i don't care what anyone says, i WILL be shifting solely for my s/os "it's not healthy" "there's more to shifting than just romance" I DONT CAREEEEEEEE what is wrong with desiring and seeking romantic affection
some of y'all are getting a little funny with how stingy you are with the terminology OTHER PEOPLE use😭😭 i get the whole 'you should embody who you are in your dr' and blah blah but saying "don't say 'my dr self', say 'myself in my dr' 😫" is starting to sound like those autism moms that tell you to not say "autistic people" but "people with autism" instead 💀
(if you want to be strict with the terms you use, go ahead! but i refer to myself in this reality in third person as well???? so how would that affect my ability to shift...)
honestly haven't been so focused on shifting these days and it's been really freeing. i know i'm going to shift because i decided so a long time ago, so in the meantime i'm just doing things that i enjoy in my daily life instead of stressing over the 'when'. things have been going very good and i know the 2022 - 2024 versions of myself would be very proud of me :]
reminder to shifters : you do not need to use ai to get shifting motivation! ai is toxic to our society and planet and you should not be promoting using it, i don't care what the circumstances are. it is very disappointing to see so many people promote the use of ai apps for motivation when all you could do instead is just.... shift? there are genuinely no excuses
some of you (emphasis on SOME... but if you get mad at this, then well......) need to learn boundaries and the definition of TMI. i don't care that it's a different reality, there are things that you shouldn't share so freely on the internet. if it only relates to you, fine then that's your choice—but if it includes ANYONE from your DR you NEED to realize that there are some limits to what you should share and they didn't give permission for you to tell anyone about it
this is heavily aimed at someone i saw a while ago sharing explicit storytimes of their sex life in their DR.. news flash: i don't think your boyfriend (who is barely an adult, mind you) wanted you to share those private moments to random people you don't know on the internet like it was a fanfic
I CANT DO HYPERFIXATIONS ANYMORE!!!!! I JUST WANT TO STAY CONSISTENT IN WHAT I LIKE AND WHAT DR I FOCUS ON I CANT DO THIS SWITCHING INTERESTS EVERY MONTH IM TIRED LEAVE ME ALONE LET ME LIVE PEACEFULLY
[ 👤 ] GET TO KNOW ME . . ! let's start off simple: who are you? what's your stage name? are you in a group or are you a soloist? are you known worldwide or are you your fandom's little secret?
[ 🫧 ] BUBBLING FRIENDSHIP . . ! if you're in a group, who are your members? what's your relationship with them? if you aren't in a group, who are your closest idol friends? how did you meet?
[ 📂 ] KEEP IT PROFESH . . ! what are some drastic measures you've had to take to avoid spreading rumours? does your company implement "weird" rules? are there any times you've had to stay professional when you were close to losing control?
[ 🎧 ] MUSIC IS MY LIFE . . ! what are your favourite songs to perform? how about record? is there a song in your discography you absolutely loathe but the fans love?
[ 📽️ ] CUT THE CAMERAS . . ! are there any embarrassing moments that live on the internet forever? what prompted it? has it become an inside joke among your fans and members?
[ 🎲 ] ONE IN A MILLION . . ! define your impact [ or your group's impact ] on the industry. have you lifted barriers? have you shook the scene? have you started trends and changed routines?
[ 🥣 ] DINNER IS SERVED . . ! what are your most viral moments? what are things fans can expect and rely on you for? outstanding performances? always looking your best? witty commentary on a variety show? keeping it "real"?
[ ⛓️ ] HATERS GON HATE . . ! how do you handle hate? whether that be from non-fans or jealous colleagues. do you fire back? do you write a diss track? or do you take the high road because you know you're above them?
[ 🫐 ] THAT'S SO ME . . ! what is your representative animal? or perhaps it's a simple emoji? do you have a representative colour and/or symbol? what do these represent within your group and/or concept?
[ 📞 ] BABY YOU'RE A SCANDAL . . ! have you ever done something behind your company's back? they told you specifically not to do it, yet you did it anyway? were you caught? how did fans react?
[ 🖇️ ] TWO-IN-ONE . . ! we all know k-pop is very well known for its ships and duos... are you involved in an iconic pairing? how did this start? is it a natural friendship [ perhaps more . . ] or a forced pr stunt?
[ 📰 ] OH WHO IS YOU . . ! is there anyone in the industry that you really can't stand? someone who gets on your nerves no matter what they do? what happened between you two? is there a happy ending in sight?
[ 📖 ] STATS & NUMBERS . . ! have you broken any records? what are your average # of digital streams? first week sales? will we see you [ or your group ] topping the billboard charts?
[ ❔ ] MISC. QUESTION . . ! whoever sends this emoji may ask whatever question they want regarding your k-pop dr(s)!
