#asexual man

[camouflagedacecowboy]

You know what they say, a loaf a day keeps the Allosexuals away. *Throws garlic bread crumbs at the nearest Allosexual.* THE POWER OF CARBS COMPELS YOU!

[the-dealer-hermes]

what if I hop on that dih

He would not approve, he has to get to know you and even then, he still probably would not approve 🥹💔

[fucknugg3t]

*runs up to the nearest queer man.*

Listen!! Listen to me listen not every queer is going to be a queen! Not every queer is a queen! The point of queerness is to not put people into boxes! No one should be telling you masculinity can’t be queer! No one should tell you you can’t be masculine and queer or a man and queer! Or have a dick and be queer! Or whatever else!! No one should be telling you how to be! The point of queerness is to not be told what to be! To be whatever you are!!

[galaxypest]

So, apparently asexual people are called ‘aces’? And the symbol is an ace of spades? If this is true, I have only one question:

Does that mean I get to be the Ace in the hole?

[firemoonlily]

I need some help guys. So, in the story/book I’ve been writing with Dror and Alese, I’ve got a celibate character who is sexually attracted to people but doesn’t want to have sex because they’re afraid that they’re going to pass on something, and another is an asexual man who eventually falls in love with a girl that’s already in a committed relationship.

I’m not sure how to write the asexual character, and not make them seem just like another celibate character. The ace man loves the woman, but doesn’t want to have sex with her because he honestly doesn’t see the big deal about sex, but eventually it is arranged for him and the woman to marry so that people don’t discover who the father of her baby actually is (the best friend of the ace man) as it would put the woman and her baby in danger, but she doesn’t want to give up the baby because she feels like it’s not the kid’s fault that it was conceived. In order to make a believable cover-up despite everyone knowing the ace man is, well, ace, they claim that they only had sex to consummate the marriage, and that’s when she got pregnant. In truth, they don’t have sex as the woman knows he would be uncomfortable and they are close friends (hence why she, her lover, and the ace husband agreed to the whole thing). The woman and her husband agree not to have sex with each other, and the woman decides to become celibate upon hearing of her lover’s death.

Obviously, the asexual man’s personality and character is fleshed out more during the actual story, and I’m not going to hide his sexual orientation, though I’m not entirely sure when I’ll explicitly tell the reader (most of the other characters already know his sexuality in the beginning of the story and sexuality isn’t the main focus of it). Does that sound good? Is it a bad representation of the asexual man?