#asexism

[masomutilation]

Asexism A- (away from/without, as in Abinary), sexism (as in exorsexism, as in cissexism) The oppression that comes from being outside of, and by extension unaligned with the 2 binary genders, feminine and/or masculine. A subset of Exorsexism, but describes an experience specific to itself. Intended for use by Abinary people.

What was it made for? For Abinaries to be able to safely talk about their oppression without confusion or harrassment from non-abinaries. Asexism was not intended to be used within discussions that center non-abinaries (ex. a discussion primarily speaking on exorsexism/transphobia towards multigender people) and I am staunchly against my words being used to forward things like (trans)misogyny, racism, intersexism, sexual abuse apologia and anything similar.

[masomutilation]

you people have to become more accepting of abinary dysphoria because it does not cut it to go “just get over yourself”. ceasing to exist is my “transition goal” because humanity in all ways isnt built to house me. i have no support system. i have to personally be palatable to my peers, online and offline, and however they want to discriminate against me in casual conversation every single day and if i dont act like whatever gender they, personally, want me to (which is constantly changing for every person, all “model expectations” equally as violently wrong and demeaning) i am harrassed for it. i am constantly on the verge of homelessness and i know that nobody would take me in, nobody would care for me if i wasnt constantly degrading myself for their pleasure. gendered society wants only to break me and put me back together in their image. because i will not, i cannot, defang myself, i will always face violence. violence from cis people, trans people, nonbinary people, the list goes on. for as long as i am here, i am not safe. if there is no change, i will not keep living.