aryainwinterfell replied to your photoset āPeople donāt like her because she is feminine. It annoys me that...ā
What what I find horrifying about this quote is that it suggests that there is only one right way to be feminine. That would suggest that Padme is acting like a male character during all the times she's wearing pants, engaging in physical combat, and shooting a blaster. That's not true of course, but this quote, and that actress, are incredibly sexist toward women who don't conform to the patriarchal definition of femininity.
Thatās not what this is about at all. Sheās criticizing this āstrong female characterā trope that says strong female characters are the female characters that act like men. Sophie is criticizing the people who call Sansa stupid for being pretty, for liking songs and romance. And the people who call her weak because of that. Itās the same thing with PadmĆ©. Both characters are extremely āfeminineā and romantic and they both are call weak for it. Itās not about criticizing female characters who are not feminine, itās about criticizing the misguided notion that a strong female character is a character that behaves like a strong male character. when the truth is, any female character can be a strong female character.
She said that (āfeminine characters when they act like male charactersā) female characters that act like man are still feminine characters. How could it be a āāpatriarchal definition of femininityā when she didnāt even mention what āfeminineā means? Sheās not discussing or judging what is or what isnāt feminine, she is just saying: thereās more than one way to be a strong female character. She is not even criticizing female characters that act like man. She is criticizing the publicās reaction to female characters that donāt.
Look at every major franchise. The female characters are all the same type of strong (fighters that could beat a man up) and they are loved for it. but when you put a different type of female character on screen, someone like Sansa or Padme, someone who doesnāt fight, someone who is more involved in politics, who like pretty dresses and dreams the public rejects them because they are not āstrongā.
Feminism is about womenās right to chooseĀ who they want to be. And that means respecting that a woman can be whatever she wants, whether itās a warrior, a wife or anything else in between. Saying that thereās anything wrong with women who are WANT to be romantic, have families, get married or ādress prettyā, is quite the the opposite of feminism.