My basic idea of what Nubia and Blade's dynamic would be, from start to finish, would be this:
- Nubia and Blade met by chance on a mission to stop a vampiric threat that was threatening the world, overlapping goals and circumstances lead them to work together. This was before Nubia became Queen of the Amazon's in my canon and before her relationship with Io.
- Nubia has always been strong and compassionate and wouldn't immediately condemn Blade and wouldn't just focus on his vampirism, she simply sees it as one of the many things that make him the complex individual that he is. Meanwhile, Blade's resilience and ability to endure despite seeing himself as "cursed" would cause Nubia to fall for him, especially during the moments when he extended a softness to Nubia that he tried to hide.
- I can't think of a specific scenario but at some point in their journey/battle against the threat, Nubia has already established herself as someone who can make Blade feel genuinely safe and protected, even when he loses himself to his vampire side, and they engaged in intimacy at the mutual need for comfort and safety or in a vulnerable moment where they can't hide their growing care and passion for each other.
- However, once they were done, Blade would immediately pull back once he realized how vulnerable he made himself (IT'S GENETIC) but Nubia remained patient with him but knew that their priorities and circumstances would cause their relationship to be short-lived but that doesn't mean it was any less important to her or him.
- They would separate after their children are born, establishing how they would both be present and became united by the love they shared for their children rather than the love they shared for each other. Their romance dwindles but the flames of respect and mutual care for the other are still there.
- Nubia would definetly be one of the few people Blade could trust, her strength making everyone around her (including him) feel protected and even though they aren't together and she has moved on, he still relaxes in her presence and trusts her a lot more than he displays. Blade is still a mystery to Nubia but she understands most of him, which is more than most people can say. She finds herself amused when he does something she doesn't expect but never gets frustrated with him, as long as this mystery doesn't impact their children negatively.
- In regards to Io, Nubia would not hide or pretend her fling with Blade did not exist because she honors what they had and she adores the children she gained from it. Io is deeply devoted to Nubia and her children, making it clear that she wouldn't pose a threat to Blade and his bonds with his children, and be humble enough to ask them for advice. While Blade is not nearly as open to her as Nubia, he does respect her as their step mom, and knows she is just as protective of them.
- He's also glad that Nubia found someone more deserving of her love, but he still thinks of their initial relationship with a sort of underlying softness and regret. Meanwhile, Nubia just wishes that Blade can find solace and peace with himself and the world, she will take moments to ask how he is but won't pry because she knows better than to push him when he doesn't want to open up.
- Nubia would definetly address him as "Blade" and rarely call him "Eric" unless she's confiding him or needs his help regarding their children. Nubia only addresses him with his real name when she's trying to talk to the man she once loved and the father of her children and Blade surprisingly doesn't have a problem with it, because he trusts her with his name, and knows that she says it with care and concern rather than malice or shame.
- Bashira and Bakari are aware that their parental situation isn't exactly typical and Nubia and Blade don't really discuss their initial relationship before them, not out of shame, but because it's not what matters to them right now. Nubia would just say: "Love is a complicated thing. What I had with your father is not something I regret but it was also doomed from the start. Regardless, I would do it all over again because it gave me the two loves of my life." and she kisses their heads. Meanwhile if they ask Eric about it, he'd be sincere but also practical with the details: "Sometimes the bonds we make can't survive the things we have to do." And if their children asked if they still love each other, Nubia's response would be immediate and truthful: "Yes, I do. Love can take many shapes and while it may not look the same as it did, I will always love your father." meanwhile, Blade would be caught somewhat off gaurd before he answers in an uncharacteristically genuine way: "I do. Maybe not like I used to before but I do."
- They both go to each other when their children are struggling with a heritage that they don't understand. If Nubia can sense her children's fear of their vampire side, she'd immediately call Blade and he prefers being called as soon as possible to help his kids. If Bakari or Bashira were dealing with something from their divine side, Blade would want to try and fix it but if he realizes he can't do it on his own, he will call Nubia to help him keep their children safe.
- Nubia's love also extends to Brielle, while she would never want to replace her actual mother, Safron—who I lowkey think would greatly respect Nubia—and Bashira and Bakari greatly love her and because she's another part of Blade, Nubia can't help but develop a soft spot. BUT ALSO, BLADE DID DO A BAD JOB AT LETTING BRIELLE KNOW ABOUT HER OLDER SIBLINGS. Because in all fairness, he tried to hide Brielle from this stuff and he did tell Bashira and Bakari until her powers manifested so Nubia was surprised but helped calm down Bashira and Bakari's outrage. Bashira felt as though this reinforced her worry that Blade was scared of her and her power while Bakari was just offended he had a whole other sister he didn't know about.
- NO, BECAUSE YOU KNOW THESE THREE ARE SO SICK OF BLADE'S DAD LORE, MAN. But regardless, Nubia would deeply care for Brielle and offer her wisdom and guidance, prioritizing her the same way she'd prioritize her other children and even though she isn't her child, she'd provide a softness that Blade isn't known for.