Oof that was not it
Love this guy!!!
But I have to say the E version of 3D is the first BTS-related song that I don't want to play on principle. Anyhoo, I'm not here to write directly about why JaHa's part is ick for me; what really got under my skin today were the arguments calling people out for criticizing it.
(1) "It's not misogynistic if she's consenting." What. Consent just makes it not assault and that's a low bar for me to want to support a song.
(2) "You're a prude." Got no problem with explicit lyrics or multiple partners but don't appreciate women being lined up as interchangeable conquests and whatever that reference to dead bodies was.
(3) "Guys their age think like this." Maybe but that's no reason not to keep fighting against normalizing that.
(4) "This is nothing compared to most rap." Exactly, and this is why I'll only listen to the kind that doesn't degrade women in the lyrics.
(5) "You're infantalizing and trying to control the artist." This is not telling him to stop smoking or go to bed or not to experiment with his music. He can of course do as he thinks best but if I think he's gone in a dodgy direction on a serious issue, I'm going to say it.
(6) "Trust JK, all that should matter is that this was his choice." Nope, because despite being called idols they are not gods but humans who make mistakes and have errors of judgment. We are proud that Joon listened to critiques of earlier lyrics and learned. How can that happen with blind sycophancy no matter what?
I don't write much anymore but damn I had to get that out of my system. As you were!!!









