. It doesn't matter. Some of us are aplatonic/afamiliar/loveless/etc.

Not everyone wants to/has spend their life with someone. No matter if they have the chance or not (some of us are unlikeable & don't have the nerves to bother w ppl when we know they're not gonna like us anyways no matter how we'll try or we just had enough of the treatment we received).

I said this like 400 times already but not everyone feels love & has the ppl 4 it.

This is like every post in the aro hashtag whenever I open the feed,it makes me mad. If I could block this shit,I would,but considering ppl don't tag their posts smth like alloplatonic or platonic favorable, I'd have to block the entire hashtag,which is no.

It pisses me off. & its not just these sentences,it can be anything w love or partnerships.

btw if you're a normal allopl that doesn't say this shit or doesn't think this,this isn't targeted towards you. This isn't supposed to offend anyone,but the amount of shit I see pisses me off, especially the platonic stuff, considering that friendships was smth that ruined my life & make me overthink.

[feelingthedisaster]

amanormativity's been hitting hard lately, anyone got some aro positivity? idk, a meme, happy life update, anything really, quick reminder you can live aro happily

[thechronicsloth]

Am I the only one who loves the near lack of romance in One Piece?

Which is one of the reasons I was extremely disappointed when they made Usopp in love with Kaya in the live action series. I was extremely disappointed with the live action of OP in general, but that's a story for another day... But just, it went from a story about friendship and deep (platonic) connections, to something cliché and, in my view, boring and reductive.

Not to mention the fact that Luffy, Nami and Zoro are probably all very much aroace (Luffy almost certainly) but these 3 are usually the most shipped and sexualized characters in the fandom.

Sorry, just using aromantic spectrum awareness week to rant about something that has been bothering me about one of my favourite animes. Maybe I'll finally find someone who gets it...

[thymelessink]

I think it's a shame that English doesn't have two ways of saying "I love you". In German you can say "Ich liebe dich" which has a more romantic connotation or "Ich habe dich lieb" which usually refers to a more platonic love. I've only ever said "Ich habe dich lieb" to my mum and friends for example. Being aroace sometimes means I don't feel like saying "I love you" conveys how I feel about the people I like. "Ich habe dich lieb" however would. When I say "I love you" about celebrities, I never mean that I want to be romantically involved with them, but the feeling is platonic and I'd love to be their friend and spend time with them, talk to them etc. And "Ich habe dich lieb" would perfectly portray that feeling.

[alien-ally]

aro vent ahead:

reblog with aro rage only. vent to your heartless heart's content /sar - aro filled with fury

[thatcasualgamergirl]

Some random AroAce ramblings

How is a fictional character more good-looking than most of y’all?! Do y’all really be bested by Vegeta DBZ?!

I realized I was Ace when I thought that “smash” in smash or pass meant you want that character in Super Smash Bros. Like, hell yeah I want Shadow the Hedgehog in Smash, that would be so cool!

I realized I was Aro when I would rather have chocolate than romance on Valentine’s Day. And also cuz no one looked “datable” in my class.

How is a butt pleasing to allos?

Everyone’s saying on here that they wanna have sex with [insert favorite character that gets massively simped on]. I just wanna be that guys friend.

Once I figure out the differences between romantic, sexual, sensual, and aesthetic attraction it’s so over for y’all.

I would rather have a character wear a dope-looking outfit than nothing at all.

[the-lumiose-goodies]

The decision has been made!

I've decided to hard reboot this blog because I really don't like that I have started it almost just after Legends Z-A reveal in 2024 and one year later...we now have a new version of Lumiose.

All posts, including fanart, interactions with other blogs have been moved to @crossingshinies. I only left references (including the AU, ask hints, and pinned.

Also updated the latter with a huge revamp (might plan to update for the other blogs too).