hello! i am so sorry for bothering you, i can't find sleepyheaded on tumblr anymore?? do you happen to know where she went? i haven't used tumblr much lately and i can't find any trace of her anymore! i came upon your tumblr while searching for her.. do you know what happened and if she's okay? i pretty much joined tumblr (years ago) because of her and i'm so heartbroken that she might have totally disappeared. please let me know if you know anything, i would really appreciate it.
I’ve seen other people also asking around for sleepyheaded so I hope you don’t mind that I make this public.Several weeks back sleepyheaded made an announcement on their tumblr that they were leaving it (either temporarily or permanently, they did not know) to focus back on their own life. As far as I know, as of maybe 1-2 months ago they seemed to be doing fine but that’s all I can say since it seems they’ve deleted most of their known social media accounts. We were also facebook friends but then I found out recently they had unfriended me (I don’t take it personal tho, it looks like many of their online friends also no longer have contact with them - I guess they wanted a fresh new start).
I hope that reassures those of you who are worried about them.
On a side note, I will also point out that sleepyheaded have identified themself as he/him/they/them for a good while now and earlier this year chose a new name. I hope everyone will have the decency to refer to sleepyheaded with their proper pronouns from now on, whether the latter can see/hear your words or not. :)