#assumption game

[whimsysful]

Assumption game: you live on the East coast?

yes! i live in new york (feel p comfortable disclosing that given the number of people in the city). writing wm has required me to research northern california more deeply than i feel is really ethical for an east coast girlie

(play the assumptions game w me!)

[needytinydollie420]

i want all my followers 2 send me porn they see me recreatin with them 4 my sluttiest n all drooly cuz stoned dumb goony ass porn content of mineeeeee

[victimeyez]

you are a very normal, pleasant, well adjusted person.

idk everyone I know who writes fucked up shit is really nice irl

I'm not sure I could count as normal, but I otherwise strive to be a very pleasant and level-headed person. I have had similar experiences with other writers of fucked up stuff being very chill when I talk to them, and it's great!

[kitcatling]

For the assumptions game, I think you probably are the one keeping all your coworkers in line. You have

I doubt it.

I’m just a cashier. And pretty easygoing.

[keelpay]

i assume you aren’t a multi shipper and operate under otp consumption

that's a pretty solid assumption, yeah. i do read other ships, to mix it up or because it's just good writing or it's straight up hot, but i am otp to my core

[batsydoodle]

I assume that you have either a corset or a super chunky belt in your wardrobe. Why? Idk actually. I just get the vibes

WOW You just clocked me HARD Kit, damn. Not only do i have multiple chunky belts and corsets I also have big chunky 5 inches platform boots and heels in my wardrobe. Most of all that is for drag purposes tho

[misscammiedawn]

This might be an unfair assumption for the ask game because it's somewhat subjective — but I assume you are extremely harsh on yourself / hold yourself to much higher standards than you hold others

TRUE

Always true. Pretty much across the system, too.

As much as we kink on being able to control others and have an air of manipulation and seduction about us (me?) - I am the one thing in life I can control and thus I am responsible for my thoughts, decisions and actions.

Which... can ring unfair. I am mentally ill and have put in a lot of work to mitigate that (this weekend proved that... there is still work to be done) but am I truly in control of my thoughts and emotions?

I am able to mitigate the fall and limit the damage, but I wouldn't do this and be this if I could truly control it.

And so really, especially with being plural, 'controlling myself' is as much soothing, appeasing and making space for me as it is for others. I am as able to stop myself from having a mental/emotional breakdown as I am from stopping my girlfriend having an anxiety attack.

I need to be okay about not having that control and forgive myself for being imperfect.

...but I have to live with the consequences of my failures...

Nothing will bring back the families we walked away from. Nothing will stop the voice (not always Camden) saying how we could have and should have done better.

So... we hold ourselves up to the highest standard...

Because to not do so makes the Worst Outcome, the evidenced outcome an inevitability. Unless we hold ourselves to The Standard.

[probablily]

I'm sorry, I will always perceive you as the fandom's baby like "That's our lily, she's just a baby, don't you touch a hair on her little head!"

My assumption is that you are very pretty and kind irl and probably everyone who meets you loves you 💕

SECOND PERSONTO SAY THIS TO ME 😇

and i hope everyone nowadays likes me but actually in high school my best friend mailed me a friendship break up letter because she said i was actually being mean to her the whole time and also she couldn't see the light of god in me anymore or smthg like that and that she'd see how i'd Changed and was Now Awful and then she never answered my texts again... so not Everybodyy that i meet loves me