What’s vixenamoric or todamoric
Vixenamoric is a term that was coined on Twitter by exclusionists/transphobes (though a lot of their behaviours were or are transforming to be downright TERF-like to no shock) for lesbians who felt that their spaces were being “invaded” by nonbinary lesbians or lesbians who used pronouns other than she/her to specifically exclude them, stating it as the explicit attraction of she/her women to she/her women. This was primarily done out of malice, as the user who coined the label believes lesbians cannot be enby or use non-she/her pronouns (which is a very... poor understanding, if not a complete lack of, towards lesbian history or the nature of being lesbian).
Todamoric is the mlm/gay equivalent of that, coined by someone who is a bi/cis girl on Instagram (as far as I’m aware! It’s what I’ve heard, but I know it wasn’t a mlm who coined it, at least in the moment of it being coined) meant to exclude non-he/him or enby gays as, yet again, the exclusionists/transphobes consider their identities invalid and nonexistent, dubbing them to have “invaded” their spaces.
I honestly don’t think it’s unreasonable to want terms to describe your attraction if you literally just don’t feel it towards nonbinary folx (which is fair! My attraction to enbies is very rare, honestly, and kind of confusingly? Idk why it’s like that, but that is attraction I suppose) since that’s not quite a factor you can control, but seeing as these terms were specifically made because the people in question are incredibly controlling of nonbinary identities (ie, insisting that enby = a lack of gender, that enbies can only use enby-specific terms like trixic or toric, and that we MUST use they/them pronouns/that pronouns always = gender, etc.) and dubbing us “invaders” of their spaces, their origins and present usage are riddled with malice and transphobia, to which, for reasons of their motivations, makes me severely uncomfortable.
